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I will go back, since she is already unreasonable, I can't tolerate it, I can't let myself be bullied.
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I won't compromise but I'm not the kind of unreasonable, I'll try to explain the situation to him, if it's really not clear I won't care, I don't mean I'm compromised, after all, what he did is really incorrect, but I can't bite like a mad dog like him, I have to do my part.
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I won't choose either, because if I compromise, I will make him feel that what he said makes sense, and if I go back, then it will make people feel that I am just as unreasonable as him, so I ignore him and her. There is a good saying, "Fight with people who understand, don't say a word to people who are confused," because you can't understand.
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On this issue, in fact, I don't think it's very good to compromise and go back, if you compromise, he will think that you are a person who does what he says, and he can naturally bully casually, if he goes back, he will think that you are a person who does not know how to think, in my eyes, we can communicate with him, and he can understand the truth through an object or an object, and we must be patient during this time.
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If you meet a confused and unreasonable man, this kind of unreasonable person, just confused, unreasonable, this kind of person is very easy to deal with, he is confused, he can't do anything well, when you say him, he is not reasonable, then when you encounter something, don't care about him, let him do it himself, if he can't do it well, he will return to beg you, you do things beautifully, he will admire you in his heart, and then you slowly persuade, pay attention to the tone when persuading, and you can't say too much, you can't remember if you say too much, On the contrary, it will be disgusted with you.
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Compromise, since people are unreasonable, it is useless for you to talk about it, and it is better to leave yourself in a good mood if you waste meaningless time.
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If it's a matter of principle, go back immediately! If it's not a matter of principle, discuss it another day, and then turn around and leave!
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The so-called three views do not coincide not on the same channel. The rapid development of society is too fast, and because of the environment in which people learn and grow, they will also quickly misalign the relationships at all levels, family affection, friendship, love, material and spiritual wealth. When we meet people who are difficult to reconcile, we can choose to leave quietly except to be silent and silent.
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If it were me, I would definitely go back, no matter what, I can't suffer when communicating with people, and I will definitely go back when I encounter unreasonable people.
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I don't really want to fight with others, so if it's not big and important, I don't care about such unreasonable people.
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If you meet this kind of person, it's best not to talk to him, you and him are at different levels, and he can't listen to your reasoning, so don't be angry with her, there's no need!
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Don't blindly tolerate what the problem is, but let it go for some small things. When he meets unreasonable people, you can't be as unreasonable as him, right?
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If this contradiction is reasonable, it should be fought over, and if it is not understood, then the friendship relationship should be diluted.
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It depends on the occasion on which they met, and it depends on whether the two parties know each other or not. Familiar or unfamiliar? Different situations require different responses.
The general rule is: if you can, try to dodge. It's basically useless for you to reason with unreasonable people.
Even if it's a business that you can't dodge, you have to avoid this person and find someone else who can do things. You can also avoid it first and come back the next day. In short, avoiding is the best way to go.
Quarrels are the worst way to go. Under normal circumstances, it is easy to avoid. After all, this person is simply unreasonable, not a robber, not a murderer.
Robbers or murderous demons are difficult to deal with.
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If we meet such a person, I think we should not talk to him more, our only solution is not to reason with her, we can stay away from him.
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If you meet someone who is particularly unreasonable, you should choose to ignore it, because such a person can't say anything, and you will be very angry when you talk to such a person.
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When we encounter particularly unreasonable people, we must also use unreasonable methods to deal with such people, and do not let ourselves be soft-hearted, such people do not deserve to be respected.
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Encountering unreasonable coping:
1. Be sure to stay calm and don't be impulsive.
The more you meet unreasonable people, the more you must behave calmly and know how to control your emotions. If you are provoked by the other person, it means that you are not sure of winning against him, because impulsiveness is the devil, and when you are emotional, your thinking will also become confused, and you may run out of words, your mind will go blank, your voice will tremble, and your whole body will tremble.
If you are calm and smiling, not only will your thinking not be affected by him, but it may also make the other party lose confidence in their hearts and have a psychological fear of you, and you will win first in the aura. The second thing to do is to listen to him first, regardless of whether what he said makes sense or not, and don't force an argument and cause conflict.
Because if both parties are angry, they will be irrational, and there will be no way to continue to communicate with them.
This method is suitable for people who may just be short-tempered, irritable, easily lose control of their emotions, and have a good face. Not for everyone. If you can't listen to the truth at all, and you don't eat hard or soft, you can use the second method.
2. Stay away from him, there is no need to reason with him.
If you find that the other party is really the kind of person who doesn't talk about the truth at all, and there is no possibility of communication at all, then there is no need to entangle with him, otherwise, you will waste your time and make your original good mood unpleasant, so why bother to ask for hardship? There is a saying that people and pigs wrestle together, and in the end they can't tell who is a human and who is a pig? So there is no need to be knowledgeable with him.
The wicked have their own wicked grinding, he will always meet people who are more unreasonable than him, and there will always be someone to clean him up. If you want to destroy a person, let him go further and further down the wrong path, and don't correct his mistakes.
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1. Don't take it to heart:
When you encounter unreasonable people, you must learn to be open-minded, comfort yourself that you don't agree with such common sense, don't take it to heart, just listen to a few nagging. Why should you remember the other person's badness and make yourself sad? Just be happy.
2.Don't argue with it :
When you meet an unreasonable person, you must not argue with him or her. There is no need for this. In the end, the commentator will be sad. What can you argue with an unreasonable person?
3.Listen more and answer less:
If you know that the other party is usually unreasonable, listen to him more often, and will not interrupt or participate in the argument. You are in a weak position when you speak, so that unreasonable people do not have a chance to get angry with themselves.
4.Let him respect himself:
Unreasonable people still have objects of admiration in their hearts, and those who admire themselves will not be unreasonable. Then try to make yourself an unreasonable person, admire yourself, worship yourself, and you won't be bored.
5.Strike hard: When encountering unreasonable people, if they blindly endure and tolerate themselves, the other party does not know that they are showing weakness and does not think of care, but they will become more serious, and they do not know what to do.
Then he will fight back fiercely, leaving the other party speechless, so that he will not be unreasonable to himself when he speaks again.
6.Fewer transactions:
When you meet an unreasonable person, if it is a friend, then deal with less and contact less, and there will be a lot of troubles. If you know that the other party is unreasonable, you can look at the other party's character. If there is no problem with his character, he is relatively strong in his mouth. Such people can still be friends.
7.Look at the size of things:
When you encounter unreasonable people, it also depends on the size of the matter. If you've been hurt, wronged, or slighted, it melts. Don't take it personally.
If something big happens, you will be hurt and your own interests will be harmed. Then you need to turn to others to uphold justice for yourself and protect your own rights and interests.
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When encountering unreasonable people, when the other party speaks, do not argue with them, explain the facts clearly, and then continue to do what should be done, and in the face of unreasonable people, they should remain calm and generous, and when there is a contradiction, directly point out the other party's unreasonableness and nonsense, and use facts to fight back one by one.
When encountering unreasonable people, when the other party speaks, do not argue with them, explain the facts clearly, and then continue to do what they should do, and in the face of unreasonable people, they must remain calm and generous, and when there is a contradiction, directly point out the other party's unreasonableness and nonsense, and use facts to fight back one by one.
1. Don't be angry: When you meet an unreasonable person, you must restrain your temper, don't be angry, keep telling yourself psychologically, don't be with the person opposite in general, it is unreasonable, keep silent, calm, smile, listen to the other party's nagging a few words, so that you will quickly get out of it, if you are entangled with unreasonableness, it is self-inflicted.
2. Don't be angry: When you meet unreasonable people, not only can you not be angry, but also can not be angry, generally unreasonable people, are more angry, like to listen to nice words, if you are angry, he will be more angry than you, more angry, will be more stiff, in the face of unreasonable people smile is the best way to solve things, because in the end the unreasonable people still prefer to forget things, he is angry stool spring, he has nothing to do, but he is very angry, why bother.
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When you encounter this kind of unreasonable person, and your voice is louder than you, let others listen to the clear voice next to you without dates, and think that he is reasonable, there is a saying in ancient times that Xiucai meets Bing is reasonable, and it is not clear, the reason for this is also because Xiucai and Bing are in different environments, and they receive different levels of education, and Bing is fighting a war, their ideas are more direct and practical, and Xiucai thinks more comprehensively, and considers many hypothetical situations, but this is not practical for Bing, because the battlefield is ever-changing, you can't ** the enemy's next step at all, so when Xiucai meets Bing, you tell him these truths, and Bing will ignore you.
1. Be clear about your feelings, that is, when facing what the other party does, don't rush to evaluate or argue, but first clarify what kind of emotions the other party's behavior makes you, so that you can calm down.
2. Don't hope that "moving your mouth" will solve the problem. The other party can't think rationally when he's mad, don't simply hope to convince people with reason.
3. Don't be hijacked by the other person's emotions. There is a term in psychology called "emotional hijacking", also known as "amygdala hijacking", in which, the amygdala refers to the part of the brain that is responsible for perceiving threat, if you are hijacked by the other person's emotions, then you can easily become irrational, and even have negative emotions such as fear and anger, which is not conducive to solving problems.
4. Stay calm and make good use of "empathy". Empathy generally refers to psychological transposition, which is often referred to as comparing the heart to the heart, that is, putting oneself in the other person's shoes to experience the other person's emotions and cognition, and trying to think about the stupid oak problem from the other person's point of view.
5. Let the other person let their guard down. The other party is often very sensitive when it is unreasonable, and has a strong sense of self-protection, so it is best not to be aggressive at this time, but to let the other party know that he is not a "threat", so as to "cool down" the other party's emotions.
6. Wait for the other party to calm down before expressing your opinion to the other party. However, if the other person is not that close to you, such as the other person is just your general friend, or you don't want to get the other person's approval at all, then the following two tips can help you "get out" as soon as possible.
1. Admit defeat directly and seek advice. Tell the other person, "I'm throwing in the towel, you're the boss," or ask for advice, "I know I'm not doing a lot of things well, how do you think I should improve?" "This way you can avoid the attention and attacks of the other party.
2. Take retreat as advance and fight back skillfully. Tough counterattacks often make the situation worse, you may as well use the method of retreating, that is, through "self-blackening", let the other party know the negative evaluation of you by others, and urge the other party to actively avoid you.
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Summary. There are all kinds of people in social life, and it is inevitable to meet unreasonable people. If we meet unreasonable people, I believe we will definitely be angry, but first, we must learn to adjust our mentality.
Since the other party is an unreasonable person, we don't have to talk to him too much and do what we think is right. There is no need to have too many theories with him, lest we also get excited and irrational, and the two sides will have unnecessary conflicts. Second, try to find a third party for help.
Finally, on the premise of ensuring that their own interests are not affected, they should be resolved as peacefully as possible. Hope it helps......May I be happy and happy <>
There are all kinds of people in social life, and it is inevitable to meet people who are stupid and unreasonable. If we encounter unreasonable people, I believe we will definitely be very angry, but first, we must learn to adjust our mentality. Since the other party is an unreasonable person, we don't have to talk to him too much and do what we think is right.
There is no need to have too many theories with him, lest we also get excited and irrational, and the two sides will have unnecessary conflicts. Second, try to find a third party for help. Finally, on the premise of ensuring that their own interests are not affected, they should be resolved as peacefully as possible.
Hope it helps......May I be happy and happy <>
Very good! Thank you!
You're welcome It's all what should be done, I hope you can keep a happy mood, mental health and a happy life....May it be good....<
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