How to get parents to agree that we are together

Dear landlord.

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I've had your problem before.

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Hope it can help the landlord.

In fact, there are many things that will always be understood after experiencing it, how to protect yourself after the emotional pain, how to persist and give up in a timely manner after being stupid, and we slowly understand ourselves in the gain and loss, and there are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. In fact, life does not need such indifferent attachments, there is nothing that cannot be abandoned. Learn to give up, and life will be easier; Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple figure; Learn to give up and bury yesterday in your heart; Make good memories; Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable, it is not easy to come over the deep and shallow love, gently pull out your hand to say goodbye, you don't have to let yourself be hurt more deeply, every gratitude is very beautiful, every companionship is very intoxicating.

Is it a pity that you can't have it, whether it is missing makes us feel more nostalgic, feelings are not the answer to the questionnaire, the hard pursuit can not make life more complete, maybe a little confused, a trace of sadness, will make this answer sheet longer, put away the mood and go, miss the flower you will harvest the rain, who said that if you like a thing, you must have, sometimes, some people in order to get what he wants, go to the extreme, maybe he got it, but in the process of chasing, What is lost is also incalculable, and the price paid is irreparable, perhaps those costs are heavy.

There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect. There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave.

There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back. Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing.

Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love? A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely.

It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.

The landlord is welcome to continue to ask.

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Please forgive me for any inaccuracies!

Looking forward to your !!

If you really want to be together, you have to persevere, work hard, and do two things well:

1. Persistently honor your parents, no matter how they scold you, you must honor your parents, and it is consistent, all the time, especially your boyfriend, you should use more heart to honor the second elder in the details of your parents' personality preferences. People's hearts are long, and if the kung fu is in place, there should be a turnaround. At the same time, don't be too utilitarian, even if there is a turnaround, you must always and always honor the two elders.

2. You and your boyfriend are more competitive, work harder at work, work up, the ability to make money will go up, and your life will be guaranteed now and in the future, especially your boyfriend, you have to work harder. In this way, parents have less financial worries.

Parents actually know a little bit in their hearts: it is you, your husband and your children who will live with you in the future, they just expect to try to check for you when they can control something, their intentions are good, to fully understand them, and around their starting point to make something to reassure them.

Let your boyfriend take action. Or after a certain number of results. Your dad will agree. Is it because your boyfriend's job is not good enough?

How far is it too far? Educate you to persuade and make her daughters!

Daddy dotes on you too much, and he's afraid you'll suffer a little bit over there. In fact, it is up to you to suffer or want to be blessed, if you have a good relationship in your mother-in-law's family and help your mother-in-law, your mother-in-law will naturally attach importance to you, and your prestige will be high. In addition, your backer and your husband-to-be have to take care of everything.

If the boy promises the girl's parents that he will be happy and not let him suffer, can the boy do it and implement it?

So girls can't stay with their parents for the rest of their lives! You have to learn to grow up, and if you grow up, your parents will naturally not worry about you.

Let time convince him, and your dad will naturally agree after a long time. Do it to show him that you only need this boyfriend, it's really not good to change, choose him, live and die together...

Tell your family about the benefits and joys you have together!

In the eyes of parents, what can live a life is love, not simply love for love, because parents have experienced a lot, so it will also be considered more realistic, this reality can not be measured by right and wrong, the middle degree of each pair of parents is their own grasp, but the difference is not big, it is nothing more than the biggest problem of the family, if you are ready to be responsible for your future then you can firmly confess to your parents, parents always love us, if we insist, they will oppose the time soon, They'll be fine, but the premise is that you're doing well, so there's still a lot of pressure on them, and if you really love each other, then stick to it!

Hehe, I think you are so happy, if it were me, I would drag it, hehe, the girl is older, the family must be in a hurry, and your parents will not be so much at that time, and you have also experienced so many hardships, they are also clear in their hearts, and they will bless you.

It's September 30, 2011.

11:21:11, tomorrow will be better!

Work hard, endure hardships, and make achievements in the society to show your parents, and only then can you have the conditions to negotiate conditions with your parents if you want to win your own "capital".

You can take him home with a try-and-see attitude and touch your family with his filial piety.

You are so happy.

I think I can only talk to my family. The words of the people in the family must be listened to, and a marriage that is not blessed by the family will not be happy, so only everyone can talk about it openly.

Or can you wait, and when he gets ahead, are you still afraid that his family will not agree.

Real gold is not afraid of fire.

Bless you all.

It's a normal thing to fall in love, why should parents interfere? Many times, it is because of the age at which we are in love, or each other's situation, that our parents oppose it, so what should we do if our parents interfere? Let's take a look.

Fall in love at the right age.

The reason why many parents interfere is that they think that their children start to fall in love when they are still very young, after all, they are still students, and they will inevitably miss each other when they are in love, so that the attention in class will be distracted and it is easy to affect learning.

Don't interfere with your own learning.

It is best to start dating after graduation, or when you are about to intern at university, and if it has already begun, you should also grasp the proportions of love, and at the same time do not affect your studies, academics are the most important.

Communicate rationally with your parents.

I have met a lot of friends, fell in love when I was young, were discovered by my parents, and then quarreled every day, in fact, both sides of the quarrel could not solve the problem, or spread out all the problems and communicate carefully, and each other retreated.

Ask the original Qin Yin who is opposed by the parents:

Sometimes there are other factors in the opposition of parents, after introducing their boyfriend and girlfriend to their parents, parents don't like it, don't guess the reason, or ask your parents directly, see what the boyfriend and girlfriend don't meet their minds.

Improve each other's shortcomings.

There may be a variety of reasons for the objection, and it may be very surprising to you, but if your parents ask for something that you can do with each other, then prove it to your parents and change what they think you are flawed.

Tell parents about the decision to stick with it.

The reason why many couples don't go to the end is because they gave up prematurely, after all, it's still up to you to get the marriage certificate, and tell everyone who opposes you that you will always stick to it and won't waver.

Be prepared to be incomprehensible.

Maybe in addition to your relatives and elders, your friends are not used to you being together, you must be prepared to accept their opposing eyes, have a certain psychological preparation, at first you may not be comfortable, but if you really love each other, slowly they will also accept.

First of all, there must be reasons for the strong opposition of the man's parents, and I want to know what is the reason why they are so opposed to you. If it's because of family reasons, such as not being a household registration, such as being dissatisfied with your appearance or height, such as fortune telling that you are not suitable, etc., etc., if it is such a similar reason, I think you don't need to stick to it, because, marriage is not as simple as you think, thinking that as long as two people love each other, marriage is a combination of two families, not a combination of two people, so, even if you really insist on going to the end despite all difficulties now, the truth cannot be like in a fairy tale, The prince and princess lived a happy life in this way, but, in the face of life, you will have more troubles and contradictions, and when the time comes, the dissatisfaction of the man's parents with you will become more and more serious, such a marriage is meaningless. Because no matter how much love you have, constant conflicts and quarrels will wear out love.

Secondly, if the opposition of the man's parents is not due to the objective conditions mentioned above, then if you really like your boyfriend, then you should try to change the place that displeased them. For example, if they are not satisfied with your current job or income, then, for this, you are fully capable of allowing yourself to find a better job or a higher income, and constantly strive to improve yourself, so that even if his parents are picky, they will be satisfied with you. Moreover, if you change yourself through your efforts, even if you and your boyfriend fail to be together in the end, you can also take this opportunity to improve yourself, and if you have the opportunity to meet again next time, I believe that they will definitely be impressed with you and regret that they didn't choose you in the first place!

There is only one thing about true persuasion, which is sincerity! Your thoughts about being together are very sincere with each other, and in your actions, you can't hide it in your eyes, and it's hard to pretend, and your parents will make another judgment if they feel it. You are very aware of each other's situation and are open to it.

Personally, I think that the general parents do not agree with the hardware, and there are two points: (1) dissatisfaction with economic construction and (2) character problems. Understand each other's economic situation, even if they are poor or the economic level is not equal, they are ready to work hard, and they also know that they have to face each other together. This should be communicated to the parents, and the parents will make judgments.

Another character problem, it is really to keep your eyes open, don't be blinded by some appearances, and you must carefully observe the other party's character, because if the character is not good, you will have to face more than just economic hardship in the future!!

Summary. Dear, the things and aspects that parents consider about their children's love and marriage may not only be the supremacy of love, but also a new perspective on the overall view of things. But love is free, and parents' advice can only be referred to, not decided.

How to convince parents to agree that we are together.

Dear, the things and aspects that parents consider about their children's love and marriage may not only be the supremacy of love, but also a new perspective on the overall view of things. But love is free, and parents' advice can only be referred to, not decided.

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Dear, parents may have certain standards and requirements for your boyfriend, and your current may really not be able to meet their requirements, and they may firmly believe in their hearts that you will not be happy together. The perspective of your parents is from the perspective of your future happiness, your living conditions, whether you have been wronged and unhappy when you marry into the other party's family, and other factors, not just that he loves you, it is enough.

Dear, and your attitude towards love may be that two people love each other, and all problems and difficulties will be overcome through hard work, and love is dominant. Thinking from your parents' perspective in this way may give you a little more understanding of their behaviour, which in turn will make it possible to communicate and potentially change their attitudes.

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