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Of course, distant relatives are not worth coming!
As the saying goes, "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors", and it is lucky to have a good neighbor.
There is no eternal happiness or eternal pain in life, and happiness and pain go hand in hand.
Sanitation should be done well, happiness without trouble, frequent cleaning should be changed frequently, life is wonderful, open windows and ventilate frequently, health to surround, frequent washing to dry, bacteria do not interfere, World Health Day, health to report, life is really good.
It is difficult to save the fire from far water, and distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors. There are many brothers with tea and wine, and I have never seen one person in an emergency. -- Zengguang Xianwen".
Although distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, no one can change the blood connection.
The so-called distant relatives are not as good as their close neighbors, and in terms of the government, they need to learn more from Park Geun-hye.
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Each of our families, everyone's relatives and friends are different, of course, some relatives are not worth contacting, this should be seen from many aspects.
Relatives who are not worth contacting are the kind of mercenary, and if your family conditions are better, he will be very jealous if you have money. When you find it difficult to borrow money from him, he has many reasons to shirk, you go to his house just to cope, be very stingy, be careful, and will speak ill of your family behind your back. I don't think it's necessary to communicate with this kind of relative.
Dealing with this kind of relatives, we don't have to pay attention to them, stay away from them, out of sight and out of mind, and I don't think they will bother you anymore.
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Someone who didn't help him when he was in need, or a relative who didn't even have the slightest spiritual comfort. And then there are those relatives who only pretend on the surface. Personally, I don't think you should interact with them, you can treat them as you want, and you should follow your heart.
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Relatives who are particularly snobbish and only know how to ask for and take advantage of small advantages are not worth associating. Try not to have contact with them, usually don't come and go, and you can talk straight about the places you don't get used to.
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Relatives who don't know how to be grateful and are very snobbish, try not to socialize, don't be too enthusiastic, reduce the opportunity for contact, and slowly alienate them.
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It should be that very selfish and very snobbish relatives are not worth associating with, and should be kept away from them.
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The relationship is not good, and it is directly cold. Don't come and go, don't take the initiative to send a message, the other party sent a message, you can go back after a period of time, or don't go back, directly when you don't see, relatives come and go, there is friendship, only relatives, otherwise a person's relatives within five generations, how many relatives, at the same time people are mutual, you don't like it, you can show it appropriately, he will naturally receive your dislike, now people generally don't go too far to tie up, people are good face.
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Distant relatives, if you don't say to come and go, don't come and go. And what about the close? Relatives are far and near, and if the relationship between the close is not good, then there will be no contact!
Needless to say, there will be conflicts between relatives, along with fathers and sons, mothers and daughters, sisters and brothers, and sometimes there will be friction between brothers, so there is no need to deal with them. How can there be such a deep hatred, the contradiction has passed, the days still have to live, and the relatives are getting closer and closer, so how to communicate or normal exchanges is better.
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Yes, if you don't have a good relationship with each other, try not to get along. The fact that the old contradictions have not been eliminated and new ones have arisen, has made matters worse. Some things change over time, and there may be a possibility of turning around and fixing.
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Relatives are related by blood.
Ties formed by in-laws, etc. When dealing with people, the relationship is very close, mainly in terms of values and other aspects, and the mutual support, companionship, dependence, and more comfortable relationship formed in the interaction.
Most relatives are not up to them. This relationship it exists. However, we do have the freedom to choose what kind of distance we want to keep. Is it closer, or is it farther away? And not all the same.
"Bad relatives" also exist, and they account for a considerable amount. Generally like to watch jokes, gossip, make random comments, interfere at will, have no patience, and are not very responsible. They don't care much about their actual situation.
Please stay away from such people. There is really no way, it is necessary to get in touch, it depends on the situation, and the situation is judged.
It doesn't have to be because of the relationship between relatives, but how it has to be. You can choose who you want to contact, socialize, and have long-term contact with. There are so many relatives who can actually help each other, listen to each other, and really support each other, very few.
Not all of them are bad, but there aren't many bad people. However, the life circumstances after personal growth will be different, and relationships need to be maintained, and there are many people who are indeed neglected in their daily busyness. Especially if you're on the go.
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If you don't have a good relationship with your relatives, I don't think it's necessary to have a relationship, because it will increase the burden on both parties. So let's go our separate ways, and we won't get along with each other in the future.
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If the relationship between relatives is not good, it should not be used, because relatives are blood relations after all, so although the relationship is not good, but during the New Year's holidays, it is still necessary to communicate and contact the feelings of both parties.
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The relationship between relatives is not good, but after all, there is a blood relationship, and the heart is uncomfortable, but the face still has to be passable, and you can have less contacts, but you can't not not have contacts.
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There is no deep hatred or exchange, just try to be as little as possible.
In fact, conflicts between relatives can be: first of all, we must learn to reflect on ourselves, a slap does not make a sound, many times we can only find problems from ourselves first, and after finding the problem, we must reflect deeply, and then we must be brave to admit our mistakes and restore the relationship as soon as possible.
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If the relationship between relatives is not good, it will cause no contact. It's not pleasing to the eye, and I don't go to my relatives and don't say anything when I look at it.
Relatives are not good, a lot. It's all for a reason. There will be no contact.
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In fact, on the surface, it still has to get by.
No matter how you say it, you are also a relative, and you always have to leave a way back when you do things.
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Right! Some relatives are not as good as close neighbors. You treat him as a relative, but he tramples on your dignity again and again. As the saying goes, brothers still settle accounts, why should they get used to him again and again if the relationship is not good! It's good not to get around.
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If the relationship between relatives is not good, you don't have to go? Yes, some relatives are not as good as friends, I don't have any contact with my brother, no matter who can rely on themselves, any relatives are fake.
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There is some blood relationship between relatives themselves, especially if you chase up, it may be a very close kind of family affection, so I think even if the relationship is not good, you should still have a relationship.
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If the relationship between relatives is not good, you don't need to use it, if you don't have a good relationship with relatives, you don't need to go back, and you should have a closer relationship with relatives than between investors.
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The relationship between relatives is not good, and if it is said that everyone talks about it because of some misunderstanding, it is fine, and there is no need to say that it is not used to go.
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If the relationship between relatives is not good, this situation does not mean that there is no contact, and the relationship is not good, but there are fewer lines of contact.
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If the relationship between relatives is not good, they don't have to go, and the province is more awkward when they are with each other.
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If the relationship between relatives is not good, you don't have to go? If the relationship between relatives does not improve, it is normal that they may not have contact.
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Brothers can not come and go, a table and a distance, relatives can be cut off!
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Some relatives do things too much, so it's okay not to interact with each other in the future, otherwise it will only add to the troubles.
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Hello! Since the relationship is not good, what is the point of contacting? As long as you get along, it doesn't matter if you are a relative or not, you are right! Thank you!
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Well, I personally think it's very common in the countryside, and I also experienced this kind of thing in the countryside when I was a child.
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You can get by on important occasions just like you get along with your colleagues in the company.
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Nowadays, there are fewer and fewer relatives in the countryside, and the next generation is more estranged, and this phenomenon of drifting apart is indeed widespread. The reasons for this are mainly manifested in four aspects.
First, with the death of relatives and the elderly, they have alienated their contacts. For example, when the "five fathers" – uncle, uncle, father-in-law, uncle or uncle and their spouses pass away one after another, there is less movement with their next generation. That's what people often say:
A true portrayal of one generation, two representatives, and three generations!
The second is the influence of the relative's place of residence from near to far. In the past, most of the rural relatives lived in the vicinity of the old adage that "parents are there, do not travel far". Some of my rural relatives are spread over three square kilometres, and it is very convenient and timely for them to move around each other.
With the development of society and the change of traditional concepts, the next generation of young people will call home all over the world. My two nephews, a niece and an aunt, settled in Shanghai, Hangzhou, Shenzhen and other places. Relatives are far apart, and it is inconvenient to move around, so there is less natural contact.
Third, the relationship between relatives has been weakened and exchanges have been reduced. Kinship mainly relies on blood kinship and courtesy. Help each other, help each other in the same boat, and live in harmony.
However, some relatives often do not communicate with each other because of family trivial matters or poor etiquette, and make trouble, the relationship is rigid, and even blame each other and do not get along.
Fourth, it is an inevitable trend for the next generation to alienate their relatives. The next generation of young people lives a hectic pace of life outside the home and a lot of work pressure. Not to mention moving around with relatives, even one's own parents find it difficult to take care of it, and most of them use modern communication tools instead of contact.
All in all, there are fewer and fewer relatives in rural areas, and the next generation is more estranged, which is both an objective factor and an inevitable trend. In fact, with the popularization and application of high technology in society, communication networks have developed. Communication, greetings, message transmission, festive activities and gift red envelopes, etc., can be carried out competently through modern tools such as SMS, WeChat, Alipay, and logistics, which can perfectly achieve the effect of family friendly exchanges.
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Nowadays, many relatives don't interact much because relatives don't help themselves much, and they often make trouble for themselves, so it's better not to contact each other.
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This is mainly because people nowadays will develop in all directions, and most of the relatives are far away, and they will become unfamiliar after a long time.
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The most important thing is that the human touch is getting weaker and weaker, and many people regard money as very important, so they look at feelings more and more lightly
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Because many people are now greedy for profit, they are mainly interest-oriented, and they are unwilling to contact without benefits, so they don't care about family affection at all.
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It's because people nowadays don't value family affection as much as they used to be, and people nowadays are very snobbish.
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It's because there's a lot of pressure in work and life right now. Nowadays, many people don't have much time to visit their relatives. So naturally there will be very little contact.
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The main reason is that now the relationship between relatives is slowly fading, and people are too focused on money and are very snobbish.
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It's because everyone has their own life now, and there are many people who don't want to socialize, so they will be estranged from their relatives.
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Nowadays, people don't want to socialize, they don't want to go out, they are too far away, they are too stressed at work, and they want to stay at home whenever they have time.
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1. When despising your relatives and talking to you, tease you with a weird tone of yin and yang.
Relatives who don't take you seriously will sneer at you for no reason, and generally make you unable to get off the stage, even if you show something unpleasant, your relatives will not attach great importance to your emotions and will still be alone. It can't be done until the desired effect is achieved, and it is very likely that the old trick will be repeated until the next time we meet. Looking down on your relatives will make meaningless jokes with you, and sometimes the more you don't want to talk about anything, the more you look down on your relatives, the more afraid you are of not moving the pot and mentioning which pot.
In general, they have to look down on how your relatives judge you in their hearts, and how they will treat you in terms of words and deeds.
Second, looking down on your relatives will deliberately keep their distance from you, and will also make their family members deliberately alienated from you.
If your relatives used to look down on you and now look down on you, there will be a gap in your relatives' behavior. To this day, whether it is a relative or a relative's family, they will have a relationship with you, even if they don't have the opportunity to get together, they will create opportunities to get together. Until now, you will avoid yourself, rarely contact you in your daily life**, and if you take the initiative to contact your relatives who look down on you, looking down on your relatives will highlight boredom.
Especially when there is still a chance to get together during the New Year or holidays, relatives will find one excuse after another, which is nothing more than to get together less with you, and if it is difficult to get together, it will not get together. In the final analysis, you are afraid that you can climb, although you do not have the intention of climbing, but looking down on your relatives will mistakenly think that you have the intention of climbing.
3. The theme style of despising your relatives and interacting with you seems to be basically not related except for showing off or showing off.
Looking down on your relatives is not to show off to you, but to show off to your family, usually the less you or your family, the more afraid you are to show off your relatives, not only to treat you and your family as green leaves to set off roses, but also to find a sense of existence by generalizing in public. Looking down on your relatives is not looking down on your family, and therefore looking down on you, because they look down on you, and therefore look down on your family. In fact, looking down on your relatives is really arrogant and unstoppable, and the most typical self-confidence of the mystery has long been shallow to the level of unreasonableness.
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