Why do you like to stay alone in your own little world and don t want to be co opted by others?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-29
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is related to one's own living environment, one's inner world, and one's own character. Always trying to close yourself off. Staying in your own little world, not wanting to be disturbed by others, and not wanting to contact outsiders, I have said this sentence before, so I am also deeply touched to see you say such things.

    There may be a little inferiority complex in personality, and I am not good at interpersonal communication, the main reason is that I am too inferior and unconfident. I always want to escape, so I want to stay in my own little world, and I don't want to be disturbed by others. The best way to solve it is to keep a good mindset and be optimistic, and some of them are positive, I won't say much about them, but they are really difficult for us to do.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People have different personal preferences and needs, with some preferring to be alone and others needing social interaction. So, if you like to be alone in your own little world and don't want to be disturbed by others, it may be your personal personality trait or it may also be a sign of your inner exhaustion.

    Sometimes, people need to be alone to relax and recover, which can help them recharge and relieve stress and fatigue. Additionally, some people find that being alone allows them to have more time and space to think, reflect, plan, and solve problems. In their own little world, they can do what they love as they wish, such as reading, meditating, practicing yoga, listening**, etc., these activities can help them relax and reduce anxiety and stress.

    On the other hand, constant solitude can also lead to feelings of loneliness and depression. If a person spends too much time alone, it can make them feel isolated, neglected, and excluded. Therefore, moderate socialization and interaction are important for maintaining physical and mental health.

    In conclusion, it's understandable to prefer to be alone in your own little world, but if this preference affects your daily life and mental health, you can consider taking some positive steps to build closer connections with others, such as participating in social activities, joining interest groups, making new friends, and so on.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I'm tired, I like to be quiet, live quietly in my own world, don't be disturbed, there are not so many disturbances, intrigue, it's good to be alone!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because you're too introverted, you have to be in touch with people more, I know you've been alone for a long time, so you don't want to be in contact with people outside, and I'm sometimes like you, but we still have to face society, so we have to go to some activities by ourselves.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    That's because you're a quiet person, you don't like to be busy, you want to think for yourself, and you want to do something you like. Because this is the case myself, I spend my spare time answering questions, and I just do what I like, and I am very happy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You're used to living in your own world, and you're going to learn to go out and embrace the world, and you're going to have a lot of fun.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's a house, I like to be quiet, there's nothing wrong with it, I'm comfortable and comfortable by myself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is the gender difference of each person, the difference in tutoring and so on and so forth. Being different doesn't mean being different from others. It doesn't mean you're out of place. Don't think too much about it, it's just a sign that you care more about yourself.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is nothing bad, of course, it is better to have the ability to face the outside world, stay in your own little world when you have nothing to do, go out to deal with the problems outside, don't cause trouble, but don't be afraid of things, do your best.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If you think about problems, this is a natural thing, and if you do it often, it means that you have a problem in your heart. In the long run, it will develop into autism, so you should change yourself while it is not serious!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Introverted, even withdrawn.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Masters are accustomed to loneliness, and they can keep loneliness before they can get prosperity!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My little world, there is only one feeling that I can find, and the days are dull but pleasant. —Epigraph In my world, there is no atmosphere of the hustle and bustle of the city during the day, only the quiet and peaceful peace of the countryside at night; There was no time when tens of millions of people were hot, only one person was quiet now. Quiet melancholy When I am alone, it is often when I am quiet and happy.

    I like to be quiet and do things slowly. Allow yourself to calm down. In the melodious sound, intoxicated; Indulge in the warmth of the sun.

    At this time, there is no struggle with time, let alone intrigue between people, there is only tranquility and joy. From time to time, I look at the blue sky, and the shape of the white clouds is sketched in my mind with a brush. Sometimes you hear the horn of a car, but it's just a fleeting sound.

    Crazy Madness When I am alone, it can also be my craziest time, listening to music and dancing in my room. I can't say this dance. Is it tango?

    Latin? Or is it a folk dance? I don't know.

    Just dancing without stopping, spinning with your eyes closed, jumping ......Slowly, you can form a kind of dance step on your own. Maybe that's the intoxication! As the song stopped and the next one began, the rhythm changed, and I started another dance step.

    Drunk self-forgetfulness When I am alone, it can also be the time when I am most selfless. In the sun, put an armchair and express the fragmentary thoughts during this time. Make paper with love, make pen with thought, and start writing!

    Every word, every paragraph, is the thought, the mood of the moment! Write and write, get drunk, praise. I sang it to the moon, and her light became softer, and I sang it to the sun, and his light became richer!

    There are thousands of egos in my world, crazy, quiet, drunk, happy, sad ......Sometimes I'm fascinated by the night sky, and sometimes I'm looking at a book. But this is what I tell you is true, and although the days are dull, they make my heart happy.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Because your character is like this.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    In fact, this is a change of social phobia, and you will feel that there is no way to communicate with people, and then you just want to.

    Back to staying alone in the corner, there is also a kind of external depression for yourself, sometimes you can get along with others, but your heart is very eager to be quiet, and then you are very eager to stay alone in your corner and stay quietly. It may be that over time, I don't know how to get along with others, and in the process of getting along with others, I always want to return to my familiar place, and then I am reluctant to continue to communicate with others. I can understand this feeling very well, because in today's society, this situation should be quite common, but if your situation is a little more serious, I think it may be better for you to go out for a walk and have more contact with the crowd.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's not a character flaw, it's just a kind of character, each bai has a different personality, and you're the kind of introverted zhi.

    I believe that you have not yet found the one who can open your heart, and when you do, you will naturally have countless topics with that person, share life with each other, and have common interests, so be patient.

    And also, the most important thing is that you are happy, if you like to be alone, and that makes you happy, you just do it, you don't care about what other people are like, you don't care what they think, it's your way of life.

    I think it's better if you don't have to spend time socializing with friends, and you don't have to spend money on eating, drinking, and having fun with everyone, so you have more time to think about your own things, and I enjoy spending time alone.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    In fact, everyone has their own characteristics, you don't have to ask yourself to be consistent with others, as long as you do well in life, you will be successful.

    Well, this is not a manifestation of autism, there are many successful people like this, otherwise, you don't have a different personality, how can you have a different career?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You are exactly like me, when I was a child, I liked to stay alone in my own world, and when I grew up, I realized that I was so unsociable and had so few friends.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I'm actually a person with this kind of personality, so I can't say that I have character flaws. It's okay to like to be alone.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You are a typical withdrawn, autistic personality. du

    But it's better that you can regulate it yourself. If the sex version of the lonely dao is not handled well. It will become more and more serious.

    You don't just have to stay at the level of contact with people in order to survive. Drink with your close friends, soak in the sauna, chat, play some games, and you will feel how beautiful the world is.

    I wish you happiness.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hello! According to the situation you described, I give you du

    It's just that some people are weaker and need the strength of the group to survive better and with peace of mind. There are also some people who are stronger, just one person, just yourself, you can be enough, you can do it! Look at yourself, look at others, don't you see that you are very independent?!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You're autistic. You should go out and walk more, get in touch with different people, and give yourself a variety of futures.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In this society, communication is the most important thing first, and when you go out of society, you can't do it, and you slowly change, whether you are shy, or you are too introverted.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    I don't feel copy

    People tend to think of communication as a kind of ability, but they ignore that being alone is also a kind of ability, and it is one.

    In a definite sense, it is a more important ability than interacting with daos. Being alone is also an ability that is not something that anyone can possess at all times. Having this ability doesn't mean that you don't feel lonely anymore, but that you are content with it and make it productive.

    Being alone is a beautiful moment and a beautiful experience in life, although there is some loneliness, there is a kind of fulfillment in loneliness. Solitude is a necessary space for the growth of the soul, and in solitude we withdraw from others and affairs and return to ourselves.

    From a psychological point of view, the need for solitude is for inner integration. Integration is the process of putting new experiences in a proper place in your inner memory. It is only through this process of integration that the external impression can be digested by the self, and the self can become a system that is both independent and growing.

    Therefore, whether or not a person has the ability to be alone is related to whether a person can truly form a relatively self-sufficient inner world, which in turn affects his relationship with the outside world.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    This has something to do with your own character, I used to be like you, I was very uncomfortable going to a crowded place, and I was happy to stay alone.

    At home, I also checked a lot of information, and this is not a disease or a psychological problem, but your own personality. Later, I slowly began to change myself, I began to give lectures on stage in class speeches, and gradually I was able to give speeches and training among colleagues in a department at work, and now I am much more easy-going, and I also like to be alone in many places. Come on, change yourself.

    There is nothing wrong with liking to be alone, but if you fall into it, you will not be able to adapt to the future study and work environment, and let yourself go.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Naturally withdrawn, I don't like to be close to people, I just want to be alone.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It may be that you are used to being alone. If you plant it, it is easy to develop a more withdrawn character. It's not a good state for my life and work. Try to be as conscious as possible.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It's normal for everyone to be lonely, but it's fun to play with your friends once in a while and be part of them.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Withdrawn, unsociable, not a good sign.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Depression, just think too much, a person stays too long to think about it, if you are busy as a dog every day, you won't feel that someone cares about you, you feel tired of living, why should someone care about yourself, you can love yourself.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    You have to go to see a psychiatrist in this case, don't be alone, go out and have more contact with people, you think it's impossible for no one to care about you, your relatives are worried about you, if you hurt yourself, they know that they will be distressed, everyone is tired alive, it's just that they don't show it, you don't know.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Everyone has a sunny side, a dark side, depending on how you face it, if you live confidently is sunny, if you are sad all day long, your face is gloomy, so we should all face life with your head held high, so that life will be happy beckoning to you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    It's useless to cry in a small dark room, go out and find some friends, and relax yourself.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Boys and girls? Why?

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Go learn what you're interested in and meet like-minded people.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    To put it simply, people are forced out.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Go on a trip... It'll be fine in a month.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Participate in group activities or gatherings, even if you don't feel comfortable at first. Find a few more people who are good at communication and optimistic, and slowly you will change, believe in yourself.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    People sometimes need to be alone and calm their minds ......But if you often do this and refuse to contact the outside world, it is autism, it is a psychological problem! When something goes wrong, you should find a reliable friend to talk to in order to relieve the inner stress.

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