Why do people think of their helplessness when they are in adversity?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-01
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Man lives. In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

    In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

    It's tiring, it's hard.

    Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live.

    If you are sad and sad, you have to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

    Because that's how life is.

    No one's life is smooth sailing.

    As long as you work hard, it's wonderful!

    Be optimistic about anything.

    Keep a normal heart.

    Life is inevitably about falling and waiting.

    Be brave enough to look up.

    The sun is always after the storm!

    I'll give you advice, can you see it?

    1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

    2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

    3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

    4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

    5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

    6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

    7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

    8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

    9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    In the face of adversity, you will have time to think about the past.

    In good times, you only care about the happiness of the moment.

    Why is it called happy, because it is fast, so the happy time is not long.

    Friend, I hope you will think more about ways in the face of adversity. More important.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because only at this time can we calmly think about the past and find some things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    In the face of adversity, if the person can persevere, then he is facing the next problem. He'll be more mature, that's growth!

    Maybe people are like this, people who have never suffered losses, don't understand anything, it is the belief of perseverance and never give up, believe in yourself, and the confidence that you will always succeed, so you will see the rainbow after the wind and rain.

    I think it should be an ideal and belief! Because ideals and beliefs are the driving force of life. If there is an ideal, there will be a goal and pursuit. will continue to work hard and work hard.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Doubt yourself! Everyone has experienced this at one time or another, and the length of time depends on their inner capacity. There are two sides to everything, and at the moment you only see the negative, and you may have unexpected gains from another perspective.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I'm just right now, I really want to do some work and let the time pass.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    What do you live for?

    1,000 people will come from themselves.

    There is no one-size-fits-all answer.

    What do people live for?

    In order to live in a high-end house, take a luxury car, return to the hometown for the sake of dao, or for the sake of inheritance?

    Personally, I think that when people are alive, they want to prove that you are not dead! To be alive is to be different from the dead!

    It's that simple.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Everyone has their own point of view.

    From my personal point of view.

    To be alive is to be the embodiment of one's own worth.

    Live a high quality of life.

    Live the way you want to be.

    This is the purpose of human life.

    Of course, everyone's thinking is different.

    What makes sense is the right thing to do.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Some people may say a lot of profound truths about this question, in fact, most people in life only live for oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, and do not have so many so-called lofty ambitions, that is, they just finish the journey of life in an ordinary way.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    People live in order to be able to die with dignity, and du's words are a bit dark. People can live to create for the society and the country.

    The contribution of the edition, then the death will be remembered for eternity. People can create a bright future for their families and future generations. Then the death will be vigorous. In short, people live to do their best and do something meaningful. This is the meaning of the or.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can think backwards about why people don't take the initiative to die, and the answer you get is why they live.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    People live to experience life. It's good to taste the ups and downs of life. Then slowly get older. Then say goodbye to this world.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Friend, this is the ultimate goal of man, it's too complicated, to put it simply, leave your own footprints!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I also ask this question a lot, working like I was working hard every day and completely lost myself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, it's not a mediocre day! There is a meaning to live, for example, to strive for your ideals, or to enjoy life for your own depression and unhappiness, in short, you should find a way to make yourself happy every day! Isn't it true that people live for happiness and joy?

    In this case, why spend every day mediocrely.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you can't sleep, you get up to play until you feel sleepy, but you still get up on time tomorrow, which is a ** insomnia method.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I woke up early, but I'm not sleepy.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You have to take out the quilt or something to dry it often, so it's insecticidal! Then when you go out by yourself, you can lay a sand insecticidal potion, and it's okay to have some sandalwood at home, and the insects are disgusted with sandalwood.

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