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When we are in love, we should love others seven times, leave three points to love ourselves, and give each other a little space, so as not to cause trauma to the soul.

Falling in love is a very happy thing, you must be careful, you can't be willful, you can't hold it too tightly, keep a good distance, and think more from the other person's point of view.

It's that we don't want to spend all our energy and time on love and distract ourselves, so that even if there is no result in the end, it will not cause psychological trauma to ourselves.

Pay attention to understanding and observing each other, recognize each other's qualities and character, don't be too impulsive, be cautious in emotional giving, and pay attention to protecting yourself.

This kind of thing in love, a little carelessness will make yourself very painful, this is a matter of taking the heart to communicate, do everything generously, no matter what is discussed with the other party, reduce the damage to your soul!

We can make ourselves better by being in love. If two people can improve each other, then such a relationship will not cause psychological trauma.

What I want to say is that when you fall in love, you should never be ego.

Moved, is there so much touching? This self-emotion is that you are too intoxicated with yourself, to put it bluntly, I think you are too narcissistic. Lovers are beautiful lovers, and they are sweet to each other, but you are in love, and you are moved by yourself, which makes me a little confused, it should be moved, but you let yourself be moved, then you are too narcissistic, so it is not good.

In the process of falling in love, we must avoid this self-touching, that kind of self-moved person shows that you are a completely self-centered person, this is a person who does not care about the feelings of the other party, you can not feel what the other party needs, you only know what you need, if you get what you want to get in love then you will feel satisfied, this satisfaction is often the prerequisite for you to be moved, in fact, in my opinion, you must express your true thoughts in love with each other, Don't hide it, say what you have to say, two people put words on the table, don't be moved by yourself secretly, if you have some ideas that you don't let the other party know, then what I want to say is what kind of love to talk about?

If you blindly revel in your self-touching, let the other party feel your self-touching, it will make the other party have a suspicious attitude towards you, and he will think how do you know that you are staying in your own space? Shouldn't the two of us fall in love be a space that is exclusive to the two of us? If you still close yourself off, so that you will lose him, then you will lose, then you will not lose the whole world, what kind of self-touching.

In fact, in the process of falling in love, giving is a normal phenomenon, but this premise is that I am willing, the other party is willing to accept, whether it is a good thing, not that I think it is good, the key is the mind, the mind is enough, it will make this relationship more romantic, not the best thing you think, so self-touching is a kind of satisfaction in my heart, and it does not mean anything, men and girls have to think clearly.

The best way to avoid self-touching in love life is to have a clear understanding and never be carried away by love, but I feel that there are few girls who can do it.

In the process of getting along with both men and women, in fact, we should consider more about what the other party needs, rather than how much we have paid. If you give as much as you want, you want others to give you as much, it is impossible, because love is not a balance, and both men and women must pay equally.

Like a friend of mine, when he gets along with his girlfriend, he basically thinks about what the other person needs, and he really puts himself in the other person's shoes to see the problem.

To avoid self-emotion is to jump out of the cycle of family influence, which is caused by family traumatic sequelae.

There are some problems in such a family, which later affect their own view of mate selection.

After recognizing and correcting it, you can pick out the circle.

Self-touching is also just to fulfill the other party and make the other party have a good feeling.

Avoiding self-emotion is one way to face reality and judge rationally!

Know your situation, rationally judge whether it is necessary to continue, and then make the right decision.

I've done so much for you, I've moved myself, but I can't move you, many things in love don't need to be paid unreservedly, maybe in the end, I moved myself, but I was taken for granted by others!

The best way to avoid being self-motivated is to improve your emotional intelligence!

If your emotional intelligence is too low, it will be easy for others to be moved if they do something easily, so it will really be easy to be caught by others.

When it's in love, it seems to be very difficult to keep calm Bai

Too much DU investment is prone to self-touching and wanting to zhi

Avoid thinking more about a person's DAO, find out if there is a problem with your own approach and don't always compare the other party's approach with your own imagination, the other party can do 10, you have to only report the hope of 7 points.

Why should you be moved by yourself in a relationship, that is also a matter of two people, you can't be self-centered and get carried away, where do you get so touched, you must take care of each other's feelings.

It is actually very difficult to avoid self-touching in a relationship, because you are deeply involved in the whirlpool of feelings, and many times you are not under your control.

Don't be emotional, don't get carried away by love, or be a little more rational.

Moving should be a two-way street, we can move ourselves, but please give up expectations.

Self-moved, the ridiculous ending is not actually moved itself, but precisely because of the excessive expectations brought by the moved.

I'm a person who is easily moved by myself, but every time I notice my own self-touching, I try to cut off the expectations that come with it, and I never make a mistake.

There's no self-control in a relationship unless you're not emotionally engaged. If the feelings in love can be controlled, it can only mean that you are not sincere in this feeling.

The so-called good for her! You may have tried your best, but she may not know that Ku Xu didn't see it at all, and why she didn't think she had done anything wrong after the breakup.

It's easy for us to be moved by ourselves in love because of each other's very inconspicuous little actions or behaviors, in fact, I think this kind of behavior belongs to me.

It is a catalyst of the self, so that you feel that the other party really loves you and is so happy, so that it is easy to immerse yourself in the illusion and feel that the other party is paying too much. In fact, it is not difficult to avoid self-emotion, as long as you can maintain your sanity when you are in love. We should not easily expand or beautify each other, many behaviors are what the other party should do, we should learn to be loved and given in love, don't be confused because of a little benefit from the other party, move yourself, and give yourself too many feelings.

Be sure to keep your sanity and know that it's normal to be loved in love.

In a relationship, it's really easy to be moved by yourself. Self-touching often shows that the person is a self-centered insider.

The heart does not care about the other person's feelings. Maybe you don't need the other party at all, you are still blindly immersed in self-touching, thinking that she will be very happy, and even asking the other party to repay you with the same effort, in the long run, this relationship will collapse sooner or later.

For example, if the other party likes to eat apples, you want to give him a box of pears, and it seems that you have paid for it, but the other party can only smile bitterly. You don't understand the other person's liking, and you pay stupidly. In this case, I think it's a lack of communication, and it's getting better and better for her on the wrong path, once the contradiction is stimulated, you still blame him for not seeing your efforts, but this just touches yourself.

In love, both parties give, whether it is a gift or a show of affection, you must understand what the other party needs.