Why can you be good friends with someone without sharing a hobby?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-03
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's normal not to have common hobbies and become good friends, and maybe the personalities of these two people happen to complement each other. Friends, lovers, and families may not have common hobbies, but they will not block friendship, love, and family affection. It's not too good if two people are too similar, each has their own characteristics.

    You can be good friends without having a common hobby.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can be good friends without having a common hobby, because you will complement each other, and this friendship can go further. Whether it is friends or husband and wife, they don't necessarily have the same hobbies and have the same personality to be happy, and it is okay to complement each other's personalities.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The two people do not have common hobbies, but they can be good friends, which shows that the two people have mutual appreciation, such as appreciating each other's character, or being like-minded, or having the same three views, and the same concept.

    There are many friends who can't eat and play together, but they are still friends for life, supporting each other and respecting each other. If it is not fate, then it must be the same three views and mutual appreciation.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You don't have a common hobby with someone, but you can still be good friends because your two personalities are attracted to each other, and you have the same values, and other things.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The experience is the same, and the personalities are complementary.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you don't have a common hobby with a person, you can still be a good friend, because although you don't have a common hobby, you have a common language, and you must be able to speak together, and there may not be a good one.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    As the saying goes, friends come from afar, and common hobbies can indeed make you have more topics, but I think whether two people can become good friends mainly depends on whether your personality, outlook on life, and values can attract each other and resonate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's okay to be friends with someone without sharing a hobby. As long as you can sit together and have a good chat. You can help each other when you have something. Good friends don't necessarily have common hobbies, as long as they trust each other.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    As long as you know that the other party is really worth associating, there is no common hobby that can be cultivated slowly, and both parties can learn from each other's strengths and find common topics, and you can get along amicably.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you can be friends, then there must be something in common between them, and it is impossible not to have something in common, either they have common hobbies, or they have similarities in personality.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Sometimes it depends on fate when people get along, and they don't have common hobbies, but they get along very well, and of course they will become good friends, and sometimes they can complement each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, hobbies are just a recreational activity that can be done together as good friends, as long as the soul reaches a consensus, each other can talk to each other about their troubles, cheer for each other, and pass on positive energy!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There are many reasons why I can be good friends, such as me and I are a close friend, he plays dnf, I play League of Legends, but we still have a good relationship, even if we don't have common hobbies, we can have common topics, there are a lot of boys, not to mention the common topics of girls, more, you are normal.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    There is a common hobby or there is something similar between the two, but it is not like what you said: I say what, that person has to agree, that is not called a common hobby, it is purely perfunctory. With the same hobbies and different views, there is room for debate and will continue to talk about this topic.

    It's my opinion, and it may not be to your taste, but I've always thought so.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You can be good friends without sharing hobbies. My girlfriend doesn't like to play, I love to play, and I've been friends for 20 years. The outlook on life and values are the same, and the topic will be discussed. It doesn't have to be the same hobbies.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    As for friends, there are two kinds, one is like-minded, and the two people have the same preferences in all aspects. There is also a complementary form, which can make up for each other's lack of personality, hobbies, or whatever, in many aspects.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    A common hobby doesn't have to be a good friend's, a sine qua non. As long as the character is compatible. Or complementary. can be very good friends.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I think it's normal, sometimes people often say that two people have to complement each other so that they can get along better. Friends don't have to share each other's interests.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    There's only one reason for that, because of love.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe it's a fit of character.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    There are no common hobbies, but there is a common language.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Comfort the subject in the air.

    Description of the subject:

    It's hard to find the friends I need, for example, my hobbies are reading, cooking, playing games, badminton, fashion, interpreting dreams, and chatting.

    I found a girl who likes to read books, but she gave up because she was emotionally insincere. ......

    I find that this kind of thing happens to me all the time, and I always make a lot of friends, but I can't keep them.

    I may have high requirements for friends, I hope that my friends are of high quality, and I also hope to have friends in various fields, which is a bit contradictory, how to expand my network, meet more people, and expand my inclusiveness?

    Words addressed to the subject.

    It's hard for each of us to be perfect, and each of us may be the best in our field.

    The subject may know a lot of things, but there are many people in the field of your level who are better than you.

    As ordinary people, it's hard for us to do everything, and we need to learn from better people in one field.

    But at the same time, we also have to accept some of the shortcomings of the other party.

    We can talk casually with our friends about wine and meat, and at the same time, we can also find friends who love to read books and exchange and chat experiences, which is not a conflict.

    We can meet a lot of people in our lifetime, and we may be able to select people from the crowd who are worthy of our admiration.

    But socks need to mention what the Lord knows, and no one is perfect.

    I hope that the subject can let go of his obsession, and we don't need to ask our friends to develop the way we want.

    What we can do is take what we need.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It is very common that not every couple or couple in the world has a common hobby, and two people do not have a common hobby. Don't care too much. In love, appreciating and supporting each other is more important than a shared hobby.

    Of course, it is undeniable that the common good is very important. If you want to develop the same interests as the other person, then try to develop yourself in this direction instead of forcing yourself.

    Or to put it another way, if you love each other and you are willing to change for him, then you can also try to cater to this boy's hobby. But if your hobbies are the exact opposite, then you can stick to your hobbies instead of changing them. You two should make some changes.

    The two of you should do something together. You two should communicate more. You should get to know each other better so that your relationship can get better and better.

    What is the purpose of a common hobby? Just to share some common ground. Although Cong Ran did not have the original common hobbies, he could meet to play badminton, go skiing and go to the amusement park, which can increase the common experience and memory of the two people, and they will be very happy every time they chat.

    You can also travel more and participate in team building activities. These opportunities will increase your understanding of each other, and your hobbies will subtly influence each other.

    Before we were together, we were independent, but when we fall in love together, we always have to integrate, and integrating into each other's social circle is the best way. It's hard for you to live your own lives like you used to, but you can introduce each other's friends to each other, which will also strengthen the tacit understanding between the two people and get to know each other better.

    Generally speaking, as long as you like it, everyone is always willing to make their life more and more colorful. For the time being, there are no common hobbies that can be cultivated in many ways. After the run-in period between couples, life will definitely get better and better!

    I hope everyone can be a little more patient, try to get to know their boyfriend and girlfriend, and make efforts for their relationship, so that in the end, both can reap full happiness.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    There can be no common hobbies. I have always felt that the interests and topics of the same interests and topics are not so important in love, and the basic material conditions, common concepts, and excellent character are the cornerstones that determine whether you can live for a long time. Actually, it's important to be able to maintain respect and interest in anything you say to each other rather than a common interest, and to be willing to explain to each other basic issues that the other person doesn't understand.

    You tell me about the game, I don't understand, it doesn't matter, but I'm curious, what heroes do you usually use, what spells do you have, how many people do you usually play with, what strategic planning do you have......I'll tell you about Korean dramas, you don't understand, big core, but you will ask me why the male protagonist and the female protagonist are together, whether you like the second male protagonist or the male lead, I don't think the screenwriter has too much brain, ......

    Common topics don't have to be innate, and you don't have to have a common interest to last a long time, and if you're willing to learn something you don't like for me, I'll make changes for your hobbies.

    It's only when both people are not self-centered, as the old saying goes: when your surroundings are in conflict, instead of letting the environment adapt to you, you should take the initiative to adapt to the environment. This is the best state of love.

    Actually, I've always felt that two people who are too similar are more suitable to be friends, don't they all say that love needs to complement each other? Like Helen and Frank, their shared interests contributed to this sincere friendship, like my grandparents, although they did not have a common interest, but they were even more valuable.

    True love does not have to have a common interest, and true love does not have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others; It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other. It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated. This love not only warms themselves, but also warms the hearts of those who are worldly; True love is when you can love, know how to cherish.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love. When you cherish it, please love it well.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    For this problem, everyone will have their own understanding, some people will feel that if two people do not have a common topic, it is difficult for the two to get along all the time, and some people feel that it is good to be quietly together, and people who love each other do not necessarily have a common topic, as long as they are bored with each other.

    I think that when two people are dating, their personalities can be different, and there must be a common topic, and it will be awkward for two people who don't have a common topic to be together. Human beings are born with differences, and it is human nature to seek common ground while reserving differences.

    If two people love each other, it is best to have a common hobby, two people will have endless topics to talk about and things to do together, but there is no need to worry if there is no common hobby, because Luzao can be cultivated together for you. Even though there are many differences between you, it's more fun to try something new together.

    In a word, love is your biggest common hobby, don't think so much, and have a lover, do happy things, you will be very comfortable and natural.

    I don't know when we started, we will bless a lot of standards for love or marriage, some people care about the three views and one companion dress, some people need a common topic, and some people care about the sense of ceremony. We always seem to be getting along, through various clues to verify whether the other person loves us or not.

    Actually, I think that good love is never two different people who become one person through change and accommodation. It's about figuring yourself off, and at the same time enlarging and appreciating each other's face, without having to cater to them for the sake of pandering, and not having to create a so-called natural pair by wronging yourself.

    Not having a common topic, not having a common hobby really doesn't particularly affect the relationship. But don't ignore or even deliberately ask the other party to change, a good lover can be accompanied by the present moment, it is enough.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    The epidemic is at home, and I am a little melancholy late at night, so I might as well come to the code word to give a first answer.

    I just broke up yesterday, and I saw this problem today, and it just so happens that it's Valentine's Day, and that's exactly why. There should be some say.

    The subject's question can be split into three questions:

    1.Can a couple who doesn't have a common topic last long?

    2.Can a couple who don't share a hobby last long?

    3.Can couples who have neither common topics nor hobbies last long?

    In the final analysis, it's a matter of love and love, and it's a cliché.

    There are thousands of cherry blossoms in love, and the answer is only Cong Songdong to express his views on what he has experienced.

    Because there is still a fairly close connection between common topics and common hobbies, I won't go into too much detail about these three questions, after all, most of the time, common hobbies are a good basis for common topics. But having a common topic doesn't necessarily mean having a common hobby.

    So in a relationship, the common topic is a more basic factor.

    For the answer to the subject's question, first of all, explain the importance of common topics and common hobbies in a relationship.

    1) Couples who do not have a common topic do not last long or even start.

    A common topic is the beginning of a relationship, and the topic refers to the topic of discussion, whether a man chases a woman, a woman chases a man, if there is no common topic, chickens and ducks talk all day long, and you can't understand what the person chasing you is saying, it is impossible to be together, which is why many people say "ta can't get my point".

    Common topics run through the entire relationship. Whether it's typing or communicating, or expressing it in person, not to mention online dating, not to mention real love, the most common thing in love is language communication, almost all behaviors in love require language communication, and language communication is based on a common topic. Without good verbal communication, you lose the most important means of communication in love.

    So the importance of common topics in a relationship is self-evident.

    2) Couples who don't share a common hobby rarely last long.

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