Interpersonal annoyances or misunderstandings

It's true that relationships are important in this society now, both at work and in life.

I think the first thing you can do is to send a message to your friends during the holidays to build a relationship. Good things to share together; If your friends need your help, try to help them as much as possible, so that they can make their friends believe that they rely on you; But don't be a bad person; In addition, you can be more tolerant of friends and don't take your self-esteem too seriously;

If you want to meet strangers as friends, at least be confident, respect others, and do what they like. Maybe it can be further developed, hehe.

In fact, in interpersonal communication, the important thing is how you can say what you want to say reasonably and bravely

When you meet his gaze, smile and give him a sense of intimacy, and in life, care more about others.

Anyone will encounter confusion, this is very normal. There are many kinds of confusion in dating, such as: 1. I feel that I have no friends.

You can try to open your heart to understand and contact others, sometimes it may be because your appearance makes people feel that you are unapproachable, so that others can get to know you, so that you will have the opportunity to gain friends. 2. I think many people can talk to each other, but I don't know which one will be sincere. You can get to know the people around you more deeply, and you will slowly discover those who are genuinely for you.

3. I don't feel like I have a true friend. In fact, there are many people who are very good, but you have to trust others first and treat them seriously, and they will become your good friends. 4. I feel that there are too many interests to do.

In fact, friends don't have to care about this, this is not something that should affect friendship, but some should be calculated clearly, so as not to cause unnecessary misunderstandings. 5. You feel like no one understands you. You have to try to express yourself a lot and give others a chance to get to know you.

Sometimes you need to make some changes on your own, maybe it's some details that affect you, it's you who feel confused.

Yes, there is something for everyone! Can you explain this confusion to you? If you're wondering whether he's a friend or not, I'm generally in the same state, neither too intimate nor estranged, waiting for time to test!

Because friends can't be seen at once, they must be precipitated through time, just like having a girlfriend! Through the understanding of time, the final decision is made whether to get married and live together! But there is a difference between them, in the process of dating, friends will expose their shortcomings, as well as how to behave, you can tell the difference very well!

The key to dealing with interpersonal relationships well is to be aware of the existence of others, to understand their feelings, and to satisfy themselves and respect others. Here are a few important interpersonal principles:

1. The principle of sincerity in interpersonal relations. Sincerity is the golden key to open the hearts of others, because sincere people make people feel secure and reduce self-defense. The better the relationship, the more it is necessary for both parties to reveal a part of themselves.

That is, to communicate your true thoughts to others. Of course, there are risks associated with doing so, but it is not possible to gain the trust of others by wrapping yourself up completely.

2. The principle of initiative in interpersonal relations. Taking the initiative to be kind to others and taking the initiative to express kindness can make people feel valued. People who take the initiative tend to be likely.

3. The principle of interaction in interpersonal relations. The goodwill and malice between people are mutual, and in general, sincerity begets sincerity, and hostility begets hostility. Therefore, it is important to have good intentions when interacting with people.

4. The principle of equality in interpersonal relations. Any good relationship allows one to experience a feeling of freedom and uninhibitedness. If one partner is restricted by the other, or if one party needs to look at the other party's face to act, it is not possible to establish a high-quality psychological relationship.

Finally, it should be pointed out that good interpersonal relationships must be found in the practice of interpersonal relationships, and avoiding interpersonal relationships and wanting to get the friendship of others can only be a matter of seeking fish, and it is impossible to achieve the ideal goal. I believe that being popular is sometimes better than having a lot of money.

Interpersonal communication is society, and social relations are complex. In general, where there are people, there are contradictions, and interpersonal communication is to find temporary harmony in the collection of contradictions.

Interpersonal communication is easier said than done because it's a big issue. All the interpersonal situations I encounter are very different, just like playing chess, every game is different, so I can't find a general interpersonal rule that can be transferred.

Constantly struggling with interpersonal interactions? That's because you haven't mastered these five points yet, and learn to make you feel more relaxed.

First of all, C does not regard A as a friend (unless there is a misunderstanding, which is very unlikely), and C only informs B every time, which shows that C does not take A to heart (if C and B are of the opposite sex, there may be other purposes). And B1 notified A twice at the beginning, why didn't he notify later? Is it because C said something?

Or do you agree that A is just going to be a light bulb himself?

In this way, A is not narrow-minded, but C and A's personalities are not in harmony, and they can't go fast. And C is fighting for B, so it will make A feel passive. After all, it's all caused by C's actions, right?

If he hadn't only informed B every time he came, 1 would have been fine. So, it's like there's only 1 C to blame.

B's case should belong to the middleman, and whoever fights over it will inevitably isolate the other person. So no comment.

It is normal for A to be angry, and it does not belong to narrow-mindedness. But it will depend on how to deal with it in the future.

1. Go away alone and let them join the stream, because those who are close to Zhu are red, and those who are close to ink are black. C doesn't mean to be in 1 with A, so why bother screwing in 1?

2. Envelop B and isolate C. After all, it's a building near the water, and it's easy to fall in love. Find more B1 to play, and don't inform C. After a long time, C will also taste it.

B is not qualified, and he should be notified to A.

This only shows one problem, C and B have a better relationship than A, and it is possible that the two of them can talk about it better

In fact, A is not narrow-minded, he is just afraid of being left out and losing, so he will be angry. The reason why C didn't tell A every time he went to play was probably because he knew that A's time was unstable and B was more idle. B may be the kind of person with a lot of nerves, and the lack of notice may be because he has forgotten.

I think it may be too familiar together, so he doesn't feel the need to be informed, and friendship is based on interests, no one will treat you better than your parents, so, friend, don't think too much.

A's thoughts are normal, human nature. B's approach is not very appropriate.

A is not narrow-minded, and B is not a qualified friend.

Relationships are really important to us. You said that you felt that the relationship between the friend you used to be good with had weakened because of estrangement, but in fact, everyone's friendship will go through this stage. The relationship between friends is tempered by time, and you gradually feel that they become annoying, perhaps because you have less contact and understanding, so the relationship has faded.

It doesn't matter, real friends don't need to see each other every day, but we can't leave out friends, holiday greetings, the latter is indispensable for coming out to get together during the holidays.

In fact, the relationship between people is very impermanent, that is because we have emotions, we can't guess what friends think, be yourself, how you should treat others, after all, friendship is very rare, to cherish it.

You say that no one should be embarrassed when you speak, so what's so embarrassing? Making friends is wide-ranging! If you can't talk about it, find another one, there are so many people, do you have to be your friend?

In short, remember one sentence: making friends is not about pandering to them like a clown, but about making some confidants, righteous people, don't force it, go with the flow, and maintain a sense of humor!

In fact, the relationship between people is very delicate, you have such an experience, I have had it myself, but then I found that more often than not, I think too much, in fact, others do not think too much, and you yourself are too sensitive, so the more you think about it, the more you feel that there is a problem, so the first thing you have to do is not to care too much about other people's words and deeds, so that when exposed to the sun, all the haze will gradually dissipate.

This is a psychological effect, it's a good thing to make more friends, take the initiative, try to think from the perspective of others, don't have conflicts with friends because of trivial things, chat with others more, exchange sincerity for sincerity, don't others hear, you are saying it again, you want to laugh, people just don't want to deal with you, see that you are really smiling, and will talk to you I wish you a better interpersonal relationship.

I'm glad to be able to answer your question, I don't know if it's fate, I also encountered this problem of yours not long ago, I'll give you an analysis, you may not be good with this good friend to the interval you imagined, you think about it before you let your friend help you a favor that you think should be very easy to help but it's very difficult for him, you think it's such a good friend to help this is nothing, but maybe he has felt that you are strong and disgruntled with you regardless of other people's feelings, There has been a complaint in his heart, and then he is very close to other colleagues, intentionally or unintentionally alienated from you, and you have become accustomed to the friendship between the two of you, his change makes you very puzzling, and then you are also dissatisfied with her, as for other colleagues to ignore you, it is likely that he said bad things about you intentionally or unintentionally when getting along with others, resulting in a group of people who are dissatisfied with you. Remember, try not to ask for help when you can do what you can do on your own, even if you think that you and him are already very strong, try to help others when they ask you for help, and then communicate with them more and play and joke, so that it will gradually get better, but remember not to be independent and ignore anyone because of this current situation, in that case you will be further and further away from the group.

This,Actually, it's because you're still more afraid of loneliness.。。。 Afraid of losing friends and afraid of being isolated, in fact, many times just think it's like this, maybe others don't take it seriously, but you always keep in mind that it's actually yourself making trouble... You don't have to care what other people think, you just need to be yourself, of course, you should also properly consider the situation of others, you and your friends will be unfamiliar for a long time, then you will always contact, feel disgusted then try to think about the good memories between you, try to make you feel good about her again...

I'm afraid of being lonely, so I might be better off by keeping in touch with friends often.

You try to remember what you have that is different from all of them, in terms of personality and doing things. Sometimes, even if you are right, they will reject you if you don't fit in with your surroundings.

1. What's wrong with being close to whoever you play well with? It's normal to notice her often, because she's right next to you, and you can't look up and look down!

2. Pay attention to her, why don't you want to be distracted to pay attention to her? It's all secondary, it's important to have a good relationship with the people around you.

3. You don't have to be afraid of the problem of not being able to control yourself, everything has a process. Take your time!

4. Why is this happening? I think you're thinking too much about yourself and complicating simple issues. In fact, the simpler the interpersonal communication, the better, and the friendship between gentlemen is as light as water!

5. What should I do? Self-regulation, maintain a good mood and state, and have the heart to socialize with the people around you, and you don't have to pay attention to some people.

6. Go with the flow and go with the flow, let go of it freely, we don't need to pay too much attention to some people and some things, time will make us continue to grow.

7. The above remarks only represent personal views, please forgive me if there is any inappropriateness or impropriety!

It's normal! If it is a very good friend of yours, you will unintentionally imitate some of his speaking tones, intonations, behaviors, and so on.

It can be said that there is a tacit understanding between friends, but if you pay attention to someone who is not familiar with you, or imitates someone you are not familiar with, it is called strange.

The above is purely a personal opinion, I hope to help you solve your doubts.

Everyone has such thoughts, you don't have to worry, if you like someone, you will subconsciously pay attention to him, but there is no shame in paying attention to her, all you have to do is confess to her, so that you can naturally forget this trouble. What's there, nothing? What are men afraid of.

Actually, it's very normal, everybody is like this, always cares about having good friends, which will prevent you from making other friends, which is a very depressing problem, and you have to rely on yourself to change slowly little by little.

It's normal, relax! Have a good time and do things seriously!

You're thinking about complicated relationships with her.

This is a kind of subconscious possessiveness, people will have good friends in the growth stage, and the starting point usually starts with a common hobby, such as learning together to have fun, for example, playing games together, for example, chatting and chatting together, for example, being interested in a common topic together,......It is with these commonalities that the two (many people) will get closer and finally form a circle of friends. Because you treat the other person as a good friend, you will subconsciously care more about her, including her words and deeds, including her new changes, of course, including whether she protects your interests when she does certain things, or whether she is still having fun with other people, all of which you will care about, these are the reasons why you subconsciously pay attention to her. Because you want to be a better and long-lasting good friend with her, you will pay more attention to her.

As you get older, this subconscious changes gender, and you slowly shift your attention to a boy.

What should I do if all this happens? In fact, each of us will encounter this problem, the question you raised today is a problem that everyone will encounter when they are young, what to do, hehe, what not to do, you have more good friends from now on the world has become rich, in your life in addition to parents, classmates, teachers, and good friends, you have to study happily, if you learn better than her, you have to help her progress together, if she learns better than you, you have to humbly ask for advice, so that the pace of the two people agrees.

Society is very complicated, but you don't put some things you don't understand to let yourself sit in the right seat, simple, happy, this is the characteristic you should have at this age, don't think about simple problems complicated, hehe, I wish you a long friendship!