What if the teacher s education method is not suitable for the child?

The best solution for the teacher's teaching method is to adjust the child's learning method to make the child adapt to the teacher, the teacher is oriented to the whole class, and it is impossible to change his teaching method because of individual students. Let the child actively adjust his learning pace and keep up with the teacher's thinking. Let children understand that from learning to work and life in the future, it is definitely impossible for everything to go as they want, to meet their own expectations and development, and it is impossible for the environment to adapt to themselves, but only to adapt to the environment.

If the child still can't adapt after his own efforts, parents can communicate with the teacher tactfully, seek the teacher's help, and let the teacher find a good way to compromise. If it still doesn't work, then you can only transfer to another school, although this is a more troublesome thing, but for the sake of the child's learning, it can only be so.

As the saying goes, it's hard to reconcile, and the teacher is not a student's teacher. Parents can talk to their children when they come home and ask them what happened at school that day. If the child mentions that he does not like the teaching style of a certain teacher, parents should ask the child the reason step by step, and if the teacher's method is inappropriate after learning the reason, parents can find a place for the child to tutor, let the child choose a teacher he likes, and first lead the child to the level of liking this subject, with the ability to learn on his own, the following is much easier.

I am a teacher, working in Thailand, from the first grade of primary school to the third grade of high school students have taught, in Thailand, in order to cultivate children's interest in learning and hands-on ability, will often hold a lot of activities, Chinese classes will have dumpling class, Chinese and Thai food tasting class, simple class, calligraphy class, Chinese song class, Chinese film appreciation class, etc., because Thai students are not very heavy academically, going to college is not so difficult, even if it is the third year of high school, 3:50 is also out of school, so the children do not feel a lot of pressure to learnIt is easy not to get bored with the school and the teacher, but there are also children who don't like the subject teacher and give up the subject. Therefore, if the teacher's teaching method cannot be liked by the child, parents can use some methods to make their child interested in the subject, or find a teacher that the child likes to make up for a period of time, so that the child can rebuild confidence in the subject.

Each teacher's teaching is aimed at the whole class, and his teaching method is adjusted to the majority of students, so it can promote the development of some students and hinder the development of some students. How many teachers do a child have to meet throughout his or her school career, at least dozens, and teaching is a very personalized thing, just like ten teachers in a class have ten methods, different styles will have different advantages, and it is in this way that a variety of different styles allow children to absorb different advantages. Adapting to teachers is a kind of ability, the older the child, the more subject teachers, it is impossible for seven or eight teachers in a class to teach almost the same teaching methods.

It is only a matter of time before you get used to the teacher, and it is not very disruptive to learning. Parents should enlighten their children that different teaching methods have their own advantages and disadvantages, and it may be fine after a while. Transferring schools is not a panacea, and don't make major mistakes because of small problems.

I work in schools and have seen parents transfer their children to schools for small, instinctive problems. Even if a child is good at adapting to the environment, it is still more difficult to adapt to the overall learning environment than to adapt to a teacher. Transferring to another school is not a panacea, finding problems, learning to adjust, and finding ways is the best way.

Parents who can ask this question show that they still attach great importance to education, and they have really integrated their children's education into their own blood, and they did not say that everything will be fine if they send their children to school. The teacher's teaching method is not suitable for his own children, it is not suitable for those aspects, first analyze things, and then find a way to solve it, try to solve it as much as possible, and then choose to see if it can change classes if it cannot be solved. For example, the teacher attaches great importance to the test-taking and assigns a lot of homework, while his own children like freedom.

This contradiction can be discussed with the teacher and coordinated. On the basis of the child's ability to guarantee the grades, it is appropriate to reduce unnecessary repetitive homework. This example is for reference only, and the specific problem is analyzed on a case-by-case basis.

Generally, the design of the teaching curriculum in formal schools is carefully studied before it can be formally entered into the classroom. So in this regard, I still trust the school and the teachers more. If the child does not study well in a certain subject, I may first consider whether the child's learning method is correct, and will give the child appropriate guidance to help the child find her own learning method.

If it is really the teacher's problem, I will consider communicating with the teacher about the characteristics of the child, which way the child prefers to learn, and maybe the teacher will adjust his teaching method according to the different characteristics of each child. If there are other teachers in the school who are teaching well, but there is no change after communication, then I will only ask a tutor to tutor the child, or study the subject with the child myself. If there is a problem with the quality of teaching in the school, I will consider changing schools for my child.

At the end of last semester, the child came back and said that the math teacher in their class had changed, because the original teacher was pregnant and wanted to go home to give birth to a baby, and the temporary replacement teacher was an external teacher, who was too rigid in teaching methods, not as flexible as the original teacher, and could make full use of various teaching aids. As soon as I heard the news, I unconsciously thought that today's children really have more personality than when we were children, and they dared to comment on teachers like this when they first entered the second grade, and they dared to sleep in class, which was something I dared to do when I was in high school. But after a few seconds, I realized that this is not good, the teacher's lecture is no longer interesting and according to the syllabus, if the child does not listen carefully in class, it will inevitably affect the learning effect, and if undisciplined behavior really occurs, it will also give other students a bad example, which is absolutely not allowed in primary school.

Therefore, it is still necessary to focus on enlightening children. Tell children the importance of listening to lectures in class, although the mathematics content in the second grade is indeed not very difficult for children, and most of them can understand by themselves, but the main points of knowledge that the teacher talks about in class are just the finishing touch, and once you miss important information, it may affect the learning effect later.

First of all, it should be clarified whether the teacher's teaching method is not suitable for the children in their own family, or for the children in the class as a whole. If it's just that one of your own children is not adaptable, then you should find the reason from your own children, or even from adults.

If all students have problems, then they can consult with the teacher.

The teacher's education method is not suitable for every child, but most children are acceptable, in the case that individual children can not accept, you need to do psychological counseling for children, to see what aspects the child feels bad, and you can pay attention to adjust it during class.

If it's my child, I think I should look at it from these three aspects.

1. Whether there is a misunderstanding of how the teaching method is not suitable is determined. That.

2. Can you determine what kind of teaching method your child is suitable for? That.

Third, find solutions in a targeted manner. Start from these points and solve the problem step by step.

Teachers' education methods are indeed different, as long as the general direction is not wrong, we parents still educate our children to try to adapt to teachers.

As a teacher, if you want to teach your children well, you must treat your children like your own students, and be lenient and severe. When disciplining your own children, you should strive to be stricter than your own students. In this way, under their own words and deeds, under their own strict discipline, children will definitely become better and better, and when they grow up, they will definitely be promising.

How do you teach your children well?

First, start from the details, and carry out good moral education for children from an early age.

For example, teach children to say hello to their teachers at school and take the initiative to greet their classmates. You should also get along with your classmates, don't swear, don't drive, and don't do dangerous actions.

When you return home, you should be a filial child and be polite to your elders. When Mom and Dad are tired, they bring Mom and Dad a cup of tea and beat their backs and legs; When Mom and Dad were washing their feet, they took the initiative to help get the slippers; Learn to be polite when crossing the road and eating at home; When you see your uncle and aunt, take the initiative to say hello; When guests come to the house, greet them with a smile and be polite. In particular, it is necessary to educate children to love the motherland and the Communist Party of China.

Second, start from the details, pay attention to cultivating children's good learning habits from an early age.

When my child enters first grade, I know that first grade is the best and most critical period for cultivating good behavior and study habits. Especially in the first two months of the first grade, as long as parents implement and supervise in place every day, children's good habits will definitely be formed quickly. For example:

When you wake up in the morning, arrange for your child to dress first, then brush his teeth and then wash his face and hands. If you have enough time, let your child read aloud for a while, and then parents can send your child to school. On the first day of school, you should teach your child how to listen carefully in class and how to get along with his classmates in school.

When you come home from school in the afternoon, parents should tell their children: "Now, you take out your books and notebooks and prepare to do your homework, and you must remember to take the language book when you do your Chinese homework, and take the math book when you do your math homework." "Teach children how to put books, how to put homework, and how to organize their schoolbags after completing their homework.

Parents must demonstrate each step by hand, and then stand next to their children and supervise their homework completion. Since the children in the first grade do not know how to read the questions, parents can ask the children to point to the questions first, and the parents will teach them to read, and then help the children understand the questions. Once you understand it, let your child do his homework.

Children should be given a correct three views, and as a teacher, they should also tell children what they should do and what they should not do, and they should establish some correct concepts for children, and they should tell children that they should be polite, and they should know how to respect others, and they should also get along with friends in a friendly way.

As a teacher, you should lead by example and educate your children to develop good study habits and be a high-quality person.

In normal times, you should set a good example for your child, you can say more positive things to your child, and then let your child be more independent. Respect your child's ideas and listen to your child's opinions, which can promote your child's self-confidence and improve your thinking skills. It can make him grow up especially healthy.

There should be a correct way to educate children, because children are still young, we can't say a lot of things, because it will hit the child's self-esteem, and at the same time, we should also pay attention to the child's mental activities, empathy way to educate the child.

When educating children, we should be more patient with children, cultivate a correct three views, let children know what is right and what is wrong, and guide children when they do wrong things, and let children have a stable mood.

You can educate your children in some correct ways, and you should communicate more with your children in life, communicate more with your children, and you should also use some ways to improve your children's grades.

Gently explain some truths to the child, let the child understand some things, and let the child have his own three views and his own thoughts.

As a teacher, we should actively guide children, and at the same time, we should communicate more with children, understand the true thoughts of children, be sure to teach children according to their aptitude, educate children according to their different situations, care more about children, and create a good educational atmosphere.

There should be a very good attitude to educate the children, according to the child's personality and the reasons for the mistakes, and do some communication with the children.

As the second position of children's growth, school will also have a non-negligible impact on children's growth and development. The school is the cradle of cultivating talents, students are the main body of educational activities, and teachers are the representatives of teaching and educating people and imparting knowledge. The answer is yes.

As the representative of preaching and teaching and solving doubts, and as the engineer of the human soul, it is his vocation to teach and educate people. Teachers should lead by example and use their words and deeds to guide students, that is, language and behavior will play a very key role in the growth and development of students.

Some teachers are full of love, good at observing every student, respecting the laws of students' growth and development, and teaching students according to their aptitude. Praise is given for students' strengths, and for students' shortcomings, they are used to raise and help them correct. At the same time, when communicating with students, we respect the personality of students, respect their learning results, and treat every student equally.

Such a teacher will promote students' motivation to learn and make them more interested in learning the curriculum they are representing.

Some teachers always criticize students, turn a blind eye to students' achievements, and will only blindly put forward higher requirements for students. For students, disrespect, unequal treatment, and differential treatment of good and poor grades, such an attitude of teachers will have a very bad impact on students, and the students who have been cultivated have more psychological problems. This kind of unfair treatment will make students with poor grades become more inferior, sensitive and lose confidence, and students with good grades will be arrogant, look down on others, and become conceited.

How can the students cultivated in this situation be excellent? The most important thing for a person is quality, and only by learning to be a person can he learn to do things.

In short, as a teacher, we should respect individual differences, correct our words and deeds, and set a good example for students, so as to better cultivate excellent students with all-round development of morality, intelligence, physical fitness, art and labor.