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The female should be married. Is it normal to have a boyfriend, a woman is so old and has no boyfriend or suitor around her, isn't that a special failure......It's natural that people don't have to worry about it, this kind of thing is afraid of hesitation, and it will be like being a thief, and the worse it will be in the end. Tell her parents directly, see what her parents have to say as soon as possible, you still have a countermeasure.
Don't go to the end of the bamboo basket to fetch water ......A void.
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Hurry up and work hard, so that you have the ability to make the girl live a good life, the biggest reason why parents will oppose it must be that they are afraid that their daughter will find the wrong person and suffer with others.
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I'm in a similar situation to you, I guess the girl isn't very proactive, you're a little tired with her. Are you still young, or do their families dislike you? Why don't you dare to say it? How old are you?
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You can try to communicate with parents, if you don't do anything, you may not be doing anything.
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Listen to what parents have to say.
Parents are always thinking about their children, parents are for the good of their children, and most of the time parents feel that they can't feel at ease to hand over their children to each other, so they don't agree because of this psychology. At this time, no matter what you think in your heart, you must first listen to your parents' opinions and see what your parents mean. Listen to why parents disagree and then make a decision.
Look at whether this other person is suitable for you.
After listening to the opinions of the parents, you should also consider whether these factors that the parents do not agree with are issues that you are very concerned about, or whether this factor will affect your future life together. Think about it, in fact, think about the reason why most parents disagree is because they feel that this person can't make their children happy, and many times practical reasons account for a large part. Eradicate these reasons by yourself and rationally examine whether the other party is suitable for you.
Try to convince parents.
If you think about it, you feel that this man is still very suitable for you. These factors that your parents said are not a matter of your own feelings, and they will not affect your future life, so you should try to persuade your parents, discuss with your parents, talk about the other party's goodness, and talk about the appropriate places for the two of you to let your parents relax.
Temporarily separated. If you can't convince your parents, your parents still don't agree, and your parents' opposition is fierce, then it's better to be separated from each other for a while. Don't be tough with your parents, it's not easy for your parents to raise you, no matter what your parents are, try to talk to them well.
Being separated from each other for a period of time is not only a period of calm time for the two of them, but also for each other's parents to take advantage of this time to calm down.
Strive to keep parents happy.
After calming down, in response to each other's parents' dissatisfaction, we must learn to change each other, and work hard for each other's future with practical actions. It is suggested that at this time, the man must work hard and work hard, and if he has a small success in his career, his mother-in-law's face will look better. As long as they are willing to work hard with each other, their parents will eventually agree in the end.
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The girl should comfort the boy and tell him not to worry. Parents should be okay with them being together. As long as the friend buries this good fight, a boy is good to a girl, and his parents will rest assured that he will hand it over. If the boy is not good, the parents will definitely disagree.
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If he really likes you, he will solve all difficulties for you, and if not, you will be the one who will be hurt in the future.
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Summary. Hello friend, in this case, if the two children are truly in love with each other, they can only try to adjust their mentality to accept it, true love is inseparable. Forcibly blocking them will only make them do something unexpected. If there is any accident, it will be regretted.
What should the parents of a girl do if she wants to marry a boy whose parents are opposed?
Hello friend, in this case, if the two children are truly in love with each other, they can only try to adjust their mentality to accept it, true love is inseparable. Forcibly blocking them will only make them do something unexpected. If there is any accident, it will be regretted.
In this case, the most important thing the girl's parents should do is to get to know the boy more, experience it, and see what kind of person he is.
As long as you are upright, grateful, and willing to work hard, even if the conditions are a little worse, there is no big problem.
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If the two of them really love each other, they will definitely try their best to do their parents' work, if the relationship between the two people is not particularly good, many times the opposition of the parents will easily accelerate the speed of the breakup of the two people.
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If two people really love each other, they will definitely try their best to talk to their parents, and through the efforts of two people, the relationship between two people can become better, and two people will do everything they can to be together.
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Everyone's situation is different, some people will choose to obey their parents, and some people will choose to fight to the end, it depends on how deep the boy's love for his girlfriend is, in order to determine his attitude in the face of his parents' opposition, and there is also a situation that the boy has not been weaned, he needs to rely on his parents to be able to live, such a man will choose to compromise in the face of his parents' opposition.
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Look at the reason for the opposition of the parents, if it is material, then most of the boys will let go, and most of the girls will choose to talk to the boys, and then cut off contact with their parents, but in this way the girls suffer a lot.
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Personally, I think that boys and girls will have such an attitude when facing a relationship that their parents oppose, both of them feel very stressed at the same time, but at the same time, they both want to be with each other, so they will be very, very tacitly together to bear these pressures and face the feelings between the two of them.
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A very sad feeling, after all, the parents do not agree, so they will feel sad, which is not a good thing, so sometimes in the face of the parents' incomprehension, you must take the initiative to communicate, so that the other party understands yourself.
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