-
1: This is a way to divert attention, you can find something to do, you will not have other time to think about him when your life is full, and when you think of him again, it will only be dust in your heart; 2: You can ask your friends to help you, (preferably not friends with her, or don't know her) so that they can think about your problems from an objective point of view, and don't mention her when you are with your friends (I use this method) but maybe we don't think the same, but you can give it a try!
It's better than immersing yourself in memories.
-
Forget, don't forget too deliberately, but lightly. At the same time, try to live your own life and see that there is something other than love that can bring you sunshine. Work hard to live your life for yourself or the people around you who care about you, time can make you forget everything, and even if you can't, it can also dilute your wounds and allow you to find new happiness.
Finally, I would like to ask: If you love each other, why do you want to divide it?
-
In fact, to tell the truth, love has hurt and hurt, it is not easy to completely forget, and there are a few people who can really forget, it may be absolutely impossible, and they are also deceiving themselves, some memories can only be buried deep in the mind forever, just use time to slowly forget, love can be a momentary thing, or it can be a lifetime thing. Leave because of love, give up because of love. It may sound great, but who can truly give up for love?
Just learn to give up. Some people or some things, inadvertently missed or lost in the years of time, occasionally pick up the memories, will spontaneously give birth to a wisp of romantic feelings recalling the past, it contains a sense of seeing things and thinking about people, the sigh of the past. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go, letting go is a helpless despair, and it hurts my heart.
When the people who once really loved the release of life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized that what they thought was eternally long, in fact, it was just a meeting in Pingshui. I once thought that I could hold hands all the way down like this, but let go to understand that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel lines are still parallel, even if they are not far apart, it is also the end of the world, the price of bravery is to let go of themselves first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, helplessly wish them happiness, from then on, if the heart stops, it is difficult to make waves. In fact, it is impossible to completely forget a person quickly, and it is also deceiving yourself, just keeping the deep affection in the memory and forgetting the pain of the past, because the most beautiful blessing is to remember a person, the best hard work is to think of a person will cry, the greatest satisfaction is what you give, and love will become unforgettable after suffering something.
-
In fact, there are things that you like and will not belong to you, and there are things that you are destined to give up no matter how nostalgic you are, love is a song that can never be sung in life. People may experience a lot of love in their lives, but don't let love become a hurt. There are fates everywhere in life, and fate seems to be fateful; Some fates are destined to be lost from the beginning, and some fates will never end well; You don't have to have someone to love, but to have someone you have to love her well.
If sincerity is a hurt, choose a lie; If a lie is a disservice, choose silence; If silence is a disservice, choose to leave. If love is a hurt, don't come close. But there are many cases where this is not the case, because you can't help but choose.
If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay? If obsession was suffering, would you choose to end? If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?
If separation is suffering, to whom do you confide? There are many things in the world that can only be seen clearly in the past. There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but the expression is imperfect.
There is a kind of love that knows that you want to give up, but you are not willing to leave. There is a kind of love that I know is torment, but I can't hide it. There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart is not easy to take back.
Love can be a momentary thing or a lifetime thing. A person is not lonely, but a person who thinks is lonely. It's only when you care too much about someone that love becomes a burden.
In fact, life is like this, when you lose a beloved thing, there will inevitably be another item for you to like, and when you break up with your lover, there will inevitably be a better relationship waiting for you.
-
Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.
Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.
When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.
When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.
The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, love someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, when you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, Let him pass in the past, the heartache of the short rolling Huai is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!
-
Forgetting is a much deeper memory. So, don't forget it! Everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by along the way, every relationship, every experience, everyone is a mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened.
Be thankful for everyone in your life who has ever met or parted. With the passage of time, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!
Love is everywhere, as long as you don't miss it, a breakup will be a new beginning for you!!
Although it is said that time can forget everything, if you still love him, you can't forget it. If you don't love him anymore, you'll forget. Find a way to stop loving him. Or try not to touch the memories 2
Personal scenes, don't do what you used to do, often go to play with friends, go crazy together, you can also go out on a trip and maybe you will meet the true love of your life, love is everywhere, as long as you don't miss it, breaking up will be a new beginning for you, but if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to give up something, let your heart go, instead of thinking about it often, you will definitely think about it occasionally, which is also inevitable, right. Time will make you forget it. If you really love him so much, you have to spend your whole life forgetting, if you don't want to forget, please hide your love deep in your heart.
Since it's her, the subject must be a boy, and I'm a girl, so I don't know what you boys will think in their hearts, so I'll give an example from my side. >>>More
Don't deliberately forget, deliberately forget, will remember deeper, so don't deliberately forget, since you want to forget her, it means that the traces she has left in your heart should be relatively deep, so that everything tends to be dull, what to do and what to do, don't let yourself often be alone and think hard, as time goes by, you will slowly forget, and forgetting is not something that can be forgotten by talking about it, but also to see what type of person you belong to, If you are emotional, it is best to find something or activity that can attract your attention to distract your emotional fluctuations; Or go crazy with your best friends and forget about your play. It's best not to listen to any love songs, otherwise you will backfire. I don't know about the other types, you have to face everything by yourself, no one can help you in it, go your own way.
Why forget it.
It doesn't matter if everything in the past is good or not. >>>More
To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget. >>>More
Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future! >>>More