What kind of relatives need to stay away from?

My family is also a relative who messes up every family, is jealous, and people are poor and short-minded, so they must also be close to each other, otherwise there will be a lot of trouble, provoking between other people's fathers and wives, scolding people's shortcomings, and provoking people's brothers and sisters

I have lived for 31 years and all my relatives have been pitted, but outsiders have not been able to pit me, because they are vigilant against outsiders, and they have no defense against relatives, and my relatives have also caught me because I will not do anything to them because of family affection, and I have no scruples to deceive and pit. also blamed me for being confused, and I couldn't save face in the end.

So I hate to use kindness and family affection to trick people.

I come to you when I need you, I don't contact you when I don't use it, and my relatives are not as good as neighbors.

I don't judge whether it's good or not, I just try my best to stay sober in this family. Will.

Of course I'm not a stingy person, my grandfather was a teacher.

Relatives who are calculating and calculating must stay away.

Some relatives are not as good as outsiders.

I just want to stay away from those people who don't work hard and always reach out to me for money, and those who are in front of me and behind them.

Nephew, just give money, don't give money, ignore people, used to give, that was 10 years ago has not been broken for three days two heads 500,300, give no money to come to you, have been giving, and then don't give almost no meeting with me**No.

My husband's brother has good conditions, and he usually looks down on us, and we don't associate with them.

There are angry people, but there are no laughing people.

He stammered stronger than him.

He bullied weaker than him.

People who love to preach about your family, and relatives who make your family chickens and dogs!

Anyone who takes advantage of everything! Unkind!

1.Try not to have any contact between relatives, even if it is the Spring Festival, don't go to relatives, the Spring Festival is China's biggest cultural dross, feudal bad habits, a group of people who can't beat the eight poles, because the Spring Festival forcibly gathers together, pretending to be very familiar and enthusiastic to probe each other's privacy, condescending to criticize you as an elder to educate you, yin and yang weird disgusting you, you can't talk back, otherwise you have to say how you talk to your elders, no big or small, no education.

2.Relatives don't want you to be good in their hearts.

3.The comparison between relatives is the most serious.

4.Relatives are more jealous than anyone else.

5.You're a good mix, and it's your responsibility to help them, because you're relatives.

You don't mix well, and they have the right to accuse you because you are relatives.

6.Relatives will interfere with your voluntary filing and meddle in your marriage, and they don't see anything wrong with that.

7.Relatives can cause you great psychological stress and mental burden.

8.There are very few charcoal in the snow, and many fall into the well.

9.Most of them are small people in the market, they hate people and laugh at people, they think you are poor and afraid that you are rich, they can't see you well and look down on you, and they try their best to deny you and hit you.

10.You've succeeded, and I hugged you when I was a kid, so you can't be ungrateful.

You fail, it's all your own problem, what does it have to do with me.

So. First, I don't have any kind of contact with any of my relatives.

Second, I don't give any hope to any of my relatives.

Thirdly, I will not say a word to any of my relatives, except for the immediate family.

Fourth, I don't share anything of mine with relatives.

Fifth, I will not let any of my relatives meddle in my affairs.

Just come and don't go back, I'm outside, and I'm doing well, just ignore them and see what they can say. Good luck and happiness.

How to treat relatives? Here it is. You are good to me, I am good to you, you are good to me, I can be good to you.

But hearts change hearts. This statement is true. Since they are relatives, they must get along well.

Be tolerant and generous. Don't worry about small things. Make the family bond stronger.

Generosity when relatives are in trouble. If you can help, you can help. Just do your best.

Because it is fate to be able to be a relative in this life. Do it and cherish it.

Relatives treat you in these 3 ways, there is no need to be sad and bothered, just keep your distance.

Look at what kind of relatives they are, if they are sincere to you, then you can buy some gifts for the New Year to visit. If they're hypocritical, just leave it alone. Don't care too much about what others think.

Trick 1: Behind-the-ear pretending to be stupid In the process of fighting wits and courage with relatives, the basic principle of pretending to be stupid behind the ear is to consume the patience of the elders, change the topic, nip the strange topic in the bud, and face their various soul tortures to uphold the smart style of pretending to be stupid.

Trick 2: Tai Chi The core of this trick is to deal with the Buddha nature, only go around in circles and do not talk about the substance, so that people can't pick up the words, and there is no opportunity to go down.

Move 3: Attention Shifting Method If you want to use this trick well, you need agile reflexes and action People's attention resources are limited.

Move 4: Show weakness Of course, showing weakness is not really showing weakness, but throwing the problem into the hands of the other party in the process of showing weakness, the so-called change.

So, you just need to be able to get by.

In fact, the best thing is that you don't take your relatives' words too seriously, don't take them too seriously, and then get along with them, just get along plainly, and don't let them infiltrate into your life too much.

Relatives are different from outsiders, after all, they are related by blood, and they must be sincere in treating their relatives.

Maybe it's still not enough to be close enough to be close. Usually there is very little contact. Compare raw points. And a little more selfish.

These relatives just see the money, keep their distance and don't contact each other.

When you go home for the New Year, it is necessary to see your relatives, but there are some relatives who you know have a bad relationship with him, and even you like this person, but because you are his relative, you have to see him even if you don't like it. 1. Relatives who chew the root of their tongue with a grin. To stay away, there are many people who are old, and there is nothing to do at the age of fifty or sixty, and their favorite thing to do is gossip.

I like to tell others about everything, and I don't care about the feelings of the person concerned and the impact of my own nonsense. I can be regarded as my own person in my family, so some things are always not shy to share with everyone. And if this kind of family matter is known by these long-tongued people, it will immediately be known to everyone, and the person concerned will suddenly become a big joke and become the talk of people and relatives before and after dinner.

They also feel that what they have done is not wrong and that they will not have any intention of repenting, so it is better to stay away from this kind of person.

Second, relatives who can't see you should stay away. There is a saying that some people want you to live well, but they don't want you to be better than him. Many relatives are like that, or even worse.

Their greatest joy every day is to know what has happened to those around them, which makes them feel a sense of superiority that they are not normally capable of. If there is something good in your family, they will immediately pour cold water on it, saying that you will not be fine all the time, and the jealousy in it is self-evident. And if you say something very plain, he will also add fuel and vinegar to others in order to attract everyone's attention, and in the end, the more outrageous it will become, and it will make people who don't know take it seriously.

These relatives can communicate less and communicate less, and don't let them affect their good mood for the New Year.