How to deal with roommates who are always eating and drinking?

When the answerer saw this question, he couldn't sit still and had to come up and answer angrily.

A: When I was in high school, I had a classmate who couldn't be said to be a roommate, and at that time, the students in our school were living in rented houses outside the school, and this classmate of mine lived next door to me. I still remember going home during the Chinese New Year holiday and bringing a bunch of drinks and snacks when school started.

This gentleman is good, seeing the snacks forcibly cooked with me, all kinds of unwelcome, nothing to do in my house, at the beginning he came to see that there were a lot of snacks in the house, and I was embarrassed not to greet him. Later, after sitting down, he naturally took out a packet of instant noodles from the box on my desk, opened it and ate it naturally, so naturally that I even felt as if he had done something natural, and I didn't even feel anything abnormal.

As I lived next door for more and more time, I began to feel that this gentleman seemed to be a bit excessive, and it stands to reason that I am not a rather stingy person, and if a friend comes to my house, we can still have fun eating some snacks and drinking some drinks together. But this gentleman's behavior made me feel that pleasant sense of sharing, well, a sense of sharing.

If you think about it, there are a few things that make me feel uncomfortable:

1.The sharing between me and him is always one-sided. He often comes to my place to rub my food, and I go to his but rarely takes his things or uses his things.

On the one hand, there are fewer snacks in his house, and on the other hand, he really rarely advises me to enjoy them.

2.He did not observe basic etiquette. Anyway, it's my room too.

No matter what my relationship with him is, even if it is a better relationship, you should have my consent before you can accept my sharing. Rather than self-imposed casual enjoyment. Even if my cousin came to my house and ate my fruit or something after my invitation, it was not too much.

3.He accepted my "sharing" too often. It's not that I'm narrow-minded, but it can't help but make me think that he is suspected of being greedy.

The subject asks how to deal with this situation. The method I give is:

1.If you don't want to hurt the feelings of the two, then you will provide less opportunities to eat and drink, for example, I rarely bring snacks from home, and there is almost no food in the house, and over time, he will not eat and drink much.

2.If the relationship between two people is really good, you can tell your opinion in a joking way, don't show a blame tone, but hope that the other person will make some changes.

3.If the other party is the kind of person who loves to be greedy and cheap, but he doesn't pull out a dime, then the subject has to think carefully about whether this relationship is necessary.

In the beginning, we can settle for him. After a while, they still don't come to their senses and continue to rub, then you can talk to him. In the beginning, we can settle for him.

After a while, they still don't come to their senses and continue to rub, then you can talk to him. If you continue to rub it, then you will refuse him directly, but pay attention to the way. Such a person, official business, normal communication, don't offend him, it is not worth our pay.

Pay attention to the way. Such a person, official business, normal communication, don't offend him, it is not worth our pay.

It's normal for every dorm to have this problem, but if you make a joke and avoid it, you can save the embarrassment. It's normal for every dorm to have this problem, but if you make a joke and avoid it, you can save the embarrassment. It's normal for every dorm to have this problem, but if you make a joke and avoid it, you can save the embarrassment.

In fact, the main thing is to calm down and communicate with him, he will distinguish the pros and cons and as long as what you say makes sense, he will understand. Will distinguish the pros and cons, and as long as what you say makes sense, he will understand. Distinguish the pros and cons, and as long as what you say makes sense, he will understand.

To be a human being, it is necessary to have basic moral qualities. You can't eat and use it indiscriminately, anyone's money and things don't fall from the sky, you need labor and pay to get it, and it can't be long-lasting, it's just short-lived. I think that staying away from them and having less contact with them will never be welcome:

This kind of people who eat and drink are really uncommon, they put the cheeky thing of eating and drinking into a tall reason for mixing faces, this kind of person is always the master who does not take advantage of the situation, and the word is the head, once the so-called friendship is not there, it will also go away. When you encounter such people, you should alienate them, be cold, and let them retreat.

Everyone discussed and came up with a way to refuse him to eat and drink in the dormitory in time, and everyone asked him together, did he have no money to buy, or did he just want to eat. Occasionally once or twice, forget it, often no one refuses to give him a problem, and there is a kind of inertial thinking. If you really have a good friend in this dormitory, you can also ask his friend to tell him.

I haven't met such roommates yet.,I feel like it's all about sharing with each other.,It's not a waste of eating and drinking.,After all, people aren't bad at eating your stuff.,You eat mine.,I'll let you eat too.,I can eat you next time.。

Don't think too much, it's a blessing to suffer, not to mention a dormitory, it's not a big deal to eat something.

Popularity is to help each other, eat and drink to get together, if you have more pocket money, let others eat, less pocket money will eat less. If others rub yours, you can also rub other people's, or if you don't have anything to rub other people's food, you can help people, people are mutual, you are good to others, others will be good to you, and only then can you have affection and righteousness, Chinese writing is very interesting, and you are willing to give and give to have to get. To share, the more you share, the more you have.

Popularity is to help each other, eat and drink to get together, if you have more pocket money, let others eat, less pocket money will eat less. If others rub yours, you can also rub other people's, or if you don't have anything to rub other people's food, you can help people, people are mutual, you are good to others, others will be good to you, and only then can you have affection and righteousness, Chinese writing is very interesting, and you are willing to give and give to have to get. To share, the more you share, the more you have.

For such a roommate who only knows how to take advantage of a small advantage, I think if you want to have a deep friendship with him, you have to think about it, ordinary friends can still be made, even if you don't want to be friends, don't make bad friends, because you are roommates, you can't look up and see you down, you can only say that everyone's pattern is different.

I think the fellowship of friends is mutual, although this mutual may not be reciprocal, but I can feel that he wants to make friends with you, wants you to live a better life, and hopes that you can make good friends.

Refuse in time, and tell him, don't you have it, why do you come to rub me, once or twice you can see how many times you have been, this kind of person should refuse directly, because he doesn't have a heart to treat you as a good friend, good friends should share with each other, and he will only get, this kind of friend is very much, why choose him.

It's a bit cheeky for me, but if the relationship is good, I'm happy to eat and drink, if the relationship is average, you don't bring money, so they can't rub it, tell him the truth as it is, if the other party is still so cheeky, you directly hurt his self-esteem, saying that his family has no money, poor ghost, it's okay to rub it properly, or avoid such people.

For roommates who often go to eat and use, it's best to stay close and far away. Because anyone may feel nothing about such a person at first, it is best to stay close to a roommate who often goes to eat and use. Because anyone who treats such a person may feel that there is nothing at first, but after a long time, it will definitely scoff at it and stimulate contradictions.

In addition, these people are often self-centered, selfish and narrow-minded, "I would rather be responsible for the world, and stop teaching the world to bear me" is their true portrayal. Therefore, we must stay away from them when we get along with them, and I would rather bear the people of the world and stop teaching the people of the world to bear me" is their true portrayal. So be sure to stay away from them!

Classmates or colleagues live together, most of them eat and play together, and it is common to grab snacks when they have them. But some people contribute more money, effort, and errands, and some people are lazy, it seems that it is really not a big problem, I don't know when I will part, and then I think about that person and regret it!

I think the best way to fight back is to stop eating anything in front of them. So they can't see you eating.

Once in a while, I also said that in the past, if you are often like that, you have to find a way to get along with them, and you can't blindly indulge his behavior. People get along with each other mutually, not just one person, blindly paying.

In the same dormitory, Li has a good relationship, and it is important to hate it, it is not a big deal, and the issues involving the bottom line of the island do not need to be taken care of, and you can communicate in good faith.

It's a little helpless to meet someone who can talk sweetly, I'm really embarrassed to say anything, but there is always a limit to everything, just eat and drink, and there are people who wear your clothes and carry your bag without saying hello, and they tear their faces decisively to stop this behavior.

When I met such a roommate, I believe everyone was very angry. It's not difficult to say it in my heart, he doesn't respect people first, so there's no need to respect him, in a dormitory, it's nothing, it doesn't have much impact. If you don't say it, he'll keep going like that.

People are different, so their personalities and temperaments are also different, and if you don't like them, you must not be such a person.

It is suitable for those who love to eat and drink cheaply. I generally stay away from them. Don't have too much contact with them. Only the most ordinary etiquette is maintained.

The more you grow up, the more you have to adapt to the people of the world, the more you can endure it, when you have experienced yourself, if you can't bear it, explain it to them, and make it clear that everyone is more comfortable