When you are young, you don t know anything about love, how can you truly understand love?

Most of the love when we are young is more impulsive, we talk about love in our mouths, but in fact, we don't know what love is. True love is not the romance that young people think in their hearts, real love is actually plain, polished by time, and the person who is still together in the end is the real lover. <>

1. Ignorance of loveIn fact, human beings are born very lonely, and when they grow up and integrate into the group, they will think about trying to overcome loneliness. And love is the best antidote for us to be lonely, some people think they are love experts, but in fact, this kind of people don't know anything about love. People are loved from birth, first the love given by their parents, let us bathe in the warmth of love and grow up happily.

But they don't know how to cultivate love, and just blindly accept the love given by others, so they often confuse the love of men and women with the love of their parents. <>

3. Learn to love from the heartSome people don't know how to love, so a relationship will turn this love into harm, not only hurting others, but also hurting themselves. That kind of love is selfish, because it only imposes what you think is love on others, and you don't care about other people's feelings at all. When I was young, I thought that my lover only had to give everything I thought was the best for that person, which was the expression of my love.

In fact, love is not only the so-called receiving and giving, respect is the most important element of love. But young people don't understand the importance of respect in love, so they can't understand love. <>

3. The love in the heart needs to be based on the cognition of both partiesWhen we look at love, we must not only maintain our independent personality, but also learn to respect our partners for important things. Because respecting each other can give each other enough freedom and make the relationship more stable. Love is actually a comprehensive consideration of all aspects, only mature people know, and with the passage of time, people will slowly know what true love is.

If we want to truly understand love, we still have to practice, find someone we love, slowly get in touch, and we will understand.

I think true love is to learn to give, don't just think about taking, real love is to make the person you love happy, not to possess and take.

Only when you have experienced more, understand each other more, care more about each other, and see each other's strengths and weaknesses more, can you truly understand love.

I feel like you can understand love through personal experience. Understand love by learning from those who are more loving. First of all, love is respectful, but also understanding others.

Love is willing to pay and sacrifice unconditionally for each other, love a person does not need to be hungry for any reason, just hope that the other party will always be happy and never worry about the other party, because the other party is happy and happy, because the other party is happy and feel happy.

We all know that love represents a kind of responsibility, love is a kind of unconditional giving and sacrifice, love is endless and never lost, love is not not to reciprocate, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party. And the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and the happiness of the other party is your happiness, and you should be happy with her happiness and happiness with her.

There is no right or wrong in love, only whether it is suitable or not, willing or not, happy or not. When you can't be together anymore, it's not that she didn't choose you, it's not that you abandoned her, it's that happiness didn't choose you, happiness didn't choose you, and love didn't choose you. So don't be troubled, don't be sad, you should bless each other and hope that each of you will find your true love.

If you feel pain when you lose the other person, then it proves that you don't love her at all, you just want to possess her, and you will only suffer when your possessiveness cannot be satisfied. When you love someone, what you should think about is not what the other person can give you, but what you can give her, can you give her the affection she needs? Can you give her joy and happiness?

Can you be happy with her happiness, happy with her happiness? Only this kind of love is true love, and only this kind of love can be happy.

Friend, there is no reason for love.

I hope you can be happy, please be happy...

A new year has a new beginning. Don't think so much, it's important to be happy. 》

If you don't have it, how can you understand it later?

Only those who have experienced it will understand.