The person I once liked is about to get married, and it s hard to say that my heart is complicated

He treated you at the beginning because you have not yet reached the position of ordinary friends from lovers in his heart, you are separated because of certain things, and these things are things that you and he have tried to change many times but in the end they feel that they can't change each other, he still likes you subconsciously, and will express it unconsciously through words and deeds, but this feeling will slowly fade to disappear, the method is that he says in his heart every day that he doesn't like you, it lasts for a long time, and "a lie told a thousand times will become the truth" also applies to himself. Marrying his current girlfriend may be forced by life, or maybe he is running away from the memories you bring him.

Are you really texting to bless him, or are you testing something, okay, if you really want to be only his friend, then you really want to be only his friend, but do you want to now?

If you really want to be his friend, if you really don't want to be friends with him, he will feel it from your words and deeds, well, from now on, there will be no heart-to-heart intersection when you look at him, you can't find what you have in common in your eyes, you won't have the tone you used to be together when you speak, and you won't be like your previous habits when you go out, in short, you won't care too much about everything about him, because you are ordinary friends, and you have to say to yourself that he won't care about everything you do. You're just ordinary friends, you'll find your own happiness, he'll be happy, you will, but nothing matters, at most it's just friends.

Say and do this to yourself, and with a calm mind, you don't have to be nervous, and you don't have to think about what he's thinking, because from now on, you and him are just ordinary friends, really, I believe that you will become good ordinary friends in the future.

Don't be cranky, he's too busy to reply to messages; Besides, he's going to get married, it's enough to have blessings, what do you want?

It is said that "you can be friends after breaking up", but how many can do it, and they are together because of "love", so why are they separated, hehe. How can you face it calmly afterwards? So what should be let go must be let go and face the future life.

Of course, you can't live in the shadow of this unsuccessful relationship for the rest of your life! Then the only way to do that is to go to the temple. Hehe!

When he chooses to get married, it says it all, do you still need to care about the words of a man who wants to get married.

Be content, treating you as a friend is already very face-saving for you, and someone else will ignore you a long time ago.

You're right, life is like this, and there is a big gap between reality and life.

A lot of imagination before marriage is beautiful, but only after living does I realize that it is not like that. Surrounded by firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea every day, this is life. Occasionally, a little surprise will be a joy.

Like and love are two different things, like is the premise of love, and it will slowly be transformed into love, and some will stay in place, maybe the other party is not so much worthy of your love.

In fact, many people are married to someone they love.

It's like if you like something, but control yourself not to buy it, like it for a year, two years, three years, maybe in the fourth year, you're looking at this thing, and you don't have the original love, so you can see that he is not love, and people are like this, and they get married when they like it, and they find that it's not love, so far, I haven't found the person who loves to die or live, the older I get, the more realistic I want to be practical and not illusory Good luck.

There will definitely be a gap between feeling good and reality, and some are often unsatisfactory in actual life, whether they like it or love it, they are really married, they live together, there will definitely be friction when they bump into each other, they will definitely be dissatisfied, and the feelings will also cool down, and the ordinary life is true, and it is normal to bump and bump into each other.

Love is not equal to marriage, sweet words when in love are not equal to firewood, rice, oil and salt after marriage, falling in love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two big families, we can not simply choose for our own preferences, but also take into account the two families. So most people will have this feeling, life after marriage is not what they want, so love and marriage are two different things, everyone expects to meet the person who is good to them, we also have to stick to our own ethics, we will only meet the wrong time and place.

Marriage is the biggest thing in everyone's life, so don't think about getting older, just find someone who feels like getting married, it's really irresponsible to yourself if you think about it, if you want to marry a person not for a while, but to be with him for a lifetime, can you really say anything about making do? If you think so, it will only make more and more contradictions and quarrels, two people are not in love at all, and they will often complain about each other because of a little thing, and will not tolerate each other, but if you find a person you like or you love each other, it will be different, there will be a lot of good things in life, and there will be no disputes because of some small things, they will think about tolerating each other can not quarrel or not, two people who love each other are up, and a lot of good things will happen, Because you love why you will definitely think about it, I personally have always felt that if this is the case, you must find a person you love to marry, if you marry the person you don't love, then what's the point of getting married?