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From my personal experience, this boy's mentality is probably like this: he has a girl he likes, or his prospects with the girl he likes are not very clear, at least not the feeling that Lang has a concubine intended; But that doesn't mean the two of them look hopeless; Therefore, I guess that he still wants to fight at the moment to see if there is a chance to reach that girl, however, since the probability of success is not particularly large, so he will also consider what to do if the girl fails, at this time, you confess to him, whether you are because of your appearance or other conditions, or because he does have some feelings for you, in short, he thinks that it seems good to be with you, so to sum up, his idea is obviously that if he can be with that girl, he will be with her; If he can't reach that girl, he will choose you second, which is also acceptable to him.
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Saying "he doesn't like you so much" must be true, but it's nothing, many people haven't thought much about each other's affairs before being confessed, and they don't know each other's people, they don't immediately agree but are willing to take the initiative to contact, at least they can see that they are a responsible person, and they naturally have a good feeling, he wants to understand you and provide a basis for their choices, so please show yourself well, not to say that you are courteous, but to show yourself as a person, of course, after confession, you can only let the other party choose to be passive, Of course, it's good to take the initiative, please pay more attention to whether there is kindness or malice behind it, waiting for his choice, and he can't be allowed to advance the relationship.
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I don't know the relationship between the two of you.,But a simple confession is actually empty and meaningless.,Learning how to get along is practical.,I think,Since the confession,,Usually it shouldn't be one-sided.,I must feel that the other party also has a good impression of myself.,In addition, to a certain extent, it also means that there is considerable trust in the other party's character and the like.,So I won't say much about the extra worries.,Since the confession.,It's a classmate.,You can take the initiative to ask him to do something semi-publicly.,Study together.、Eat a snack or something.,After a few days, When you find a suitable atmosphere, you can euphemistically say, "I just want to say my feelings to you, not to put pressure on you, you don't need to reply to me in a hurry" and something like that, I think sometimes feelings need to be moderately ambiguous and euphemistic and foreshadowing, too straightforward, not like signing a deed of sale.
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Judging from the fact that he is more active than before, he still hopes that you will continue to develop, but with some consideration. I'm in this state now, I like a girl, but I don't dare to confess at will, we are all leaving our hometown to find a job, I'm afraid of confessing, if the other party agrees, it will become a long-distance relationship, although it's boyfriend and girlfriend, but I can't be by your side, what's the difference between ordinary friends? I don't think about it the same way I used to when I was younger, I think about getting married, buying a house, and even about my children's education in the future.
Now rashly making a lifelong promise to a girl, is it irresponsible for the girl, letting the family maintain a long-distance relationship and keep the empty house, or does one party resign and go to the other party's place? Therefore, the responsible boy will consider a lot of things, and will not just say that he is responsible for you on impulse, since you like him, and he takes the initiative to talk to you, then you can actively show yourself, and in the end, whether you can be together or not, I believe he will make a responsible decision.
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Wait until you are more sure of your intentions and make your words clearer. Taking the initiative is to give the other party a chance, so he is also trying to understand his own mind.
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That's the case now. He's a very passive and a bit shy. In fact, I was thinking, even if you alienate me, I will retreat and think about nothing. It's really helpless now.
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In case he just hasn't thought about it yet, give him some time, if he doesn't think about it and promise you, and then finds out that he doesn't like you, then what if people just want to be strict with their feelings and be responsible.
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I've encountered the same situation. Later, I found out that he had this attitude not only towards me, but also towards any girl around him, knowing that others liked him, he didn't explain, flirted twice from time to time, and people confessed that he pretended not to understand. Now I just want to wish him peace in his life.
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It is recommended to think carefully before deciding whether to chase down, or to have a long mind, if you like you, the attitude is not like this. Confession to boys does not refuse or accept the following situations:
1. This man actually likes you a little, but he also likes other girls and wants you to be a spare tire.
2. This man is thinking about whether you are a good fit.
3. He actually wants to reject you, but in order not to hurt the girl's face, he doesn't want to say it.
Topics to talk about with boys.
1. Don't talk about topics that are too serious or meaningless.
Because the two of you don't know each other very well, too serious topics will only ruin the atmosphere of your chat, so don't choose. There are also a lot of nonsensical topics that are not suitable for discussion, because you will also spoil the atmosphere.
2. If you haven't known him for a long time, don't talk about his family background.
It is not very good for unfamiliar people to talk about family background, because the family background was not created by the man himself, but left by his parents. A lot of men don't like to talk about this topic. If you are curious about this aspect, it will make the guy think that you are very vain, and it will also make the man feel that you have no confidence in him, and you are not chatting with him to want to fall in love with him.
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Hello, if he also has feelings for you, he also likes you, you confess, he will not reject you, nor will he accept you, you can continue to chase, but don't be too proactive, let him know that you like him, let him feel that you have a good impression of him, if he doesn't like you, you have to let go, don't bother him again. If he likes you, he will give you a clear answer. If he doesn't like you, then you just let it go and don't bother him anymore.
I hope you are happy.
If the boy doesn't like it for a long time or doesn't love it deeply and is not very introverted or has low self-esteem, the two of them can still be ordinary friends; But if the boy has been in love for a long time or loves deeply, or has a more introverted personality and low self-esteem, the pain of rejection is relatively great, and unless the girl has enough enthusiasm and patience, it is more difficult for the two to become ordinary friends.
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