When I meet someone I hate, but I want to be with them every day, do I need to pretend to be friendl

I have experience, the person I am talking about is the second, because it is all facts, it is inconvenient for him to mention his name, just call him the second brother, this second brother is really annoying, he always likes to find me when there is nothing to do, he has a lot of annoying places, for example, when he goes to the mall to buy clothes, he will ask, what is the price of your purchase? Buy ice cream, he will say that a dollar of ice cream at least eight cents, buy spinach seeds, he said, buy ten yuan of spinach seeds, planted can not sell for ten yuan, he buys 50 yuan a bag of corn seeds, and people sell seeds say, your three pounds of sticks are not worth three yuan, put a bag and sell it for 50 yuan, you pit people, such a person, and often look for me to play, and then I bought a house in the county, a few years later he also bought a house near me, and every day after dinner ** with me. I have known him for a long time to know, they are not in harmony with the couple, often quarrel, sixty-two-year-old gave birth to five daughters and a son, four of the five daughters hate him, he is at odds with the neighbors around him in the village, he drove in the county before retirement, and the salary of more than 2,000 yuan is not spent at the end of the month, others say me, what do you pay attention to him, others persuade me to have less contact with him, but I have known him for more than ten years and have never quarreled, although I am two years younger than him, but he listens to me very much, and I am constantly changing him, maybe we are born to have a fate.

If you're dealing with people who meet a lot, I think you can try to think about things from the perspective of others, and although there are people in this world, I don't believe that anyone likes to be a nuisance. We hate a person generally because his behavior and values are not the same as ours, but it does not mean that it is wrong, everyone has everyone's thoughts, everyone has everyone's philosophical concepts, just like someone who says that people are not destroyed for themselves, some people will instantly dislike this person when they hear it, but in reality everyone is selfish, but the direction of each type of person's selfishness is different, we can understand others from a different angle.

You imply that this person has nothing to do with you, and that he can't do anything about you. You can also keep asking yourself why you hate him and what you hate about him, and if you keep asking questions, you will find that it is unreasonable to hate him, and you will not care about him. It's just that the relationship is not far away.

If you're working with someone you hate, try not to chat or be perfunctory. Because since the hate comes from the heart, no matter what he does, it will not satisfy you. Finally, it is to slowly accept others through constant self-reminders and self-adjustment.

If you really can't do it, just ask yourself to work or play alone.

You can ask others about the merits of people who are not very porridge, and then you should also discover the advantages of that person, and look at others with appreciation. That makes me hate that person less! Change your mind, feel that everything he does has something to do with him, as long as he doesn't interfere with himself, ignore him, then what he does will not affect his mood.

There are also times when you hate a person because of some things, but maybe you just see the surface of things, in fact, people may be doing great things with the humiliation of being misunderstood by you, and you are just eating melon seeds in a corner and discussing with friends and colleagues how this person is annoying, and you have to pretend to be okay when you meet with others, and you are uncomfortable and others are not comfortable.

Take the initiative to discover the advantages of others, shift your attention to the advantages of others, and there must be a teacher for the threesome, learn the advantages of others, and absorb and improve yourself. Or people also hate your shortcomings, but magnify all your strengths, so as to accept and appreciate this person who is not compatible with him, and they will not hate him.

In the past, when I was young, I would be very direct, and I would ignore the people I hated, but now I have experienced too much, you live more than yourself, if you do your own things with your willfulness, you will look naïve, and now you will still communicate and exchange with him in the face of the person you hate, just a kind of entertainment on the face!

In fact, such a problem, don't worry too much about yourself, anyone will encounter it, work together every day, there is no need to pull down your face, hurt each other's harmony, tolerate a little, have a big belly, and explain the words clearly if there is a problem. Money doesn't mean anything, the most important thing is self-esteem, self-love.

No, you don't. Let's not focus on the hater, so that we don't care about what he does and don't feel uncomfortable. Then we can spend more time with the people we like for work or play, which can ensure that we are in a good mood.

Reluctant to have a good relationship with someone you hate. But I don't show it in a big way, and I don't pretend to be nice to her. Not far or close, the friendship of gentlemen, light as water, unbreakable contempt, unbreakable friendship.

There's no need to pretend to be friendly, and you don't have to care about what you think of that person, but it's better not to talk about that person with others, after all, this kind of influence is not good, and you can evaluate it in your heart, but then your prejudice against that person will become deeper and deeper.

As an adult, you can't put on your face that I hate you. And some people hate it, and I have to deal with them, what I can do is to be myself, people don't offend me, I don't offend people, and avoid dealing too much.

I have experienced this before, and I slowly began to understand why she did this, about half a year, I knocked on his door for the first time, brought some fruit, and then he asked me to go in and sit, I went in to observe the general layout of his house, he poured me a glass of water and put it in front of me, at first I didn't talk directly about why he was unhappy with me and other issues, first started from his house, talked a lot about his family, etc., before leaving, I asked him if he did anything to me, very dissatisfied can you tell me, He was a little embarrassed to hear me ask like this, in fact, it was also boring and out of jealousy, and finally he said that he would come to my house to chat when he was free, and I understood that some of his knots were untied (personal experience, if you think I do this, it is not suitable for you to continue to find me, if you think it is ok, give it to adopt).

When you hate someone, but you have to face them every day

It's easy to do, but in fact, the trouble lies with yourself.

There's no reason to hate someone, but no matter how annoying he is, you just have to ignore him!

No matter what he says or does, treat it as his fart!!

There are many people who look up and don't look down, and they are very annoying and hateful. As long as you calm down and focus

Just where you should be concentrating! For example, study, work.

In addition, it is a good idea to chat with good friends and tell jokes, and use the person you hate as a topic of conversation, and everyone can bury him together! The main thing is to make your bad mood instantly better!

I think,There are two ways...

1: I don't care.

You can calmly walk past him every day, don't care, just treat him as if he doesn't exist, and treat him as air.

2: Be brave and face it.

You can also boldly tell him: Our family's affairs have nothing to do with you, you don't need **** family affairs, and there is no need to trouble me... Something like that. But this seems to destroy the harmony between the two families...

I hope you have a good day