Can anyone help me with this? Confused.

Incorrect immature view of love, in fact, two people are mutual, your first two boyfriends, maybe not boyfriends in the real sense, they should not be with you out of deep love for you, but the third boyfriend, I think you should cherish, there is no other reason, because he is good to you, is really good, which is very important for a woman. And it's not easy to find someone who is really good to you, whether it's a man or a woman, in your life. In addition, I would like to remind you that heroes do not ask where they come from, there is no way to change a person's family background, but fate is in their own hands, if your third boyfriend is very idealistic, serious and capable, you must not let go of this potential stock.

When you are together, don't talk about family conditions, and pay attention to protecting the self-esteem of the people you love. Often, people who talk about their family conditions as a reason for their superiority have no future...

If you like him, just communicate with your parents, it's not that marrying a rich man is a good destination, wealth and poverty are not fixed, the most important thing is to look at the potential, about this issue, you can take a look at the story of Jiang Taigong's hard to recover.

First of all, you have to figure out for yourself whether you like people or not, if you really don't like it, you can't worry about the family, and you're tired of finding so many things for yourself?

You said that he suddenly felt annoyed by this - -Alas, I also felt that way... In fact, in the end, I concluded that I didn't like it that much, but I just had some good feelings -- and after a long time, I found out that I didn't like it. I used to have an object that was also annoying, but it wasn't very annoying, and sometimes I thought that I was actually good alone, but after a long time, I had feelings, and feelings need to be accumulated and cultivated!

If you like him, then you should let him work hard and be motivated! And get rid of the troubles that family factors bring to yourself and the people you like. If he doesn't want to make progress, don't want this kind of man!

That's what I thought, and I hope it can help you.

Think about it, what would you do without him, and then think that you can live well without him, so you can simply divide it, don't waste your time on him, but if you don't have confidence, it means that you still rely on him, maybe you like freedom, don't like to be constrained, so you will always think about it.

Think about it carefully, think about it seriously, how you want to live in the future A man has a poor environment, it doesn't matter, if his ambition is also poor, then you should seriously think about this man is worthy of your life.

It's still young, there's no need to want to get married so soon.

Doesn't the state advocate late marriage and late childbearing?

My experience is that when you're single, you want to deal with someone. When I was in the middle of the match, I wanted to be single.

Does that mean you don't want to give up a third relationship? Actually, you can change it, as long as you say it. You find a time to tell him that you need your own space and time.

The opinion of your family is indeed a big factor, and it can crush you and make you retreat. Family members may think that now is not the time to fall in love, think that you are still young and other factors that are good for you. Honestly, you don't have to tell your family impulsively.

Moreover, you also know that the possibility of falling in love in college and still being together after graduating from college is very small. You need time to test your love.

If you really don't want to give up, just stick to it! Let go of the pressure of your family, don't mention it in the future, and live a relaxed life. After graduating from college, tell your family again.

Then you can't break through this"Two months"The Circle?

It's complicated. I suggest you go and see it.

My youth is in charge of whom.

Think about it and be careful to regret it later.

When we are helpless, confused, or in need of help, we often seek support and comfort from others. However, in this world, there are some who can give you better advice and support, while others cannot.

When I have problems and setbacks, I find my family as soon as possible. They have always been my spiritual support, and they can give me the most sincere care and advice. They are also the people I trust and love the most in my life, so I don't hesitate to ask them for help.

Help. In addition to my family, my circle of friends is also very important. My friends and I share our life experiences with each other, and they can give me new perspectives and ways of thinking, which makes me more open and creative.

Finally, I also seek the help of a professional. If my problem is too difficult or I need mental and physical **, I will see a doctor or a counselor. They have their own professional knowledge and skills and can give me the right guidance and best solutions.

In conclusion, we should not go it alone in the face of difficulties and setbacks. We need to look for people who can support and help us, including family, friends and professionals. These people can give us new ideas and perspectives, give us strength and confidence, and help us get through difficult times.

Here are the people or resources who may be looking for help or support:

When many people encounter difficulties or feel helpless, they first think of seeking support and help from their family members. Family is a person's closest and most sincere supporters, giving people warmth and security.

A friend is an understanding and supporter of a person, can provide companionship and comfort in daily life, and is also the best person to talk to when encountering difficulties.

If you encounter major difficulties or emotional problems, you can seek the help of a professional psychologist or counselor to talk about your thoughts and get professional advice and advice.

People can also seek help from community organizations and relief agencies in times of depression, lovelorn, or emergencies.

In conclusion, when a person feels helpless, the person seeking help or support or resources may vary from person to person. Everyone needs to find the most suitable solution according to their needs and circumstances, whether it is a person close to them or a professional organization.

First of all, the following is all personal opinion.

Let's take a look first. But very unfortunately, it is really not recommended that you reconcile with your ex-girlfriend again, she is so arrogant, and now she is reconciled for a while, but the friction will be greater in the future. Two people live together by tolerating each other and trusting each other, but I feel like your ex-girlfriend didn't do any of that.

And she rarely seems to admit her mistakes, such a woman is likely to have a small quarrel in 3 days and a big quarrel in 5 days in later life, do you think you can stand it?

Everyone will have a deep memory of their ex-girlfriend, after all, it is impossible to forget after being with her for so long. Maybe when you are in your twilight years, you will still search for --- in your ethereal memory, thinking about the past, I had such an unforgettable love, that she, is she okay in the distance, and I don't know what she looks like now.

But what about Juan? If you choose to reconcile with your ex-girlfriend, will you be able to forget her after a few years? She has sacrificed so much for you, and the matter between you and your ex-girlfriend has been dragging on, isn't she also enduring it?

The man in front of me may not belong to me, but I will always wait for you, I am willing.

Since you can't forget both of them, then I suggest that you start from an objective point of view--- Juan is indeed better than her. But on the other hand, based on your old affection for her, I think you can talk to her about why this is happening. If she doesn't talk to you well and makes a lot of noise, then there's really no need to continue.

If she talks to you well, then you can learn a lot about it, and it's not too late to plan for it then.

If it were me, I would choose Juan ,,, to fall in love in order to live!! Purely personal opinion.

This question must start from the most true thoughts stretched out from your heart, if you still have your ex-girlfriend in your heart, then you should not let go of her hand, if, two people can calmly find out their own problems from an objective point of view, and can explain this problem, I think the happiness in the future will depend on your own control, if you really think he is good, then really to her.

You still have to run to ask??? Things that can be understood with your toes, just your ex-girlfriend, who is it, can you be a person who lives a life when you get married, you have to be entangled in this thing, then you are really a "cheap eye" in Beijing dialect

You know what to do! ~~