Despair of marriage, disappointment in marriage

First of all, I would like to correct you, your relationship is called cohabitation, not marriage, there is no legal relationship, it is not protected by the law, so each side is very free to give up the other, if you have already obtained a marriage certificate, in the case you described, I also advocate that you separate from her, the reason does not need me to say more, your painful feelings are the proof, and if you continue to maintain it, not only will there be no happiness at all, but you will not even enjoy ordinary life, because a person's habits are formed over a long period of time, and she cannot change much.

Proposal 1 Break up with her openly and be able to accept good talk.

Proposal 2 She doesn't want you to choose the time to find another living space and sue for divorce after a while.

If there is a problem in the communication between husband and wife, both parties should review their attitudes. Communication barriers between husband and wife are often caused by both parties, and if you blindly emphasize each other, it is easy to deepen the conflict between husband and wife. Examining yourself more and correcting your attitude towards the relationship between husband and wife is the key to resolving conflicts.

Many couples always think that they are never wrong, the fault is always in each other, unwilling to bow to each other or admit mistakes, always emphasize the objective reasons when the problem or the other party's attitude is not good, etc., such a practice is not advisable. When the conflict between husband and wife is eased, the husband and wife can clearly write their apologies and thoughts to the other party in letters, or clearly say them to the other party in words, so that the other party can understand their meaning and obtain the other party's understanding. Finally, it is important for husband and wife to actively communicate with each other and constantly maintain a good, caring, mutual love and liking attitude as husband and wife, which is also the basis for family happiness and harmony.

There is a problem with the relationship, I just don't do anything in the housework, my husband pours the water, and my husband doesn't think I'm anything bad, I can only say: You don't love her enough!!

Summary. Hello dear, when you are disappointed in your marriage, please keep these four sentences in mind and use them for a lifetime.

The first sentence: "There is no perfect marriage in the world, in fact, disappointment is the norm in marriage".

There is a saying that there is no perfect person in the world, and therefore there is no such thing as a perfect marriage.

Disappointment in marriage.

Hello dear, when you are disappointed in your marriage, please keep these four sentences in mind and use them for a lifetime. 01 The first sentence: "There is no perfect marriage in the world, in fact, disappointment is the normal state of marriage."

There is a saying that there is no perfect person in the world, and therefore there is no such thing as a perfect marriage.

The second sentence: "It's terrible not to bury disappointment in marriage, but it's terrible to dare not face the problems in marriage." People in marriage, no one dares to give full marks to their partner, if you can choose to tolerate each other, you will not be entangled in each other's shortcomings will be so much, let alone grasp the problems in the marriage and not slow down.

What's more, sometimes, you always impose your expectations on others, so the sense of loss will be stronger. The most terrible thing in marriage is not the disappointment in your partner, but the life you want to pursue, but you have to impose it on others, hoping that others can give you the happiness you have, but you don't take the initiative to fight for it. In fact, instead of asking others, it is better to choose to work your own, and I believe that when you do this, the future life will be very sunny.

Sentence 3: "When you feel pain, you might as well try to change yourself". There is a saying that when you feel difficult, it is also when you grow up that you are sleepy and blind, because people are empty and choose to transform in difficulties.

Pain is the source of a person's transformation, and when you are willing to try to change yourself, whether it is the way you look at the problem or the way you get along with the other person, there will be another new change. And this pain will also give you a new life and a new experience of marriage. Therefore, if you want everything around you to change, first of all, you have to change, and when you change yourself, I believe that the people around you will also change, and everything in your life will also change.

04 The fourth sentence: "If you are dissatisfied with your partner, then learn to understand and tolerate". Everyone has shortcomings and shortcomings, hence the saying:

No one is perfect. When we get along with our partners, we can't beg them to give us 100% satisfaction, but we should give each other more tolerance and understanding, so that life will become better.

Ignorance, indifference to the other side is the most desperate.