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Since it's her, the subject must be a boy, and I'm a girl, so I don't know what you boys will think in their hearts, so I'll give an example from my side.
A friend of mine, his object is actually quite scum, girls also have scum, like to play, go out to meet netizens, don't return all night, etc., his dad felt that she was not serious when he saw this girl, but there was no way, he just liked it, but in the end it was divided, like this kind of not enough play almost will not have a good result, he fell out of love to chat with various friends for comfort, at this time there may be a friend's care will feel better, so almost a week to figure it out....
I suggest that you chat with your friends more, or if you can, you can go out to travel and relax, if you don't have time to go far away, then take a walk or run to exercise, don't let yourself be idle, otherwise you will definitely fall into deep sorrow, find something to do for yourself, divert your attention.
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Not all relationships can be married, the key is to be able to cross the barriers of love. When falling out of love is inevitable, learn the rules of survival.
1. Go with the flow of nature. If first love is light **, hot love is rhapsody, then broken love is an unforgettable and sleepless serenade.
Falling out of love can destroy people, but it can also make people, the key is how you deal with it.
There is no time in life to ask for it, to gain it indifferently, to lose calmly, to fight for its inevitability, and to go with the flow.
Lovers in love are sometimes blind and do not easily distinguish between direction and right and wrong. With the physiological and psychological growth of people, they will change their "three views" and will be a new self. The aesthetic has changed, the mentality has matured, the heart is transparent, and the realm is high, which is a kind of spiritual rebirth, and there is nothing that cannot be forgotten, and what cannot be started again.
2. The law of substitution. Falling out of love does not lose ambition, and falling out of love does not lose morality. There is no grass at the end of the world, there is a person in the world who is always waiting for you, no matter when it is, no matter where you are.
The key is to learn to remember and forget some things in love, some things need to be precipitated, they need to be dusted, let the past pass!
Only by remembering what should be remembered and forgetting what should be forgotten can we not be depressed, and we can truly live in the present, not in memory.
After falling out of love, you can also work hard, face life with enthusiasm, and compensate for the emotional loss with the sense of accomplishment achieved.
Mr. Lu Xun said: "You can't just for love, blind love, and completely ignore the essence of other life." ”
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Why do you go, that is the most precious memory. Be curious about nature.
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