I m getting married, why are I so sad?

Updated on society 2024-04-02
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's normal for you to feel, and many people have a similar situation before they get married.

    Some people are originally sentimental, don't they say that marriage is a funeral of love?

    Some people feel this way because she is simply blind and she doesn't know what she wants to pursue.

    In fact, how can there be no feelings until now.

    Women like to show their feelings, while men want to bury their emotions in their hearts.

    If you consider yourself one of the two types above, I suggest that you go back and regret it now, and you will regret it one day.

    Life is already precarious, and it can be difficult to find the right person.

    You can spend ten years on a love marathon, you can't squander your youth, say break up, and spend another ten years, from getting acquainted, to understanding, to generating emotional ......Go for another relationship.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Ask yourself about your heart, if you still love him and he loves you, get married, don't let yourself be too far-fetched, and a happy life is the most important thing. It's just that now it doesn't seem like you're in love with each other. My suggestion is to tell him as soon as possible that it is better to break up.

    You are living for yourself, not for others, and don't care too much about other people's eyes. Go your own way, that's all that matters. Now that you're not married, it's too late for you to regret it later.

    Tell your loved ones that you have to choose your own path in the future. Someone who truly loves you will respect your choice. I hope you can live a wonderful life and I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Don't think about it so much!

    Just know if you're happy with him, if you're happy. If you haven't been happy with him all along, don't get married, lest you regret it in the future.

    It's not too small, you should have your own ideas, your own judgment, what do you say?

    As long as people are happy, they are happy. I hope you will have a happy and happy day in the future!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you feel like that's not what you're looking for.

    I don't think long pain is better than short pain. Why bother with the question of face. Sacrifice your own happiness.

    And it seems like you're doomed to be unhappy if things continue to develop.

    Women should take care of themselves a little more.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    He's so bad, why are you still with him all the way to this day? There must still be feelings, ask yourself in your heart, whether you love him or not, marriage is a major event in a lifetime, you don't want to get married, or you haven't made up your mind, don't force yourself.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There are no 100 men in the world, love is mutually tolerant, like his advantages and accept his shortcomings, if you can't accept his shortcomings, don't get married, there's nothing to be melancholy!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Premarital depression, if it is severe, it is best to receive psychological counseling or vent it!

    Now that you've promised him, don't think too much about it.

    I wish you happiness. Men are always not good at expressing themselves as animals.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You have no idea what you want. Let's get married.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The mention of marriage can be a particularly sad thing for some people. This could be due to several reasons:

    Love Misfortune: If you once loved someone but didn't end up getting married, the thought of getting married may remind you of the love you lost.

    Worry about the stress that comes with getting married: Getting married is an important decision, and life can change a lot after getting married. For some, worrying about these changes can be too stressful.

    Distrust of marriage: If you have seen a lot of unhappy marriages, or have experienced broken marriages yourself, then distrust of marriage can also be a reason.

    Lack of love: If you haven't found your significant other at the moment, the thought of getting married can make you feel particularly sad.

    If you're feeling sad, consider seeking professional psychological help. By communicating with a psychologist, you can find a solution that works for you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Worries about marriage: Many people are full of worries about marriage, such as worries about married life, worries about intimacy.

    Low self-worth: Some people feel inadequate about themselves and feel confused and frustrated that they can't find their other half.

    Uncertain future: Marriage represents many uncertain futures, and some people may be terrified and troubled by the uncertainty of the future.

    Past experiences: Some people may have experienced a painful marriage or romantic relationship that led to a lot of fear about marriage.

    Different personal values: Some people may not want to get married because they don't think it is in line with their personal values.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Nowadays, with the continuous development of society, the difficulty of young people getting married is also increasing.

    On the one hand, financial pressure is one of the important factors for young people to get married. Housing prices, commodity prices, education costs, and so on are skyrocketing, and many young people struggle to meet these necessary expenses with their monthly income. At the same time, precarious employment and low wages are also problems faced by many young people.

    These problems make it impossible for young people to afford the enormous financial pressure of getting married.

    On the other hand, the general social environment has also had an impact on young people getting married. In today's society, vices such as bigamy, second marriage, and extramarital affairs are still widespread. These have weakened young people's belief in marriage, causing them to be more cautious when they get married and more rational in their view of marriage.

    Therefore, in the face of the problem that it is difficult for young people to get married, there are some suggestions as follows:

    First of all, young people should have a comprehensive thought before getting married. In addition to Minqing's consideration of financial pressure, he should also consider his life, personality, and concepts after marriage, so he must not make a hasty decision to get married. Plan your time and money wisely for your marriage.

    Second, society should pay more attention to and help young people. Society can provide more support and assistance, such as through policies to encourage young people to marry and reduce their financial pressures. **The burden on young people can be alleviated by reforming the fiscal and taxation system to reduce housing prices, taxes, etc.

    Finally, young people should try to choose people who are determined and responsible when choosing a partner. These people have a more rational and far-sighted concept of marriage, which can help young people better face all kinds of difficulties and obstacles in marriage, so as to maintain their marital happiness.

    To sum up, the difficulty of young people getting married is mainly caused by economic pressure and social environmental problems, and to alleviate this phenomenon, we need specific policy support, more attention and help from the society, and more rational thinking and choices of young people themselves. In this way, we can let more young people have a happy married life.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Now that it is more difficult to get married, it is because many people have higher requirements for marriage. But this is not the case for everyone. There is also a lot of difficulty in calling many people to get married, and the vertical mold is very low. Because they are not very demanding.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Now because the requirements for the other half are higher in all aspects, it may be more difficult and less to meet the criteria for choosing a mate.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because the object is difficult to find, and the object is more demanding, this problem will arise.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Because there are too many customs and habits for marriage now, everything makes marriage complicated.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    is still the same sentence of cause and effect reincarnation, now people are too materialistic, the spiritual world is empty, fate has not arrived, and it feels difficult to get married.

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