My girlfriend is very attached to her parents, saying that being with her parents is happier than be

Updated on society 2024-04-13
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    You can try to calm down for a while Such a girl is very self-pursuing He will do things as she wants Try to cool him off for a while Girls are sensitive If he reacts, then he will take the initiative to ask you If filial piety and love you let him choose, he will definitely choose his parents Let you choose you will also choose the way you speak Don't use an attitude of interrogation Girls are also very strong Think about it from another perspective Why don't you sit down face to face and say it calmly He will understand you Sometimes humor can ease your relationship, maybe you can't be humorous with him now, but if you want your relationship to get better as soon as possible, tease him more, make him happy, she is the key to whether you can be together, come on, friends.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's natural for her to love her parents, maybe she's too much like a child, you can only indulge her, because she didn't do anything wrong, you shouldn't quarrel with her, you should tell her slowly, tell her with the facts that you will also love her parents, ask her to share this selfish love with you a little, so that you can release the feelings you give to your parents, she is very kind. She will also understand how important you are to her.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Daughter is the intimate little padded jacket of parents, how can parents without your girlfriend have your girlfriend, your possessiveness is too strong, you should try to accompany your girlfriend to accompany her parents, I think it's not that I don't care about you, but I care more about her parents, it's normal. This reason for breaking up is not worth it.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your girlfriend is right to do this, she has love and filial piety, your love is different from the love of her parents, when you love deeply, you will feel happy when you get married, and then she will treat you like her own parents, you have to cherish it and wish you happiness.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's normal. This shows that she is a very filial person.

    That's good. Another thing, your relationship with her is not as good as the relationship with her parents.

    After all, how many years have they lived together.

    Sometimes men have to be a little more tolerant.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    To be honest, a girl like her already has a bit of a problem psychologically. In psychology it is called the Oedipus complex or the Edlecura complex. Too close to my parents.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Filial piety, a traditional Chinese virtue. You'd think she's too traditional. In fact, have you asked your mother if she is willing to be with you again, I think there is nothing wrong with what she is doing, I am you and I will learn from her. But not to emulate her.

    I admire your girlfriend.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Does it matter if he loves his parents and you love him? You won't be in love with his parents?!

    Wouldn't that be the best of both worlds?

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's normal for her to rely on her parents, you should be more considerate.

    She loves her parents so much, so if you love her, you should also care more about her family!

    So if a child's temper is bad for you and her, why can't you say something intimate?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Since she is so dependent on her parents, you can have a good relationship with his parents first.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    The feelings for his parents and his boyfriend are two kinds and should not be confused, so there is no need to worry, he is angry.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This is a woman's psychology and is normal.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    She loves to feel unhappy, this is what you hear, she loves you and hides it in her heart. Treasure.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    When there is a disease, it is not selfish to behave in vain.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Either you love the house and the black, or you just wait for her parents to hang up.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Get in touch with her as much as possible, try to understand her, tolerate her, and see how far you can go, don't force it, the more you demand, the more distant you are, just look at it calmly.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As an adult, you should have the right to choose your own lifestyle and partner, while also taking responsibility for your own decisions. However, your parents are one of the most important people in your life, and their opinions and perceptions are also important. Therefore, I advise you to take the following measures::

    1.Communicate with parents. Be honest with your parents about your thoughts and feelings, and respect their opinions. You can listen to them and try to understand their position, but also express your thoughts and determination.

    2.Prove your abilities. If your parents are worried that your girlfriend is affecting your studies, work, or life plans, you can actively prove your ability and determination to convince them that you are in control of your life and future.

    3.Seek an independent lifestyle. If you and your girlfriend have made the decision to be together, you can consider living independently on your own or with your girlfriend to show your parents that you have the ability to live independently and survive.

    4.Stay connected and respectful. Even if you're with your girlfriend, keep in touch with your parents and respect their thoughts and feelings. You can keep in touch with them through **, text message, **, etc., and share your life and growth.

    Ultimately, what you need to do is balance yourself and your family, respecting their thoughts and feelings, while also sticking to your own decisions and lifestyle.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    First of all, you have to understand one thing, what are you doing with your girlfriend? Was it for nothing or married?

    What are the criteria for marriage? It is two aspects that both people should be physically and mentally healthy, have good character, have a positive outlook, and be filial to their parents and family.

    I'm going to put myself in your parents' shoes to see what is not up to standard, or whether it is the right person and close to home.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    How old are you now? If you are still young and still studying, I suggest that you still listen to your parents, of course, everything depends on your own wishes.

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