What should I do if I meet someone I like and don t dare to confess?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-08
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Be brave. In fact, when you confess, you must have a dead face before you can say it.

    You must be calm, it can be said that for the sake of face, it will be difficult to confess.

    In addition, if you want to confess, but you are in the way of face, you can tell him half-jokingly, depending on his attitude, so that it will not hurt face, and you can confess, hehe, you feel it.

    Hope understandable.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Be brave, like is like at least you do, if you don't dare to do it, you like her and you don't know, you're even more miserable!!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Send a message to them: "I like you... Oh! I'm sorry to send it wrong, but if you accept it, you don't have to reply to me, if you don't accept it, send it back to me. ”

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Tell her why she is afraid to confess. Aren't you just afraid of rejection? Afraid that you won't even have a friend's doing? You tell her you appreciate her. Other ideas will only be possible until further understanding is understood.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Your lack of initiative often leads to failure.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Give yourself the atmosphere.

    You have to know that you like her, and you want to be with her.

    Say what you like, and you have at least a 50% chance.

    But if you bury it in your heart and the woman doesn't know it, then your chance is equal to 0

    One day, when the one you like her doesn't become someone else's, it's too late for you to regret it.

    Love needs to seize the opportunity, maybe it will be fleeting, and you will be staggered in this life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not a big deal, just be bold and say what you want to say in your heart, I'm really embarrassed, just start with a friend, I'm slowly trying, things related to my own happiness, be brave, don't be ashamed.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In fact, I think your friend can observe his sweetheart for a few days, because only in this way can he know what kind of person she is in his mind, and only in this way can he further develop the relationship! Because if your friend is caught in the whirlpool of love too much, it's not a good thing! Learn about him first, and then get close to him, so that there is no suspicion of a nymphomaniac!

    Only in this way can we express our hearts implicitly. This is just my thoughts and reference!! Hope it comes in handy.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Tell her out loud; I want to soak you, can I be bold What is so great about a woman Don't be afraid Brother is from here.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    When you encounter a confession from someone you don't like, please remember these 3 principles:

    1. Resolute attitude and outspoken refusal.

    As the saying goes, "when the interruption continues, it is chaotic", when a person expresses his affection to you, if you don't like the other party, you should give the other party a clear attitude, don't grind to create the other party has a chance.

    You should refuse directly, never contact him again after refusing, and do not ask him for help again to avoid causing unnecessary trouble.

    Article **32, leave enough dignity for the other party and refuse efficiently.

    Many people dare not refuse in the face of other people's confessions, always afraid of hurting the other party's self-esteem and the weakest Shoukai's heart. Especially when a good friend for many years suddenly confessed, they were caught off guard and didn't know what to do?

    At this time, when rejecting this kind of friend's confession, you should know how to be tactful, give him some secret changes, and tell him what type you like and the future you imagine.

    Let him retreat, and they, as friends, will understand your rejection.

    This also preserves the face and dignity of the other party, and minimizes the degree of harm.

    Article**43, find the right time and quickly refuse.

    In a relationship, no person of the opposite sex will be nice to you for no reason, as long as the good is beyond the normal range of friends of the opposite sex, you should notice that something is wrong.

    At this time, you have to see the right time, before he speaks, say the words of refusal indirectly, and block the mouth that he is about to speak.

    Saying it this way will avoid embarrassment for both parties and leave enough room for the rest of the relationship.

    In short, reject some people to do, be resolute, do not hurt the other party's self-esteem, find the right time, and refuse quickly.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    When you meet someone you don't like, what do you do to confess to yourself? I know that many people will be complacent and then drag it out, in fact, what I want to say is, if you don't like it, it's better to make it clear to her as soon as possible, this is your responsibility for yourself and for her earlier.

    Refuse directly, and if she continues, explain the situation to her and tell her why. If you find that she is unreasonable and has been pestering, ignore her. Once the situation escalates, it is necessary to resist in the strongest way.

    I don't think I can give you what you want.

    For a stranger, you really can't have feelings for him, and it is a feeling other than a friend, then you might as well tell him the truth directly, tell him that he is not the person you want, and that he can't give her happiness is a very appropriate approach, and at this time, white lies or silence are not appropriate responses.

    I like you, but I don't love you.

    This is the most direct and euphemistic sentence to refuse to confess, and the people who use it the most are also the most, so that you can take into account the feelings of the other party, not make him too embarrassed, and clearly explain your point of view, let's still be friends, and you are my very important friend, so he will be happy to accept it.

    I feel like my personality doesn't match yours.

    Some people will present the confession as a surprise and accident, just like a movie, and then the two of them are happily together. However, in reality, if someone does this to you, I think most of them will feel helpless, panicked more than moved. If you don't like him like this, you just say it, I'm not such a high-profile person.

    Tell the other person that they have a boyfriend or girlfriend.

    Whether you have a boyfriend or not, tell him that you already have a boyfriend, invite him to dinner another day, etc., or use social software to tactfully tell him that you have always regarded him as an ordinary friend, and you must not reluctantly accept it because of soft-heartedness, because in the end it must be two or more people who are hurt.

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