Some people say that marriage is the grave of love, what would you do if the guy you like wanted to

Love will eventually extend to the castle of marriage, there is no eternal love, only eternal marriage, if you fall in love, no matter how long you talk about it, you can't talk about it for a lifetime! Marriage is the destination of two people, although there is less freedom, but at least you have a nest of your own. Maybe two people will quarrel, maybe there will be some unhappy things, and life will be uneventful.

This makes people feel that marriage is the grave of love, in fact, sometimes I feel the same way when I'm in a bad mood! But it's a home for us! It's like a bird can't leave its nest!

Marriage itself is bland, generally speaking, only real marriage will make people find sustainable happiness in the bland, and people are unwilling to be bland because they always compare with romantic love, men and women always hope to extend the emotions instigated by imagination in love to every moment of married life, even every corner, so that the heart is always ignited for love, sparks are scattered. However, as soon as they enter married life, men and women experience a different scene, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping, taking care of children... All of this could not be more realistic, permeated every moment, even every moment.

Love likes to whisper, and language is a word sifted out of the dictionary, shiny and sweet. And marriage always tells the truth, and it always loses its imagination, even if it is occasional warmth, it can't get back to the longing of the year; Love likes to change scenes, or under the moon before the flowers, or by the lake next to the willows, or anchored in any place between the sea and the universe imagined in my heart. Marriage, on the other hand, has only one final destination, a crowded or uncrowded home, which men and women have to enter every day, whether they want it or not.

Men and women who originally entered marriage because of love often blew their beards and glared at marriage and said bad things about marriage in order to relive the feeling of not being in love or not being able to find love. People always like to say that marriage is the grave of love, but without marriage, there is no place to die... If you have to compare love and marriage, in fact, love is like strong wine, and marriage is like boiled water.

But don't forget, strong wine can't be drunk every day, because life can't bear it; And boiled water must be drunk every day, because life is inseparable from it. May everyone in the world have a happy marriage, because that is the destination of love and the station of heaven.

Marriage is the grave of love, but it is the grave of men, (I am a man, so.) Hey hey ), so don't worry. But you have to make sure that he really likes you, be careful, there are too many men who talk (I am an exception).

Marriage is the grave of love, and there is no hiding place for love without marriage! This sister, little brother wishes you good luck, you grow old together! Remember. Hee-hee

Temporary impulse, the shelf life of love is only 3 months, and love is slowly transformed into family affection after marriage. There is no eternal love, and there is no eternal marriage.

I very much agree with this point of view, after getting married, women become yellow-faced women, men lose their freedom, and even lose their self-motivation, feeling that marriage is a bondage, and they can't experience happiness at all.

Because after entering marriage, love will fade and be replaced by family affection, so I think so.

I think this statement is very one-sided, a very pessimistic statement, and I think marriage needs to have love as the foundation.

In fact, the root of marriage is bland, not agitated or passionate. A person who is curious and fond of you at the beginning will naturally get your attention and love by improving himself. Through various methods, use various methods to please you, but once you get married, you will not please this kind of person after getting along for a long time, and you will not have the love in the palm of your hand.

So a person's character plays a very important role, a person with a good character, even if he has no enthusiasm for you, will give it to you, even if you don't think it's beautiful, he wants you to dress up more beautifully, not a waste, a good person, even if there is no longer a feeling of excitement, he will let your family guard. People with good character, whether they love you or not, will not push you into the sea of fire, people with bad character do not love you, you have to face the sea of fire, point all the arrows at you, spend money is a waste, and your efforts are taken for granted Unless you have no enthusiasm for you, you will be treated unequally by him.

A good spouse can judge whether your marriage will be happy for the rest of your life. In fact, the plopping love is really gone, but the character will not lose reason, the character will not lose the original sense of responsibility, the character will not lack the care for you, and the life will not lack the dedication to the family. So in fact, love is very important, but character is more important, don't just draw him to love you, choose him.

On the premise of his good character, choose a better one than him. Some people say that love cannot be chosen, but you have to ask yourself. Love Him, what He is worthy of your love.

Don't love someone because you love someone, it's really not, because when you get married, you can't be happy without feelings.

If many men after marriage say that marriage is the grave of love, I think it may also be true.

This is really the case, because many men find that it is completely different from falling in love after getting married, and no matter how good the relationship is, it will be defeated by firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea.

This is mainly due to being in love when in romance. It became firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage, and both of them were very uncomfortable. Neither was ready to give.

Because many people have a lot of quarrels and a lot of conflicts after getting married, that's why they say this. Not really.

This is indeed the case, because after getting married, there will be many constraints, and you will have to take on your own responsibilities, so you will feel particularly unfree.

Why do many people say that marriage is the grave of love, I think the so-called marriage is the grave of love, because marriage is a key point of love, it is a new beginning, but love may be over, love will be transformed into family affection, so I say this just because the rest of life is dominated by family affection. I guess that's what it means.

Most of the men who say this kind of thing are narrow-minded. When young people get married, there is a lot of food and drink in the house. It definitely takes labor.

The economic aspect can also be a little tighter at times. Yes, I found something wrong with this process. It's like when you were single.

Such a man is looked down upon. It's not the job you're brave enough to do. Men, when they get married, they have to have a sense of responsibility.

If you can't encounter problems, you can only promise difficulties. Say something unrealistic, come.

I think guys think their girlfriends are very beautiful before they get married. But after getting married, the girl changed. So there is no pre-marital beauty.

In addition, after getting married, most girls begin to restrain boys, so boys feel that they have no freedom. Because of this, boys feel that marriage is the grave of love.

Many of your married boys say that marriage is the grave of love, but in fact, this is not the case, marriage is the Yuan Xu of love, but many men feel bound in marriage.

You don't think many boys will say the same thing, but most people don't think so, and they all think that marriage is still very happy.

This is all irresponsible, what men say is that real life and love are two different things, but it is not necessarily the grave of love, marriage is just to make life more fulfilling, make yourself happier, and live a more perfect life.

Marriage is the grave of love", everyone knows this sentence! Boys and girls have different understandings of this sentence! Most of the girls are because they pay too much in marriage, and they have to do housework and busy their careers when they have children, and girls will be unbalanced in marriage, and they will no longer be able to experience happiness in love, so they will naturally feel that marriage is a grave!

And the reason why boys agree with this sentence very much is because boys feel that after getting married, they must be bound by their families and lovers, and they can no longer go to ** if they want to, and they can no longer go home late at night if they want to go home late at night! Some boys even feel that they can't even smoke when they get married, and they are very helpless! Boys will feel that marriage is a grave because they feel that they have lost their freedom when they get married!

Relatively speaking, boys mature later than girls, and girls will carry more burdens of their families after they get married! Zi Duan knows how to manage family expenses, take the baby to make money, tidy up the house, girls are actually really busy after marriage, girls are very eager for their lovers to bear these things together, but boys feel that these things are very annoying, and they are tied to their freedom! will even speak ill of the girls who loved to the bone in the past, fists and feet!

Regret. Many guys get divorced soon after they get married! Until the day of the divorce, he didn't know what he had done wrong?

Boys always feel that girls have changed! As everyone knows, it is not that girls have changed, but from love to marriage, the roles of both men and women should change, and as a result, girls have changed into wives, mothers, nannies and workers, while boys still feel that they are a high-quality man with absolute freedom in their thinking! If the role of a boy has not changed, he will not be able to understand the yelling of girls in marriage and lose control of their emotions!

However, after the divorce, the boy will regret it until he is about thirty-five years old, and he will mature and know that he has missed the most precious person!

Qualification. Boys are the least qualified to say the phrase "marriage is the grave of love"! When a boy gets married, he should grow into a man, grow into a towering tree, and shelter his beloved female Burning Tsai from the wind and rain!

Marriage is the grave of love", this sentence is relative, not absolute!

may just feel that after two people get married, there will be conflicts because of trivial things in life, and love will slowly fade away, without any freshness.

My understanding is that after getting married, love will gradually disappear and be replaced by family affection.