How can you be broad minded and not careless?

Let go and let go, think about the problem from a different angle, let go of the other party and let go of yourself at the same time. From the other side's point of view, maybe everything is not so difficult.

Look at what the situation is, and then decide whether to worry about it or not.

Today my teacher just talked about this, because a little friend in the study group couldn't let go of one thing in his heart, which was a problem of communication with others, so he felt very uncomfortable, and then asked the teacher how to adjust his mentality, and the teacher said: A gentleman should be informal. Otherwise, you will be poor for the rest of your life.

Many people are too perfectionist, so they will take care of everything, and all their energy will be consumed in details, and they will not get great growth in life.

If you want your life to develop in a good direction, don't worry about the places where you connect with others.

However, the teacher also said that young people should be careful about small things, which refer to the mental problems they encounter in their own growth.

For example, in the process of interacting with others (everyone other than yourself), do you see the influence of your own state of mind on the development of things in the things that happen, such as jealousy, complaining, greed, narcissism, hypocrisy? For example, if you have these mindsets or emotions that will hinder your growth, you should have a calculating attitude towards them, and ask yourself in time: why do I have such a mental state, and what should I do next time to make myself grow in the same thing.

Then watch yourself change.

According to the ancients, it is to be strict with oneself and lenient with others.

The coolest thing is people's hearts, everything that is sincerely and sincerely giving, it seems so pale and powerless, okay, the past will let it pass, the heart is open, and the villain does not compete for profit,Fang seems to be a gentleman, and what he loses will one day be doubled and possessed by another form.

I rarely care about the bad things that others have for me, but more about remembering the good things that others have done to me, so that even if one day the clouds attack, I won't feel so depressed in my heart, and the results that have been predicted have long been expected, so why take it seriouslyDon't compete with the gentleman, don't compete with the villain, don't compete with everything, share the same benefit with the gentleman, have the same name with the villain, and refine with yourselfThis passage was recently heard on FM radio, and when I think about it, it is very reasonable and worth thinking about.

Life has made us have a lot of friends, close friends, or other typesTime will tell, slowly screen the most suitable friends for you, and those who are not serious, also known as bad friends, will be eliminated.

Forget the bits and pieces of Jane who had been with him, because for nowIt has long been meaningless, and it is cleaned up in the brain of the big liquid noisy pants, leaving no impurities, bad things, and the essence is bad.

If your heart is relaxed, you will feel that your breathing will become smoother, karma, and the fate that everyone can't escape, it is better to live empty-handed and carefreeThe burden in my heart is too heavy, and sooner or later it will drag down my heart, on the contrary, I feel more comfortable doing what I like without desire.

You don't have to keep everyone's words in mind, it's more about thinking about how you want to express yourself, everyone understands the truth, your essence is kindness, not your ignorance, who is not smart!

Since you have chosen, it is no longer cumbersome, it is better to face all the hustle and bustle positively with a broad mind, don't let yourself live too tired, or relax and don't care.

1. If the heart is clear, you can be happier. The heart is one foot wide, the road is one foot wide, the heart is as wide as the sea, and happiness comes from it. Don't care, don't compare, live a down-to-earth life, and spend your days quietly. The heart is at ease, and the heart is blessed.

2. Don't care about the present, do what you should do, and there will always be feedback in life.

3. No matter what others are, those who have loved do not slander or care. Everything is giving, everything has been, and it is only once.

Sentences that don't care about life.

4. Listen to your favorite songs, chase your favorite dramas, read your favorite books, do your favorite things, live your favorite life, don't rely on, don't look for, don't care, don't care about it, run it, boy!

5. On the way to get old, be kind to yourself: forget all your troubles, face life with an optimistic attitude, treat others with a broad mind, don't care, don't complain, and live every day happily.

6, in fact, you should live a good life, not sad or happy, not in a hurry, not caring about gains and losses, and going with the flow, otherwise you will make yourself so tired, what is it for.

7. Make life simpler, don't race against time, don't care about gains and losses.

8, there will be bumps and bumps in the lives of the two people, as long as they persist and don't care, every marriage can grow old!

9. Life is atmospheric, informal, and does not care about things, even if you encounter things, you have to open up more than others think, do not let the pressure hit yourself, smile to face all the encounters that hinder success, never pessimism, and always look at the prospects very optimistically. This kind of person has good luck and an amiable appearance, which will always make people feel familiar at first sight.

10. Being a person who doesn't care about it is actually more likely to get hurt, you always don't care, and others think it doesn't matter how you hurt you. You respect me a foot, I pay you back, you see that I am not happy, then I will not give you a good look, the relationship that needs to be repaired frequently is better not to be repaired.

11. Don't care about gossip: simplicity is a kind of life attitude: to keep changing things:

Through success or failure. Stay away from red tape; will understand the importance of accessibility! Through gains and losses:

Say goodbye to heavy makeup. Refuse to carve finely. Don't care about boring noise.

12. Everything is valued by harmony, in life or work, the help that can help, and the help that can not be cared for. I never want to be responsible, so I see everything very openly.

13. Precipitate yourself, silently challenge life, and make unremitting efforts to pursue a more outstanding life goal. I don't care about what I once had, I don't care about what I might lose in the end.

14, life is very long, the road of cultivation is very far, step by step, regardless of all the wind, frost and rain, thinking that perseverance will have good results, thinking that all efforts will not be in vain, and then the fragrance of tea comes.