What is the most incomprehensible point about you in love?

I think the most unreasonable point in love is mistrust, and the most unreasonable point in distrust is to flip through each other's mobile phones.

My previous boyfriend and I actually didn't trust each other when we were in love, which was manifested in the fact that we always liked to look at each other's mobile phones, in fact, he first introduced them, I am not a person who likes to look at other people's privacy, and I also pay attention to personal space and privacy, but he lost my space, and always turned over my mobile phone, which made me feel unpleasant, and then I began to like to look at his mobile phone, always suspicious.

I think this is really unreasonable, whether it's a person or a bystander, I don't like it very much. At first, it was just flipping through the phone, and then it became secretly flipping through the phone, and then both of them could become gods, and every detail would not be let go, and both of them would feel very painful. This kind of relationship is really unnecessary, it will only make people feel depressed and painful, and will not feel happy and relaxed.

It's just that he loves to be unreasonable and has nothing to do.

It's a big deal, but I'm always infinitely magnifying the seriousness of the matter and the negative emotions in my heart, and then hysterically making noise. This unreasonable approach made me uncomfortable and made me deeply sad.

My male ticket summed up one sentence about this: there are many stupid people.

I still remember one time I went to class without eating, and then I coquettishly said to him: I'm so hungry He said indifferently, order takeout.

I replied: In class.

And he said, "Okay."

I'm not happy, I'm in a little mood. If it were usual, he would never be so indifferent, he didn't care about me at all, and he would send me comforting words like "touch my belly", but he refused to move his fingers and mouth.

So I had a long trouble with him over this trivial matter, and afterwards I felt that I was making a big fuss. There is no need to be angry and conflicted, but I exaggerated the dissatisfaction in my heart, in fact, if both parties were more considerate, there would be no quarrels.

Small for pleasure, big for hurt, and encourage you.

I asked my boyfriend not to hang me first when he finished fighting with me**, but to wait for me to hang up. A lot of people can't understand why I do it, they think it's the same after the fight. In fact, I didn't care about it at first, but then I didn't feel empty if he hung up first, and I felt sad, and I always felt like he had abandoned me.

So then I asked that it must be me to hang up first.

Also, when we were in high school, we never went on dates in the school playground or anything like that, and the most we could do was talk in the hallway outside the classroom. Others think that we can talk about a relationship like this, many couples go to various corners of the school to date, and they can hug each other. At that time, I really didn't want to go, I thought it would be good to go out of school with him for a week, there was no need to be inside the school.

And I don't have much time to spare every day except for studying.

In fact, there are many things in love that others can't understand, after all, everyone thinks differently. It's good to be happy yourself, and other people's opinions are not so important.

Although love is very exciting, some behaviors in love will not only feel unbearable for the other party, but also feel that they are unreasonable, but what can be done, care about a person, and sometimes they will become crazy.

The most unreasonable thing about me in love, one of them is that I will lose my temper because the other party does not echo me, in fact, I myself feel unnecessary afterwards, but I just can't control my temper, and then quarrel with the other party because of a small thing, which is a common thing. <>

Also, I feel angry because others say that my boyfriend is bad, but it is possible that others say that the other person's shortcomings are true, but I just can't accept that others say that my boyfriend is bad. I used to think that this was so unreasonable, and I couldn't understand it until I had such behavior. Love is like this, it makes people unreasonable, so that it can prove that you really love this person.

It seems to be a dead duck with a hard mouth, and a boy has commented on me like this, I think it should be quite reasonable. When people ask me if I like it, even if I like it, I'll probably just say, "Well, I like it a little bit." ”

If you like it, you like it, wouldn't it be nice to get rid of this little bit to make me happy? The boy said a little disappointed.

I felt a little guilty when I heard him say that, but it seemed really hard for me to admit my feelings very directly.

I don't know when it started, but unless I really like it, I always hide half of my feelings. Like that, hate it. So I'm sorry to hurt my family.

But even if I realized that I was wrong, I was embarrassed to pull down my face and apologize to others, because I was afraid that they would not accept it. I always want to make this person feel better in a different way, but I don't know what to do.

Even if people say it very bluntly, I still play dumb. Now that I think about it, I really feel like a strange person. Later, probably because I was scared, this person seemed to have become the same person as me.

Seeing his duplicitous appearance, the guilt deepened. What a good child, the biggest shining point on his body was tossed away by me.

<> even if the love is beautiful, it will encounter all kinds of problems, which will make the two people extremely troubled. So, what are some of the things about your relationship that make your significant other feel unreasonable?

The test begins. One day, when you pick up your phone and find that a WeChat friend you don't know well has sent you a message, you reply to him out of politeness. Then, the friend keeps asking you questions about privacy, what do you do?

A Anyway, I don't know him well, and I don't really want to pay attention to him, so let him say it himself.

b No, it's not polite to reply to the pants hall, but I don't want to expose my privacy, so Fu Jian is perfunctory.

c directly told him that he didn't want to do this, and then blocked him.

d Why is this person so annoying! I was really angry and rejected his question directly.

Test results. A You are more tsundere in front of your lovers.

In the process of falling in love, perhaps in order to maintain your upper hand, you will usually treat your other half with a condescending attitude, which will make the other person feel that you do not regard him as a lover, and will find it difficult to accept. Therefore, many times, when you show your tsundere side without concealment, it will seem more unreasonable.

b In love, you compare yourself.

In a relationship, you often only think about your own problems and feelings, ignoring the other half, and you don't have much patience with the other half. But two people in love are equal to each other, so you may seem unreasonable because you are too egoistic.

c When you treat your lover, you will be hot and cold.

In love, your personality is more aggressive, acting very indifferent, as if you will lose nothing even if you lose this relationship, your indifferent attitude will make the other party feel that you are often hot and cold, and it will also make the other party easy to leave you.

d You are too concerned about the gains and losses of love.

In love, you often calculate how much you give and what you get, how much the other person has gained and how much you give, once you find that you give more than the other person, but rarely get in return, you may complain, which will make you seem unreasonable.