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Don't worry, take your time. I've always been an introvert. Do I want to be an extrovert?
No, I'm proud. Because many of the big stars I admire say that I am a more introverted personality when asked by others, it can be seen that introvert is still a more fashionable word today.
Let me give you a little information.
Many introverts want to be more extroverted, because it seems that only extroverts are more suitable for today's society and are more conducive to interacting with others. But in fact, many extroverts also have a lot of dissatisfaction with their personality.
Each personality has its own strengths and weaknesses. Introverts actually have many advantages, such as being conscientious, down-to-earth and steady. Introverts want to be more cheerful, mostly because they are more likely to get along with others and participate in activities more actively, but these are not the "characteristics" of extroverts, they are just accessories of extroverts.
Master the skills of interacting with people, make your enthusiasm bold, and introverts can do the same! So, sometimes it's not.
It is a question of whether personality can be changed, but whether ability can be improved, and I think I don't need to say anything more about the answer to this question at this time.
After the above discussion, I think you may no longer struggle with wanting to change your personality. But you may still be wondering, is your personality set in stone? In fact, we can only say that in a sense, personality can be changed.
For example, a person's personality changes with age or circumstances. But if you want to change your personality in a short period of time, even through psychological ** and counseling, it is not easy.
It can be seen that sometimes we do not need to deliberately change our character, there is no superiority or inferiority in character, as long as we improve our ability and improve our own quality to make up for the shortcomings in some aspect of our character, it is enough to make us impeccable people.
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Go out and walk more, chat and have fun with cheerful people...
A friend of mine is also very introverted, but after getting to know me (I'm a person who talks a lot), his personality is much more cheerful and he smiles more...
It's mainly yourself.,Take the initiative.,Actually, it's very casual.,Don't take it too seriously.,Be natural.。。。
Remember, smile more...
Even if you can't change your personality, at least you have no problem dealing with people!
Thanks!
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Don't be bored at home all day, you'll just become an otaku.
Get out and about more, be part of your life, go out with your friends, be part of their conversations, and get involved in their activities.
You have to learn to joke, you have to learn to laugh, you have to learn to laugh, you have to laugh inside... Be genuine.
Everyone is different, change yourself so that others can find you different.
Good luck
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Get in touch with your friends more and get excited, as soon as you get excited, you won't be introverted!
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Make more friends, be bold, be brave.
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Communicate and play with people with lively personalities.
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