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This situation of your family is very special, in this case, your mother is naturally under great pressure, in this case, you don't want to quarrel with him, I think as daughters, we need to be more considerate of their parents, because they are now in a more sad stage, but also in a stage of old and young, and your father has passed away, he has to support you, in fact, he is also, the pressure is very high, in this case, I think as children, we, You don't have any pressure, at most it's just the pressure to study, or something small? Yours are all small things, and your mother is in a lot of pressure on him, because there is no money in this world now, it is difficult to move an inch, he has to go outside and take care of the family, sometimes there is no need to quarrel about some things, so you have to be considerate of him, quarrel inexplicably, you give a step down, you say I know it's wrong, you know or ignore him, you have your own temperament, in fact, think about it in turn These things are actually very small things, you yourself say that every time you quarrel inexplicably, Prove that this is some small thing, and it doesn't say that it is a big thing, you have to quarrel, you soften, and your mother will naturally not be angry with you, after all, you are a mother and daughter.
So in this case, you should be calm, think about these things when you have nothing to do, and feel that there is no need to quarrel, because after all, your parents are actually under more pressure, so if you really don't want to do this in your heart, you can bring it up with your mother when you are calm and everyone is in a good mood, and you say that it is because of these things that you quarrel, and you say that he has something wrong, and he will definitely be able to listen.
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A mother's love for her child is everywhere, and any language she uses for her child is to hope that her child can thrive, and she will be ecstatic to see any achievement of her child. Mother's love is selfless, but some quarrels are actually caused by ideological asymmetry, and both of them are not wrong, and differences in ideological understanding arise. Because after all, the trajectory of life and understanding are inconsistent, and the perception of things is fundamentally different.
She says her reason, and you say yours. In the end, the contradictions of the problem were not clearly distinguished, so in the end, it was also confused.
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In fact, it is a good way to communicate well, apologize to your mother calmly, and you will find that things are not what you think.
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Victim paranoia? Your mom, or menopausal syndrome? Or can't accept the fact that your father is gone?
Take your occasional outing. You follow her. It's my mother, I can't help it, I don't talk much.
Be diligent. Otherwise, it won't please you. It's the same for every family.
This is the case with children being closer.
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Your mother's brain has been stabbed, mainly because of your father's death, which hit her hard, you don't have to deal with the earth as a daughter, you must be your own mother.
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Moms are all nagging, nagging because they love you, but children generally don't like to listen to their mother's nagging, so there are some rebellious emotions and are easy to quarrel inexplicably.
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It's a lot like menopausal syndrome, and you have to coax, teach, and manage her as if she were in this situation, so that her condition doesn't get worse and worse.
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Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and your scripture is even more difficult, there is no mention of her husband's attitude throughout the text, and she does not complain about her small family.
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It should be a matter of personality, and when you talk to your mother in the future, you can try to be gentle, no matter what you say, you have to have a good attitude, and that's fine.
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My parents also quarrel all the time, but they do love me, and my mother always says in front of me that the parent Li Short is really annoying.
Yes, but I want to ask your parents whether you are forced to go to work in the factory or give you advice to go to work in the factory, if you are still young, you should have savings to work in the factory, you can learn some of the skills you want to learn, parents always quarrel in front of their children, this is really the fault of parents, only if you are financially independent, you can be mentally independent, only complaining about the environment will only fall deeper and deeper in this environment.
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Harmonious Bai Family.
What do you want to learn? First fix the zhi to work, get a stable salary version, and then use your spare time to go.
Right to go to technical schools, so that you have something to do, give yourself the opportunity to further your education, these schools generally recruit former graduates or young people in society, you can get a salary to learn some real skills.
The root cause is still the mother's dissatisfaction with the family's finances. So you first change your choice of career, make yourself active, and then change the living situation of the family, so that your mother will not always reason with your father because of the family finances. Your relationship with your mom will also be better.
Although it is not entirely about money, the family and everything are prosperous, and they need economic support to some extent.
It can be seen that you are a young man who has the courage to take responsibility.
Good luck and happiness!
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Find a time to talk to your mom and tell her about your reasoning.
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Rakhi, let's pour. Endure? That's what it means to be sick!
It's going to go crazy in the long run! You have to work hard. Earn more money and move out!
Earn more money for her parents so that her mouth is closed. Believe me! You have to be a little bit of a good apath.
Don't argue with him. Don't expect her to give you a smile. That's it for her life!
Listen to my advice, and you will work hard! Don't fight in the nest.
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We are really alike, I also quarrel with my mother, but I don't want to quarrel with her, hey, I'm in a bad mood.
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Summary. Hello dear, be aware of your emotions first.
The first step we need to take in order to control our emotions is to be aware of them. Analyze yourself, under what circumstances do your emotions arise, is it because of your mother's interference in our lives, or because of her nagging and accusations? After analyzing the cause, what we have to do is to communicate with the mother in a timely manner so as to reach reconciliation.
At the same time, when we become aware of this emotion, the first thing we need to do is to accept the existence of this emotion. Because only after accepting your emotions can you make changes.
Hello dear, be aware of your emotions first.
If we want to control our emotions, the first step we need to do is to be aware of our emotions. Analyze yourself, under what circumstances do your emotions arise, is it because of my mother's interference in our lives, or because of her nagging and fingering? After analyzing the causes, what we need to do is to communicate with our mother in time and reach reconciliation from the hail.
At the same time, when we are aware of this disturbing emotion, the first thing we need to do is to accept the existence of this emotion. Because only after accepting your emotions can you make changes. Summary.
Hello dear, be aware of your emotions first.
If we want to control our emotions, the first step we need to do is to be aware of our emotions. Analyze yourself, under what circumstances do your emotions arise, is it because of my mother's interference in our lives, or because of her nagging and fingering? After analyzing the causes, what we need to do is to communicate with our mother in time and reach reconciliation from the hail.
At the same time, when we are aware of this emotion, the first thing we should do is to accept the existence of this emotion. Because only after accepting one's emotions can one change one's disadvantages.
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