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Marriage itself is bland, generally speaking, only real marriage will make people find sustainable happiness in the bland, and people are unwilling to be bland because they always compare with romantic love, men and women always hope to extend the emotions instigated by imagination in love to every moment of married life, even every corner, so that the heart is always ignited for love, sparks are scattered. However, as soon as they enter married life, men and women experience a different scene, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping, taking care of children... All of this could not be more realistic, permeated every moment, even every moment.
Love likes to whisper, and language is a word sifted out of the dictionary, shiny and sweet. And marriage always tells the truth, and it always loses its imagination, even if it is occasional warmth, it can't get back to the longing of the year; Love likes to change scenes, or under the moon before the flowers, or by the lake next to the willows, or anchored in any place between the sea and the universe imagined in my heart. Marriage, on the other hand, has only one final destination, a crowded or uncrowded home, which men and women have to enter every day, whether they want it or not.
Men and women who originally entered marriage because of love often blew their beards and glared at marriage and said bad things about marriage in order to relive the feeling of not being in love or not being able to find love. People always like to say that marriage is the grave of love, but without marriage, there is no place to die... If you have to compare love and marriage, in fact, love is like strong wine, and marriage is like boiled water.
But don't forget, strong wine can't be drunk every day, because life can't bear it; And boiled water must be drunk every day, because life is inseparable from it. May everyone in the world have a happy marriage, because that is the destination of love, the station of heaven...
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It is said that marriage is the grave of love, but without marriage, your love will die and there is no place to bury.
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Failed marriages are graves!
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Yes, marriage is not just based on love, there are other factors that can be used to maintain a long-term relationship. Here are some of the factors that can sustain a loveless marriage:
1.Respect and trust: Even without love, marriage can still be built on a foundation of respect and trust between the two.
If both parties always believe in each other and respect each other, then two people can successfully care for each other and support each other, thus building a long-term, healthy relationship.
2.Shared Ideas and Goals: A couple can stay married purely based on shared ideas and goals. If they share common values, similar interests, then they may build a stronger foundation for marriage.
3.Stable life: If couples respect each other and have a stable job and life, then they may choose to live together consistently, supporting each other and taking care of each other.
4.Children: For some people, children are a powerful motivator, and they may choose to live together to ensure the healthy development of their children.
However, a marriage without love can face a myriad of difficulties and challenges. So if you're thinking about marrying someone, it's a good idea to think about it first and make sure you have a solid foundation based on mutual love and respect.
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Marriage is definitely not the grave of love. Rather, it is the starting point of love. Maybe you will say that love is love, the starting point.
But I want to tell you. For a marriage that long in a lifetime. Marriage is the starting point of love.
Because in this life, you need to live a life of oil, salt, sauce and vinegar with him. This is not a simple matter.
When we were young, we longed for a special love. Maybe you're a person who loves to watch TV series. The romance in the TV series always makes us yearn for it.
It's because all the heroes and heroines in it contain all our beautiful imaginations of love. So we also hope to meet one in our lives. A companion like we imagined.
Then when we are young, we may encounter it, and we may have a hard time encountering it. But in the end, we will all choose one person to be the other half of our marriage. Because we need marriage.
When we go through the early stages of a relationship, we come to this stage of marriage. We will find that people from two families will have different personality habits. Then in this process, we will continue to adapt to each other, and then continue to tolerate each other.
Both like each other's merits. I also like each other's shortcomings. That's love.
That is, a starting point of love. In love, we often see the advantages of the other person. Sometimes it's hard to see each other's shortcomings.
But when the two of us. When we live together, we see something unbearable about each other. But we are still willing to tolerate each other's unbearable, and are willing to help them correct and move forward, isn't this the power of love?
This is because there is such a nourishment of love, so the two parties in the marriage will. If we tolerate each other better, we will better support each other to move forward. Love and marriage are both things that need to be managed.
We don't just want to make ourselves better, we also want to make each other better. So how can you make the other person better? The first is to make yourself better, and then let yourself have love to nourish the other party.
Go and drive him. So marriage is definitely not the grave of love. It is a moisturizer of love.
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In fact, marriage is not the grave of love, it depends on how you look at marriage, it is not easy for two people to be together, the world, these two people can come together, isn't it a miracle?
People have different experiences, different environments, and different views on marriage, but no matter how you look at your marriage, you must experience ups and downs, you must be tolerant of each other, and you must understand each other, so that the marriage will be happy, and both parties can find fun in marriage.
Therefore, people are different, and their attitudes towards marriage are also different, and no matter what, you can't generalize!
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Is it necessary for marriage to be open in the circle of friends? Is marriage really the grave of love?
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Is it necessary for marriage to be open in the circle of friends? Is marriage really the grave of love?
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There is no one in this world who can't live without anyone's love, almost all people get it very well, and it doesn't matter if they don't get it, they still should eat and drink. When I was a child, I longed for love, but now I finally understand the sentence in the lyrics "Love is just a fart of life", which seems to be nothing, and it can't be caught or touched.
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Marriage and love are the graves of the mournful, because the mournful man is ignorant, betrayal, deceitful, hypocritical, greedy, and so on.
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Marriage is the final destination of love! Only love with marriage will blossom! Marriage is a science; It takes joint efforts and cultivation to achieve positive results!
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As the saying goes, but most of the sources come from people who are mired in unhappy marriages, and I think that every marriage is a continuation of love, with the difference that some go their separate ways, while most of them are in love with each other.
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Marriage is not the grave of love, during the love period, the face is a simple feeling, once married, the face is life and feelings, such as the conditions are not good enough, the pressure of life has been annoying, feelings will naturally ignore a lot, as long as it is managed well, there is no difference between decades and love.
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Marriage is the sublimation of love. If you have reached the stage of the grave and have not figured out how to resolve and alleviate the relationship, then don't go that far.
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Not all, there is the marriage of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl.
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Love is the temple of marriage.
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