What should I do when I meet such an unreasonable person?

Updated on society 2024-04-14
56 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't worry, I encountered the same situation in the bank the day before yesterday, and I was not comfortable, but I know that people can touch anything when they are walking outside, so it is normal to run into a disgusting pig by chance, just stay away from her.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Middle-aged women? It's not that I said, older women are very unreasonable, or become very gossipy, this kind of person is still less likely to provoke her, you scold her, she can pay you back a hundred words.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Society is like this, instead of being angry with such a person, it is better to ignore her, there is no need, don't be angry with yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I believe that the vast majority of people are good, smile and pass. Now that CCTV's public service advertisements are broadcast well, Chinese people should watch more!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you can endure it, you can endure it, you can't bear it, you don't need to endure it anymore! I wish you happiness, (just be yourself).

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There's no need to be mad at her.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    My teacher said to us, "It doesn't matter if others are doing it right, it's important whether you are doing it right!" "Even so, sometimes we can't do it, and it comes down to our own lack of cultivation."

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Hee-hee, isn't there a security guard?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1. Be clear about your feelings, that is, when facing what the other party does, don't rush to evaluate or argue, but first clarify what kind of emotions the other party's behavior makes you, so that you can calm down.

    2. Don't hope that "moving your mouth" will solve the problem. The other party can't think rationally when he's mad, don't simply hope to convince people with reason.

    3. Don't be hijacked by the other person's emotions. There is a term in psychology called "emotional hijacking", also known as "amygdala hijacking", in which, the amygdala refers to the part of the brain that is responsible for perceiving threat, if you are hijacked by the other person's emotions, then you can easily become irrational, and even have negative emotions such as fear and anger, which is not conducive to solving problems.

    4. Stay calm and make good use of "empathy". Empathy generally refers to psychological transposition, which is often referred to as comparing the heart to the heart, that is, putting oneself in the other person's shoes to experience the other person's emotions and cognition, and trying to think from the other person's point of view.

    5. Let the other person let their guard down. The other party is often very sensitive when it is unreasonable, and has a strong sense of self-protection, so it is best not to be aggressive at this time, but to let the other party know that he is not a "threat", so as to "cool down" the other party's emotions.

    6. Change the subject.

    When a person is entangled in a problem, even unreasonable, thinking is often limited, it is difficult to open all of a sudden, and will argue with you vigorously, at this time if you don't want to admit defeat, you might as well immediately change a topic, one to relieve the embarrassing atmosphere, two to throw away this hot potato, I believe that as long as you are a person who knows the current affairs, most of them can understand, and they are embarrassed to chatter again.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    The best thing to do - ignore it. Because "when a show meets a soldier, he can't explain it reasonably", reasoning with people who don't understand reason is like playing the harp to a cow.

    Forget about small things, if it is related to major matters, you must protect your legitimate rights and interests through the law.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    First of all, smile politely, and then say sorry! It means that you don't want to make trouble!

    And then the man was unreasonable, saying, "There is a limit to my politeness!"

    In the end, it is still unreasonable to say and speak! You're fucking self-righteous, shameless to face! Move your feet!

    The last word: Don't let me see you in the future, otherwise I will see you once!

    Haha, that's my advice! The landlord can try it! Don't forget to adopt it! o( o haha.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Those who are reasonable are afraid of those who are unreasonable.

    The unreasonable are afraid of the arrogant.

    The horizontal ones are afraid of dying.

    Don't die, I'm afraid that no matter what tricks you make, you won't react.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1. Treat it as air and turn a blind eye.

    2, more unreasonable and barbaric than him.

    3. Wait, when he is unreasonable enough, you can reason with him again, remember to give some examples to let him know how barbaric he is.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    We don't have to worry too much about an unreasonable person! We don't have to be knowledgeable with them, we don't have to be afraid of anything if we are reasonable, since ancient times, evil has prevailed! The eyes of the masses are bright! Don't quarrel with him! He's uneducated, we're not! Good luck!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This deals with the relationship with the person.

    You need to be kind to others.

    If the other party is unreasonable, then separate from each other.

    This is the basic truth.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    More unreasonable than him, as the saying goes, the soft are afraid of the hard, the hard are afraid of the ruthless, the ruthless are afraid of the Leng, the Leng's are afraid of the dead, and it is useless to be reasonable for this kind of person.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Sit down and reconcile.

    Neighbors, after all.

    I looked down and looked up side by side, and I froze.

    It's not good for anyone, but he's doing it too much, does this have anything to do with your attitude when you talk about their dogs?

    Sometimes. Do the same thing, the attitude is different.

    The result could be very different!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    A tooth for a tooth, if no one offends me, I will not offend anyone.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    If you can avoid it, you can avoid it, you can't avoid it, try to talk as little as possible, and the more you deal with him, the more things you do.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In general, do not associate or talk to them; Once you meet each other, if he deliberately finds fault and has a conflict, you must be more unreasonable than him, and you must not be with him.

    Be reasonable, the more reasonable you are with this kind of person, the more energetic he will be. It is simply to fight hard against hard and unreasonable.

    That's unreasonable. It's best to find a chance to hit him completely, this kind of person can be honest!

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    People are divided into three, six, nine, etc., who does something, just let him go, why bother with yourself, right, stay away.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you are bitten by a dog, you can't bite it back, so if you meet someone who doesn't speak, you don't have to worry about it with him.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No one is unreasonable, as far as the problem is concerned, there must be a conflict of interest, or other, in short, it must damage the interests of others, and the arrogance is only because others can't express it, hoping to find a way to compromise.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Able to bend and stretch husband.

    Don't reason too much with unreasonable people. Because that's a wasted effort.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    If you can't provoke it, you can hide.

    But try to be reasonable, and compare your heart to your heart.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you meet someone who is unreasonable, ignore him.

    You argue with him.

    And he didn't listen. And get yourself in trouble.

    So nothing happened.

    Just ignore that kind of person.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    First, run away, if you can't escape, please keep looking, second, be silent, because no matter what you say, she won't listen to you, even if you are very reasonable, if you can't do this, please continue to look down, third, flicker, Uncle Benshan said, fooling the dead is not a crime. Ha ha. If you can fool him out of his mind, that's fine. If you can't do that. Please take a look at the next jump.

    Fourth, you are also unreasonable. When you are more unreasonable than him, more confused than his brain, then he obeys you

    Ha ha. Succeed with flying colors.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Specific problems are analyzed on a case-by-case basis, and specific situations are treated on a case-by-case basis.

    In general, such people should be kept away from ......Ignore him, and there is no need to contradict him.

    If he infringes on your interests, then resolutely fight back against ......It doesn't matter if he's unreasonable, you can use some method to make him sensible and follow the rules.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Don't give him a good look.

    This kind of person is the most deceitful of the good and afraid of the evil.

    You can't give him good fruit to eat.

    That's how I am.

    The man didn't even dare to look straight at it now.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    None of us are irreplaceable in an organization, so there's no reason why we can't do a good job in an organization. From this point of view, we do our own work well, in the final analysis, for ourselves, not for others. At this time, the people around you can look at you in two ways as good or bad.

    If he is good to you, it means that he "helps you succeed"; If he treats you badly, it means that he "forced you to succeed". As long as you see a positive side in it, you will have a qualitative leap. Thank you again to those who have been "sorry to go" with me.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Those who can do it resolutely do not move their mouths.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Just forgive and forgive each other, tolerate and treat each other well, and Nan Wusan Dharma is called a Buddha.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Either stay away from her, or be more unreasonable than her.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Find out his shortcomings and debunk him.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Then why do you bother to reason with him, you know that it doesn't make sense, just like why do you want to coax him when you know that you are angry and can't be coaxed.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    He is strong, he is strong, and the moon shines on the river.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Ignore him, that's it, what's wrong?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Like him, he is unreasonable and angry with him.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Don't even pay attention to him! Don't fight with that kind of person! In the end, there is nothing, and the spirit is wasted.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Learn to be tolerant of those who hurt you, because they are pitiful, everyone has their own difficulties, and it is not easy for everyone.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    than he is unreasonable, but sensible.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    When you meet these people, you must first endure them.

    You can also move him silently.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Well, there are a lot of people like that.

    The landlord said about this question.

    Is it venting?

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    When encountering this kind of barbarian, we should not also treat each other savagely, if so, he will be treated more brutally, you should ignore him, treat him indifferently, and after one time and again, he will feel bored, and gradually move away.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Those who beat him should not be accustomed to it.

    Those who are far away should not be taken seriously.

    The choice is yours.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    I think there are two kinds of this, one is the bad character, and the other is the kind of joke verbal and good-hearted. Of course, the former should be kept away as much as possible, and the latter would not care if I were anything, let him be.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You don't care, you're a scoundrel, it's unreasonable, and it has nothing to do with you.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    If it's a stranger, ignore him, and if it's a boyfriend or girlfriend, just break up.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Adopt different strategies to deal with different people, and use civilized methods for civilized people and uncivilized methods for uncivilized people.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    In the past, Hanshan asked and said: How to deal with the world's slander of me, deceive me, insult me, laugh at me, despise me, despise me, hate me, deceive me? Pick up the clouds: just endure him, let him, let him, avoid him, bear with him, respect him, ignore him, stay for a few more years and watch him.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    Hello. For people in this situation, first, we ignore him, and scold more if we have energy; Second, you may be deliberately angry with him.

    In fact, the more calm we behave towards this kind of person, the happier they become, and they are angry

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-18

    It's good to meet such people and ignore them.

    If you ignore him, he'll be bored.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-17

    Relatives say bad things about me to my face, he treats me as inappropriate, he asks people to follow me, he calls people to say bad things about me to my face, Dad can't be home, Dad tells relatives what is going on at home, what relatives say, relatives say one is one, relatives also help outsiders speak, never help my family to speak, relatives give face to outsiders, never give face to my family, relatives are unreasonable to me, Dad also follows relatives to be unreasonable to me, relatives tell Dad to beat Mom, Dad beats Mom, and then Mom runs away from home for more than ten years, I can't communicate with my father, and my father listens to my relatives, what should I do.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-16

    When encountering a copy, do not talk about attacking.

    Reasonable people will indeed make themselves very annoying, and sometimes they will be very depressed, especially the people around them, so what should they do when they encounter unreasonable people?

    Don't take it to heart. When you meet an unreasonable person, you have to learn to be big-minded, comfort yourself that you don't have such a general insight, don't take it to heart, just listen to a few nagging words, why remember the other party's badness, let yourself be annoyed, and be happy.

    Don't argue with it. When you encounter an unreasonable person, you must not argue with him (her), there is no need for that, the person who argues will be sad in the end, and what can you argue with an unreasonable person.

    Listen more and answer less. Usually know that the other party is unreasonable, so I listen to him more, I don't interject, I don't participate in arguments, and I am in a weak position in the discussion, so that unreasonable people have no chance to be angry with themselves.

    Hit hard. When encountering an unreasonable person, if you blindly endure and tolerate it, the other party does not know that she is showing weakness and does not think of the dispute, but instead intensifies and does not know what is good or bad, then you will fight back fiercely and make the other party speechless, so that you will not be unreasonable to yourself when you talk again.

    Deal less. When you meet an unreasonable person, if it is a friend, then deal less with it, less contact, it will be a lot better troubles, knowing that the other party is unreasonable, you can look at the other party's character, if there is no problem with the character, it is a little stronger, such a person can still be a friend.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-15

    When you can't bear it, you can be unreasonable.

  56. Anonymous users2023-12-14

    Treat him the way he is.

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