How do you love the people you love for a long time?

Many things in love are mutual, and in the process of loving someone, we must always pay attention to the following points, so that love can stand the test of time. <>

Don't treat each other in a way that you think is good: many people give each other what they think is the best, and if they think they are very good, they must let the other party accept it, this is not right, to love someone you need to respect each other, don't impose your likes on each other, consider each other's feelings and thoughts, and love each other in a suitable and appropriate way, otherwise you will only force each other away.

Don't test anyone with love: everyone yearns for harmony and plain love, and there are always some people who can't sit still and poke a few holes in the plain to be happy. Don't test each other's love in some childish ways, such as saying that you break up and scare people when it's okay, and forcing the other party to say I love you a dozen times a day to be happy.

Cherish and maintain the freshness of feelings: feelings need to be maintained, mistakes must be compensated, all mistakes can not be hastily brought by love, and must be solved in order to make the relationship run in better and tolerate each other.

When you are in love, there are often contradictions, and if you don't handle it properly, it is easy to affect the relationship and eventually lead to a breakup. If you want to develop a relationship for a long time and manage a relationship, there are many aspects that need to be paid attention to.

In love, conflicts are inevitable. When there is a conflict, both sides need to be calm. If two people only care about their own emotions, eventually the conflict will intensify.

One of them must learn to tolerate and retreat. When everyone's mood is better, they are slowly reasoning. Resolve contradictions.

If you love each other, don't break up easily. You can't break up every time you have a little problem. Many girls like to be coquettish with their boyfriends, threatening to break up at every turn, hoping that their boyfriends will coax them.

This is very bad, and slowly the other party will feel that you don't care about him at all, and he will feel tired, and he will feel that you may really break up with him, and one day you will say that you will break up, and he will not come to keep him.

Therefore, if you want to be in love for a long time, you must learn to be tolerant and tolerant, and accommodate each other. Don't take advantage of the other person's love willfulness. Cherish each other.

Only by loving the people you love sensibly and with dignity can you last a long time. Loving and being loved is the happiest thing for a person, and "love" is the most beautiful text in the world. For everyone in this world, love is the most sacred thing.

Everyone who yearns for love or is in love hopes that their love can be fulfilled and last. But the world is so strange, and not all good things can have a fairytale ending. So love also needs to be carefully managed, doesn't it?

Only by loving the person you love sensibly and with dignity can this love last. Love is sacred, and at the same time love should also be equal. Humble and desperate to blindly give is not the real way to get love, it is said that people in love have zero IQ.

But true love is not like this, only when you face a relationship rationally do you know what you want and what you can give. Only by facing a love sensibly can you know what the other party wants. Only when you understand yourself and each other can this love last.

To love with dignity, we must preserve our dignity while loving with our hearts. People should live with dignity and love with dignity, because if you don't even love yourself, how can you love others?

In fact, when it comes to loving someone's most mature love, I think it is neither infinite tolerance nor outright concession. It's not just a matter of taking. True love is when two people understand each other, help each other, give what they want to give each other the most, and gradually come together. <>

It is said that communication is a bridge between human beings, and this is not the case in love. We have to communicate enough with our partner to let him know what we are thinking about every day, to tell him what is on our minds, and to tell him what we are unhappy about. Many people don't care about communication, so they bury some things in their hearts, and over time, burying some things in this way will only make things more serious.

There is also a particularly important empathy, we must learn to think about some things from the other party's point of view in love, sometimes you think the other party is wrong, in fact, if you look at it from the other party's point of view, you will find some of your own shortcomings. Only by empathy can we learn to better tolerate each other.

One of the happiest things for a person is to find the right person and be happily together. However, if you want to keep this relationship fresh forever, it needs two people to maintain it together, so that it can last for a long time.

Loving someone, in fact, from another point of view, also represents one's own growth, learning to love someone in one's own way, rather than being in a state of being loved. First of all, it is necessary to learn to understand and tolerate, these two elements seem to be necessary for all feelings, although it is a bit cheesy, but it is really so. Only with understanding and tolerance can we talk about other aspects of development.

Secondly, there should be some leeway for both parties, although the relationship should be given wholeheartedly, but it is also necessary to leave some space for both parties, so that the other party feels very comfortable with you, rather than out of breath. This way of getting along with each other will be very helpful for the development of your relationship. Although I want to grasp it, if I want to get it, I should learn to let go.

Love is a mutual need, and it is comfortable and warm to give the need.

1. Love should know how to be tolerant, when there is a misunderstanding, don't just care about being angry, who to blame, you should explain calmly, explain the misunderstanding clearly, and don't be self-centered.

2. Don't compare your other half with other people's other half, don't compare with your ex, everyone has their own ideas, maybe the gift they prepared for you is something they have prepared for a long time. Don't measure your love by other people's standards.

3. You should discover more of the advantages of each other, after all, two people are together because there is a certain attraction in each other. Constantly holding on to each other's shortcomings will eventually make the rift in each other's feelings deeper and deeper, until they finally part ways.

4. Give the other party a sense of security, and let the other party know that you love and care about them. We can post more photos of the two of us on our commonly used social software, show more affection, and make others envious!

5. Maintain an appropriate social distance from the opposite sex, 6. Don't stick together every day, give each other some space, and keep it fresh.

7. Prepare some surprises occasionally to increase feelings. You can set up several anniversaries and go shopping and watching movies together on the anniversaries.

8. Be self-confident and believe that you are worthy of love. In a relationship, both parties will more or less think that the other party will not dislike themselves, and they will always be sure of each other. You have to know that you are the only one he likes in the vast sea of people, then you naturally have your own advantages, and you are the most perfect person in his eyes.

Relax and believe in yourself and believe in the other person.

Love, what you need most is comfort. If you feel free, comfortable, and at ease, you're in love. If you feel constrained, controlled, and despised at every turn, it's time to adjust. Love, that is, relying on each other, warming each other, accompanying and encouraging each other to move towards that unknown future.

Harmony from the inside out is the ultimate harmony.

To make love have a long-term and tenacious vitality, both parties need to be careful + patient + careful management to maintain.

When it comes to making it long-lasting, it seems that it is quite profound, but once you understand the truth, it is actually very simple, and it can be summed up as:

Understanding, understanding and trust ...

These three factors are indispensable, is the essence of all love secrets, all the secrets that can make love have long-term vitality are contained in it, whether it is love or marriage, as long as both parties have these three necessary conditions for each other, then it will definitely be a wish.

When one day, you suddenly find that you are so happy, after careful consideration, this is to realize that the original understanding, understanding and trust have long come to your side, they have been silently accompanying you, when you found out that they exist, this suddenly realized: it turns out, they are not only the patron saint of love, but also indicate the true meaning of life...

What is love? The meaning of love is very broad and can be friendship, family affection, love, ......Perhaps the most interesting thing for people is love, right? Then I might as well talk about love.

Love is the most beautiful word, how many people are struggling to pursue it, sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people truly have eternal love?

How many people have been searching for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling when you make a promise, and love may be the ......feeling of life and deathLove is a topic that can't be talked about endlessly. When you fall in love with someone, your heart is panicked and uneasy, you don't know how the other person feels, and you have to hide your feelings because you are a reserved person.

Maybe the root of your love is a shadow in your heart, you put on a dream clothes for him, you are intoxicated in the illusion of the dream and do not want to wake up, wandering and tossing for a long time, when you know the other party's feelings, everything has been light, because you have stepped out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you hold has lost its luster, and your life has been injected with gray since then. When I don't have the experience of loving others, I think, "It's a pleasure to love others."

When I was loved, I thought, "What a blessing to be loved!" But whether it is to love or be loved, it is so sad, because people's hearts are always so unpredictable, and desires are always so things, for her, they can only pass by.

Nothing can penetrate deep into her heart. Like a decadent and gloomy flower, with a gesture of despair but looking up at an innocent face, smiling at all cruelty and humiliation. The deep dark green color is without tears.

Such a flower that blooms forever in the dark does not believe in tears, and is destined to be lonely for a lifetime. Often, in a crowded crowd, I feel the extension, sound, smell of many strangers, chaotic and noisy. And when you are quiet and then look and listen, you can feel incombinable, with love and being loved, there will be a struggle in the whirlpool of feelings, and with love and being loved, there will be more entanglements in the emotional world.

The wrong car of loving and being loved, the incomprehension of loving and being loved, the restriction of loving and being loved, the helpless ...... of loving and being lovedIn the vast land, for a person who is disappointed in the world and has no love in his heart, isn't it the same to **? Forever walking on the road, all love, all of a sudden, you will find that there is nothing here. Empty and silent.

There are many people who have no soul. I live a mediocre life, I have no purpose, I don't know why I want to live, and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world.

He was always looking for someone who felt the same way he or she did. Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, he may feel the loneliness of the blank, and then know that the same alien as himself is not far away and feels each other with him.

Harmony from the inside out is the ultimate harmony.

For a long time, there are three things that must be done.

Silently pay for each other, do not ask for anything in return, have a sincere, simple heart, so that love may last longer, but there is no guarantee that it can be permanent.

Vigorous love does not necessarily last long, but love that turns into family affection is long-lasting!

What you want is sincerity, and you rely on treating each other with sincerity! Believe in love, believe in eternity! Bless you all!

Trust each other.

It cares about love and care.

Forever is a promise, and the promise itself is not important, the important thing is the mood of the person when he committed, grasp it well, so that his mood does not change with everything that is changing all the time, and it will be realized for a long time, what do you say...