Breakup sequelae, what emotional traumatic sequelae will you have after a breakup?

Now that you think about it, does he know that you live like this? Will he feel sorry for you? You're in so much pain, but he's having a good time, are you worth it?

The more you are like this, the happier he becomes, and he still says bad things about you, is that a man a man? A man's mouth doesn't have that !! If you don't come out now, think about him every day, that will make you worse and worse!

In fact, isn't his meticulous care for his current girlfriend the same as he did to you at the beginning? So a person like him is too good at disguise, you don't have to be sad because he's like this, because it's just a skin of his disguise, it's fake, isn't it? People like him use this kind of "meticulousness" to crush your former "feelings"!

Therefore, girls should protect themselves, don't be carried away by the momentary warmth, and the bottom line must be grasped. However, it's useless to talk about this now, just pay attention to it later. As long as you see that this person is not loving you at all but is good to you, and what he is doing is good to you, you will know that what he did is not worth your life and death at all.

Try to accept the new relationship again, and you will find that what is really good to you is thousands of times better than him, and it is not enough for you to be moved!

Tell his new girlfriend about what happened to you...

In fact, there is no right or wrong in love, this person is gone, and there will be someone you love more waiting for you later. It's just a question of whether you can encounter it, it's up to you, if your circle is at the low end, you may not meet that person, if you have a fearless heart and go out of your own way, there will be love, and there will be a career. Let's study hard.

And now I've been out of love for almost a year, and I still haven't come out.

Don't dare to contact others, don't dare to talk about feelings with others.

If you are liked, you want to hide, you want to huddle in a corner alone, and you don't want to talk to anyone.

In the end, I hope I can slowly come out and stop thinking about him and the relationship.

There is a disease in the world that has no antidote so far, called scumbag sequelae. In short, it is the psychological trauma left after breaking up with a scumbag.

There is still a healing cycle for the bumps and bumps on the body, but the shadows hidden in the bottom of the heart will jump out from time to time, always inadvertently bringing you back to painful memories.

It is said that everyone will meet one or two scumbags in their youth, and they will teach you what is the right love with practical actions. There are superb acting skills buried in those countless I love you who have gone kidneys, and those lies that come when you open your mouth have captured your sincerity over time.

However, just when you are full of joy and looking forward to the future, you will often receive a resounding slap in the face from reality - at this time, you will either suddenly find out that he has a wife and children, or you will gradually realize the ugly face of a man after he succeeds.

The willow tops on the moon, people about after dusk. On New Year's Eve this year, the moon and lights are still the same. I didn't see last year's people, and my tears wet the sleeves of my spring shirt.

Ouyang Xiu's poems are touching, writing the sweetness and pain of love, which makes people remember it for a long time. Time flies, the years change, and people always look forward to a beautiful love as promised! Unfortunately, not every good beginning will have a perfect ending, and whenever a broken love comes, we are like a "catastrophe", experiencing physical and mental torment, "making people haggard for Iraq".

Without companionship, you will feel like you can't find the right person to talk to. If the other person is there, there will be a verbal exchange anyway. Once you break up, no one will see what you think, how you do it, and no one cares.

Even, this person may not be your liking. But his presence keeps you from being lonely, not lonely. The other two people love others in public, which is the true feelings of others.

And you can only see it in your eyes, and it is sour in your heart.

One: If you don't have company around you, if you don't have company around you, you will feel that you can't find the right person to talk to. Two:

Anxious hesitation, inner hesitation, you will start to question yourself: why do you want to break up, do you have to break up? Is it necessarily good to break up?

Do you regret it now? and other problems.

Probably, I still have a lot of regrets with my ex. The main reason is that both of them are relatively strong, which filial piety leads to the breakup. But with the change of time, I slowly understood a lot, how to get back together after a breakup? Let's take a look.

1.Let the relationship enter the freezing period.

Many people still can't let go of their hearts after they just broke up, so they want to redeem it as soon as possible. But in this case, the method they use can only be to stalk each other, sending a large number of messages to each other every day, regardless of whether the other party is disgusted or not.

But this method will only make your ex's impression of you worse and worse, he will think that you are hopeless, and even directly block you, and this way of redemption is actually not advisable. Therefore, once you have the idea of trying to get back to your ex, you must not rush it.

Some people may say that if I don't contact the other person after the breakup, it may not be long before I am forgotten. That's why they use the stalker. But often this is not a very good way, and it will make the other party feel disgusted, and the probability of redemption will be reduced.

Just after the breakup, if you have a lot of trouble with the other party, it is better to let the relationship enter a freezing period. Freeze the relationship between two people first, don't bother your ex for the time being, and leave each other a time and space where you can completely calm down. But don't worry, not only will this not make your relationship develop to the worst, but it will also facilitate the subsequent recovery process, leaving room for maneuvering in the recovery work.

2.Reduce the sense of emotional need and achieve "second heartbeat".

When recovering your ex, you must remember that you are not lovers, and you must know what to say and what not to say, and you need to grasp a scale. A friend around him once said that after Shen Yuan broke up with his lover, he still didn't come out of the state of love, and he still regarded himself as the other party's lover, so he naturally didn't pay attention to proportions when he spoke.

As a result, the likelihood of a relationship between two people being salvaged will also be low. In fact, after a breakup, if you want to redeem yourself, the first thing you need to do is to reduce your sense of need for your ex, even if your feelings for your ex are strong, you must hide them well.

Because at this stage, you are in a state of being above friends and lovers, you can start with daily greetings, or you can tease each other, so that the state between the two of you enters an ambiguous period. In the ambiguous stage, the most important thing is the interaction between the two of you.

In a romantic relationship, the most intimate time is the ambiguous period. During this period, the impression of each other was very good. When reuniting, Li Hall should seize the ambiguous period, and the most important thing in the ambiguous stage is the interaction with the other party.

If you can grasp the direction in the interaction, then the relationship will go more smoothly.

Because I still miss that relationship. It's too beautiful when you're together, and you greedily want to keep this beauty by your side forever, so the desire spreads endlessly, when the other party is tired, doesn't love, and breaks up with you, you will remember, at first, you just want a leaf, but then you are delusional that he will give you the whole forest. In fact, we all know in our hearts that we keep thinking about the past, just because we are still in love, but the other party has chosen to give up this relationship one step ahead of you, and you have to keep recalling your past, trying to find traces of him still loving you, but he is gone, maybe when you are sad, there is already another woman by his side to replace your existence, and the arms that belong to you are now snuggled by another woman.

has just ended a relationship, and psychologically has not completely detached from the person who has not been away for a long time. Inner loneliness and emptiness is one of the best reasons to explain how two men and women who have broken up miss each other. After all, the two of them at this time still have something to put down psychologically, so they will occasionally think of their exes and rely on some sweet memories to fill the gap in their hearts.

The longing at this time may only be subconscious, but there is still a gap between wanting to get back together. After all, before a person finds his other half, the emotional sustenance can only rely on the "old man". I know how to cherish it when I lose it, and I recall the benefits of being with my lover.

If a man only understands how important a woman is to his life after losing her, then he will naturally think of the woman he once loved. All kinds of past slapping and staring pleasures will naturally come to mind, making him regret more and more the stupid decision to break up with a woman. Therefore, the man at this time is the one who really has the idea to get back together.

The reverse is true for women.