My parents married me off someone I didn t love and already had children, what should I do?

First show sympathy for you and then hate you again. As an adult, you have your own thoughts, and your parents don't agree with you and your boyfriend for any reason, whether it's out of protection and concern for you, you have to think carefully. See if you have the wrong choice.

There are no parents in the world who don't love their children, and you are also a mother, I believe you can also experience it. Again, you are now married and have a bb, don't think about the unhappy before, people's marriage needs to be managed, since you accepted and chose the current person, you have to love him, accept him, don't think about the past, people are not grass and trees, who can be ruthless. I'm sure you'll make him fall in love with you, after all, you've got a lovely bb and he's your future...

Final blessings to you. Life is unsatisfactory 10 of 89 Looking forward, women must learn to pretend to be stupid... Live in the moment.

Since I didn't like him in the first place, why did I marry him? If you love your own ex-boyfriend at the beginning, if you insist, it is not impossible, after all, parents just want their children to be good, I believe you have seen the love between Tong Jiaqian and Liu Yiyang, and I believe you have seen a lot of similar such love, since you don't love others, why do you want to marry someone else, why don't you insist on your own love, in the final analysis, you and your ex-boyfriend don't believe in each other enough, don't trust each other enough, don't insist enough, since you are now married and have children, you choose to live well, As for you saying that your current man doesn't love you, what if you know, besides, if he marries the wife of a man who loves others, will he feel better, for you, the same feeling, the child is innocent, since you have the current family, let's live well.

If you say that you can choose to divorce for your own happiness, but you are for the sake of your children and your current husband, then you will live with him

If you don't love it, why bother like this, who can blame you for being like this.

That's the case, it's unlucky enough, then there's no way to make do with it for the sake of the child, let's take a look first, and if you can't come, let's negotiate.

If you had been a little assertive, how could you have fallen to such a point? Make do with it, and besides, you still have children.

Hehe!! Let's talk about how much you love him! You don't love him, why let him love you!!

You can find your friends and relatives to persuade your parents to think of all means not to marry someone you don't like. It's a lifelong thing, and if you marry someone you don't like, it's not pleasing to the eye.

Your marriage is in your own hands, and your happiness is also in your own hands, and your parents' opinions can probably be referred to, but the most important thing is to look at yourself, because after marriage, you live together.

You must not marry someone you don't like, you won't be together for long, you must find the right person, someone who likes each other, and you will be happy together.

You can't get married, because it's you who live, and if you get married, you will get divorced, you can explain it to your parents, look for it slowly, and find someone you like and your parents are satisfied with.

Your parents may think that if you marry someone who is richer, you will be happier in the future, but they may not say so. Or, marry a more talented person, and you will be more beautiful in the future. It is recommended that you discuss everything with your parents, because parents in the world will never marry their daughters casually.

First of all, we must do the ideological work of parents, marriage is not child's play, the two love is happy for a long time, I think parents are good for their children, as long as you insist, you will compromise.

Your father asked you to marry someone you don't like, that's not right, what age is it now, and your parents arranged it, you should patiently tell your parents your own opinions, if your parents are still like this, for your own happiness, you have to insist on talking to your parents about the marriage law, let your relatives and friends persuade your parents, so that you can not quarrel with your parents, but you will also reach your own ideas, you see what I said is right, if you think it is right, you should work hard, I believe that you will be happy, bless you.

Resolutely not married. But you also have to figure out why your parents want you to marry him, maybe this person is really suitable for you, but you don't understand him.

You have to say no, your life is your own. A lifetime is so long, and with someone you don't love, you will not be happy but will live like a year, and there is a high possibility that the marriage will break down.

You can slowly do some work for your parents to show that this marriage is a matter of mutual affection between two people, and marriage is a lifelong event, and you can't do it hastily If you marry someone you don't like, then the family may bring great hidden dangers in the future.

You have to make your own decisions about your own future, don't completely obey your parents' arrangements, and living with people you don't like is like spending your days.

If you don't like it, you won't marry, and you will make your own decisions about your marriage, because after marriage, you are the person who wants to accompany you for a lifetime, and you want to marry someone who loves each other, and there are not a few cases of forced marriage and suicide.

Communicate well with your parents, the current society is not the time for parents to arrange it, and marry someone you like, and the person you don't like will not be happy.

You can talk to your parents, talk about your own thoughts, look at your parents' opinions, your parents have more experience than you, maybe they think more than you, for your good, you are young, you think less, marriage is not just like to be happy for a lifetime.

First, maybe the parents are right, and in this case, you should think about it again.

Second, maybe the parents are wrong. But even so. Communicate well with your parents as well.

In short, it is important to pay attention to your own feelings, but also respect your parents' opinions and properly handle your differences.

If you don't like it, you won't marry the marriage, and your parents have no right to make the decision, because after marriage, you and him (her) live for a lifetime, and there are not a few cases of forced marriage and suicide.

I think that my life's events need to communicate with my parents, express my opinions, so that they can know their own thoughts, not blindly contradict their parents, communicate with them slowly, and believe that your parents will always understand you!

Your own marriage, you can't just listen to your parents, only you know whether you will live happily or not in the future, talk to your parents, they should be able to understand, otherwise this is a lifelong thing.

Now it's love freedom wow. Parents have no right to interfere in the marriage of their children. Be sure to choose someone you like to be with him.

Let's figure out the following questions first:

1.He and his mother are not good to you, how is it bad?

2.Is it that you are too demanding of yourself, making yourself feel that they are not good for you. Otherwise, how could your parents oppose your divorce and so strongly.

3.Is there a lack of communication between you and your husband? Find an opportunity to say what is in your heart, and also ask your husband to say what is really in his heart.

4.Since you have a child, think about your child, think more about your husband's advantages, don't just think about his bad things, maybe you will be good to him in the future.

5.Think rationally about the essence of your husband, if your husband's essence is not bad, take care of the family, filial piety, people will not be bad there, it may be that the standards of each other are different.

With children, divorce is not good for children after all, but husband and wife are always at odds and often quarrel, which is even worse for the two and the children. Measure it for yourself.

If you have to leave, get a lawyer or go to court. But the evidence in your favor.

Tell your grievances and let him correct them, if he refuses, the days will pass, what's the point!