My boyfriend always asks me to buy him something, and he doesn t like me

Updated on psychology 2024-02-21
39 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It is generally impossible to take advantage of it, and it is said that men generally rarely like to spend other people's money! He spends your money, proving that he has no money now! to rely on you, so you have to slowly stop coming into contact with him!

    If you're going to make him like you, it's a bit impossible! I can say for sure if you get along with him! Then you will have a very unhappy life for the rest of your life! Men generally start to be nice to you, and the faint ones are tasteless!

    I want to forget him, it's very simple, don't contact him, think about something else, like another person!

    If you are short of money, you can ask him for it back!

    Try what he reflects, if not returned! What kind of person this man is! If he pays it back, then he still has a little conscience! Remember, if you want to try him, you have to be ruthless.

    That's all I want to say! Hope you can find true love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It depends on the specific situation, if your boyfriend's monthly salary is more than 20,000 yuan, and the family is very wealthy, and he is unwilling to buy you things, it means that he does not really love you.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    This depends on the real situation of your boyfriend, for example, your boyfriend has a monthly salary of more than 1-20,000 yuan, then he doesn't pay much attention to you, a reluctant to spend money for his girlfriend means that he doesn't love you very much, if he only has a monthly salary of 3-5 thousand, then you have a problem, you can't ask him to buy hundreds of gifts at every turn, how does he live, he wants to make money and prepare for marriage, he has to spend his own expenses, he wants to spend daily living expenses, you let him eat the northwest wind.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Forget it, such a calculating boy, although he is not a scumbag, but forget it, it will not be successful in the future!

    Ask for likes, ask for adoption, thank you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    This kind of man to be honest is to have no money, usually sometimes be generous, or worry about you spending his money, he is just playing with you, and he is not too rich, in the end it may be a more important thing to pay attention to the two sides have dealings, in a word, the boyfriend does not care about you very much.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This situation depends on the financial situation of the boyfriend. When two people are together, don't worry too much about money. If you think your boyfriend is reluctant to give you money or buy you something.

    If you're not happy. I advise you to give up as soon as possible. lest they break up after a long time.

    As for what your boyfriend says, why don't you buy him something. If that's the case, your boyfriend doesn't care about you at all. I think it's better to break up.

    Don't get along anymore and break up.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course we broke up. After all, the woman is Lafayette. How can I do it without spending money, I'm a poor guy after all.

    But I've never seen it, it's just that my girlfriend wants this and that. When you get married, you can't write your house, and your salary card is yours. To put it bluntly, you just want him to spend money on you.

    One is cool, and the other is a gift. It's just that he doesn't spend a lot of money on you, so you can't be angry.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If this happens between lovers, it is estimated that they will not be together for a long time, and there will be a gap between each other for money, and slowly this gap will get bigger and bigger, so since you think he is not the best, don't force yourself together.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Don't be too materialistic, isn't that enough?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    It's not normal, a boyfriend who really loves you will only buy you things, and won't let you spend money to buy things for him, often implying that the person who buys things wants to spend your money in addition to not loving you.

    Men love you for the show.

    1. I will ask for your opinion on anything.

    Someone who really puts you at ease will respect you and follow your ideas and opinions. He will discuss anything with you, which is a sign that he takes you very seriously because he has made you a part of his life. Sometimes they will nag you, care about you, remind you to dress when it's cold, force you to eat if you don't eat, and care more and more about you.

    2. He will know your menstrual period better than you.

    The highest level of loving a person is to treat you as his life, and your little things are his big things. He will remember your menstrual period, will take care of you patiently, and will make you brown sugar water.

    will warm your belly, and I can't wait to bear your pain for you. True love for someone is like this, and I don't want the other person to suffer a little.

    3. I dislike you but I am reluctant to leave you.

    There is a kind of man who is hard-mouthed and soft-hearted, and he doesn't know how much he dislikes you when he says it, but he doesn't know how much he loves you in his heart. Many times it is through the mouth to say you, so that you feel his existence, and your heart will be more reluctant to you. He will say that you want to **, but he will buy a bunch of food for you behind your back, that kind of love is very warm and real.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you always imply that it is not normal for you to buy things for him, maybe he prefers to be greedy and cheap, I think two people are equal in love with each other, and they can give each other gifts, but it is too much to always imply that they are buying.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It's definitely not normal, think about it, if you were him, would you be like this? Such a boyfriend's purpose is not pure, he doesn't really want to date you, you should be cautious!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If your boyfriend always hints that you buy him something, I advise you not to be with him, even if you are together for a long time, you will not be able to stand it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If your boyfriend has bought you a lot of gifts, you can also buy him some gifts, after all, your boyfriend sometimes needs some small surprises.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    My boyfriend always likes to buy him things, sincerely, he also has needs, needs. He asked him to buy it, so he bought it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Well, it's normal, after all, she also needs your love for her, maybe let him buy you something, maybe show your love!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Reaching out to your boyfriend to ask for money is not a long-term thing, he is just your boyfriend, not your parents, and he has no need to give you money. If you want him to look up to you and be good to you, you have to rely on yourself, and girls should be self-reliant. Be strong, go to work on your own, and I'm sure you can support yourself and live well.

    This society is realistic, boyfriends and girlfriends just take what they need, everyone is lonely, needs spiritual support, and wants to find a support. Don't ask him for money, he will be annoyed, and you will feel embarrassed after a long time. Eat other people's soft mouths, and take others short.

    Two people together are equal, and if you don't want to say anything ugly about you, just be self-reliant.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    A boyfriend like this doesn't care about you at all, you have to learn to let go early, and if he cares about you, he won't need you to make a sound, and he'll take the initiative to do it.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I think it can be explained that the person who loves you will be willing to spend money for you, willing to spend his heart and mind around you, otherwise he will not buy you things. If his family is very rich, maybe he doesn't love you that much, but he has a good family, and he is very generous to each of his girlfriends, and will buy them a lot of things, because he doesn't care about the money, just to get a novelty of two people together, and when the novelty passes, she may look for the next partner. <>

    If he has an average family background, but he often buys you things, it means that he loves youBecause she is willing to spend her hard-earned money on you, he wants to give you the best he canThat's why he does this, you must cherish it when you meet such a boy, he must love you very much. <>

    And she is willing to take the initiative to buy things for you, I think this boy is very caring, now such boys are rare, all girls say what they want boys will buy, willing to take the initiative to buy things boys will be a plus. Although the boy who is willing to spend money on you does not necessarily really love you, but the boy who loves you is definitely willing to spend money for you, you need to feel, don't just look at the superficial phenomenon, whether he loves you or not, through his various signs of you and your way of getting along with you can be felt, look at his actual actions. In fact, today's boys are also very materialistic, if they don't like each other, they are not willing to spend money on each other, they will spend money on more valuable places, so the other party is willing to spend money for you or it means that he loves you, so you don't need to worry so much, just enjoy your current life.

    I think as a woman, don't blindly accept and not give, you also need to do something for the other partyThe love that goes both ways will last longerOtherwise, he will always be alone in giving, he will feel very tired, and he may want to give up this relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Just because your boyfriend buys you a lot of things doesn't mean that he loves you very much, it can only mean that you get along well now, or that he has a habit of buying gifts for others.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There are prerequisites for this, first to see if the man himself has money, and then to see if the woman is a person who likes to spend money indiscriminately.

    If this man is not bad for money and is willing to spend money for you, it cannot be denied that this man likes you and wants to get you, but it is difficult to determine whether he will be cold after getting it.

    If this man is not very rich, but he never hesitates to spend money for you, maybe he is really in love with you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Your boyfriend buys you a lot of things, of course, to a certain extent, this can indeed show that your boyfriend loves you very much, it is because he loves you, so he will buy you what he thinks or says you need, everything you like, such a boy is worth cherishing.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    He buys a lot of things for you, which means that he is very willing to spend money on you, but it does not mean that he loves you very much, after all, love is not measured by material, of course, if he will always appear when you need it, and he is willing to buy you gifts and spend money, then he must love you.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No. Someone who truly loves you will care about you in action instead of giving you a lot of material things.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The boyfriend buys you a lot of things, which can be understood as that he loves you. There are many ways to love someone, such as buying gifts for each other and giving the most help when you encounter problems when you communicate more together. These are all expressions of love.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    This should show that he loves you very much and is willing to pay for you in order to be able to get you, which can make your life better and increase your good impression of him.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Your boyfriend buys you a lot of things, which can only show that he is very good to you, but there is no way to prove that he loves you very much, because love is a thing that starts from the heart, not from the material.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Your boyfriend buys you a lot of things, which shows that he loves you very much, and it may also mean that he needs you very much and wants to have you.

    If I can buy you things often and accompany you often, it means that I love you, and if it is only temporary, it means that I just need you.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    A man who buys you things does not prove that he loves you, but a man who does not buy you things, it will definitely prove that he does not love you, you have to look at other aspects, he buys you things, and he cares about you, loves you, and thinks about you everywhere A man like you will definitely love you very much.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Your boyfriend buys you a lot of things, and this is okay, which shows that he loves you, at least he is willing to give some for you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Your boyfriend buys you a lot of things, which basically shows that he loves you, and if he doesn't love you, he won't give you so much. So it's a sign that he likes you.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Your boyfriend buys you a lot of things, which must show that he loves you, because he wants to think about your life, and wants you to eat and drink well, and the beauty of your clothes can make him like it more.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Your boyfriend buys you a lot of things, which shows that he loves you very much, because he is willing to spend money for you, and you are very important in his mind.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    I don't think it shows that he loves you, it only shows that he is willing to spend money for you, and it can't prove whether he is sincere to you.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Your boyfriend is willing to spend money for you, which means that he takes you to heart, and the woman who can let him let him in his heart must be the person he loves, there is no doubt about it.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    The fact that your boyfriend buys you a lot of things does not mean that he loves you very much, whether he loves you or not, you should be able to feel it, not from what he buys. It depends on how he usually treats you and whether he really cares about you.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    He said he liked you very much, that's why he bought you a lot of things.

  38. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Whether you love or not depends on the usual small things, but people who don't love you will definitely be reluctant to spend money to buy you things.

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Ha ha. It can only be said that your boyfriend does not love you. There are no romantic cells. Whether you like it or not, you don't know yourself. The woman's feeling is very accurate.

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