Isn t it scary if you don t know yourself

No one in the world can fully understand themselves, and it is impossible to fully understand anyone, because people are on the edge at every moment, and there is a philosophy that says that yesterday's you are not today's you. How can people understand themselves at all times? At its simplest, do you consider yourself a good person?

You say no, then who is good, you may be in the mood today to save an ant in the water, but another day you will catch hundreds of ants for no reason and throw them into the water, this is for animals, if you have the strength to do this to people one day? So you just need to know that people are fickle, no matter men or women, as long as they are people, it is impossible to fully understand themselves, you just need to know what you need, what you can do, what you do you will be happy about, what you will do you will not have troubles. Anyway, China is a free and democratic country, at least it shows that people are free, as long as you don't do anything that obviously endangers the interests of the country, you don't need to fully understand yourself, everyone is equal, and do things according to your truest heart.

No, because one cannot be fully understood.

Nor can they be fully understood.

The cause is not terrible

It's normal.

It's not scary at all, that's people.

It's not scary, but I often feel helpless because of it. But people, that's just that, no one should be able to fully understand themselves. In fact, sometimes, we don't have to think too much, just grab the happiness in front of us.

Whenever someone asks me what kind of person I am, my answer can never be the same every time, because I don't know much about myself.

What kind of personality is you, what kind of life do you like, what are your advantages and disadvantages, and how many people can clearly say everything about yourself? How many people are as unspeakable to us as we are? What about the people who burn the old side every week?

I often think about my very little self, what kind of person I was at that time, whether my personality is the same as now, whether my dreams have not changed, I don't know, I really don't know, I don't know how.

I remember that after I came out to work, I didn't know much about the language of the people in my hometown when I returned home for the Chinese New Year, so I didn't even have to say hello. I don't understand what I'm doing, but what do others say? "That person ignored people after he went out, thinking that he was very great, but he was not skinny Zheng Sheng, yes, that person was becoming more and more rude, that person was too ignorant, and such a big person couldn't even be a minimum person."

Maybe there's all there to say!

Whenever I think about what I want to do, some people around me will say, "If you still want to think about this and that, let's face the reality!" "Don't always dream about something that you don't have, wasting time," maybe it will be very uncomfortable to hear, is there really a fate at all, just let fate be at the mercy of it?

Of course not.

So when will we be able to understand ourselves, understand ourselves, and clearly know what kind of life we want and what kind of person we are. What are your goals, what are your dreams. Who can read me.

If you don't know yourself, how can others know about you?

You may have had the same experience of accepting those words as part of your self-image when someone accidentally says hurtful or flattering words. I know a lady who wore a lace dress as a kid and everyone said she was beautiful. Now in his seventies, he still wears it like this a lot.

Conversely, if you have an old critic who belittles your relative, teacher, boss, or boyfriend, it won't be long before you can start seeing yourself through their eyes and behaving like they say you are.

When I was 10 years old, I was distracted by class. In front of the whole class, the teacher scolded fiercely: "I can't even ask such a simple question, I'm so stupid!"

Oddly enough, after that I really started to get stupid and I couldn't even ask. Very simple question.

Fortunately, I slowly discovered my "cool" spending amount and had a self-image, so I tore off this "label".

What negative impression do you have of yourself? Stupid, disgusting, naïve, timid, cowardly, unloving, guilty, unsportsmanlike, poor artisan......When, where, and how did these impressions take root in your mind? Indoctrinated by whom?

Why listen to someone else's wandering grandson? These people are likely to have also gotten their own ideas from others, like this kind of people who don't even know themselves, how can others understand you?

I don't know myself, just like you don't know me.

I am simple by nature and do not like vanity, but I often make comparisons in secret.

I think people should do what they say, but I often change my mind. Talking and doing are the opposite.

Shouldn't people be peaceful? But I was always jealous of her.

I obviously want to do something well, but I use all kinds of excuses to hinder myself.

That's what I do, but that's what I do.

The heart and reality are more different than the opposite, and they want to change. When I encounter pain, I roar in my heart, why the fuck should I change. It's always the heart that prevails.

I don't know myself at all, if it's not that my behavior is normal, I must have a mental illness, I must be the kind of person who knows a lot of truth but still can't live this life.

Sometimes, the dark area of my heart is getting bigger and bigger, and if I leave, I don't have to go through the things that make it difficult for me. I think so. But I am timid by nature, and I love to worry about my stomach.

Abandoning such a thing as disappearing now, there is only something to think about, and I will not do it.

Thankfully, I still have a sense of responsibility.

No wonder I can't meet people I like, no wonder my ability is like this. I can't figure it out, I don't know the way. The only explanation is that I still don't want to change.

I really don't know myself. It's like you don't know me.

Most people don't know about themselves, and there are two main manifestations: one is "external attribution, don't think about their own problems"; The other is "knowing what it is, but not knowing why".

1.Human beings have an innate strong desire to protect themselves, which can hinder our deeper understanding of ourselves. People tend to distort the facts and see things in a way that is beneficial to them. Attribute success to one's own ability and hard work, and attribute failure to external circumstances.

2.Many people are aware of their own behavior, but they do not understand the internal reasons behind their behavior. Many scenarios lead to choosing the same behavior, but it's clear that the starting point is completely different.

In fact, there are many ways for us to understand ourselves, and we can analyze, examine, explain, measure, and judge through the display of reality, so as to understand ourselves more accurately, more realistically, and more deeply.

He will be kind to others and to himself, a person who understands himself, no matter how humble his or her position is, will not grovel and hang his head, he will be quiet, self-respecting, and calmly look for his own way out.

A person who understands himself correctly, even if he is in a high position. It will not be domineering and arrogant, but will be more modest and cautious, treat people with courtesy, and reasonably grasp the scale of dealing with others.

When will people meet a better self, it seems that no one can give a definite answer, but there is a vague feeling, that is, when their mentality is more and more peaceful, it seems that at that time is the best way to think of it at the beginning.