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Change yourself. I'm like that too. Increase your circle of friends.
Increase your spare time, don't get old and shut yourself up in the world as long as you and him. Men, regardless of personality, will need personal space and social circles. Job.
As long as they're at work and not playing, you can live your life with peace of mind, giving the occasional heartwarming text message or two and a sweet **. But don't exaggerate. Let him know.
You're doing well. You are very independent. But you also need his company.
He will naturally have the same mindset as you. He will take the initiative to call you **. Take the initiative to talk to you about work and life today.
will feel like he needs you too. I don't know what kind of personality your boyfriend is. But if he truly loves you.
Then he will surely understand you. That's how I came here, and I had a lot of little tantrums because of this. Very capricious.
That way he'll just find me annoying. I annoyed him. Be smart.
As long as you are confident enough, he loves you. Then you can give it a try
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It may be that he is too busy at work, you know, a person's energy is limited, and he consumes too much energy in a certain aspect, he can't still have the energy to talk to you sweetly every day, be more considerate of him, don't bother him when he's busy with work, help him press his shoulder or something when he's resting, he will feel your thoughtfulness, and when he finishes this while, he will remember your good.
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If it were me, I wouldn't be playing ** every day (even if I didn't misunderstand one day). Women should be more considerate of men, and you should be tolerant of each other.
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Don't contact him to see what the reaction is, wait for him to talk to you and see what he thinks, tell him what you think.
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1. There is no willingness to communicate in depth.
She doesn't want to hear what you say, or she doesn't stop at all, she doesn't care what you say, and she doesn't care how you feel.
You tell her about your troubles at work, but she only replies to you, "It would be nice to send another one." "So you don't want to talk anymore.
2. Don't care about each other's dynamics.
One of the biggest characteristics of people in love is that they like to talk "nonsense", and they have to tell each other everything about each other, from the direction of work to what they have for lunch.
And now, no matter what the other party has been through, it doesn't seem to have much to do with you.
3. It's easy to see each other's shortcomings.
You find that there are many shortcomings in the other person, and even the advantages that were once in your eyes have become disadvantages.
In the past, you thought they were childish and you thought they were cute, but now you just think they are immature and childish.
4. I feel that the other party is too boring, or even a little irritable.
In the past, when two people were together, even if they didn't do anything, you felt happy in your heart, but now they feel a little annoyed when they have been with you for a long time, and they would rather stay by themselves for a while.
Once a relationship enters a burnout phase, it is easy to enter a vicious cycle.
The more dissatisfied each side is with each other, the shortcomings of the other party will be magnified, which will lead to a reluctance to communicate with each other, and then more contradictions and conflicts will appear, accelerating the burnout of the Guan Xuan Lu He system.
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After dating each other for a while, you can see the other party's nature clearly, and you can't stand the other party's shortcomings and imperfections, and you will have aesthetic fatigue or tiredness.
Some people also describe the love burnout period in this way: "The love burnout period is the process of transforming from love to family affection, and it is the sublimation of love."
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Ways to deal with the burnout period of love:
1. Take the sail to travel with lovers and carry out outdoor activitiesTake lovers to travel and carry out outdoor activities.
Traveling to a new place, in a new environment that is unfamiliar to both of you, lovers will rely on each other to create new memories, reminisce about the good old days, and reaffirm their trust and love for each other. It can be helpful to choose a place to travel that you have never been to before, and to try activities that you haven't been involved in.
2. Take some time for yourself.
Give yourself some time to analyze the current situation objectively. "Giving yourself some time" is a good opportunity to feel precious to the other person again.
3. Change the method of dialogue or nickname between lovers.
After a long period of love, lovers will become like friends or even family, regardless of each other. To prevent this from happening, occasionally changing your nickname or changing the way you speak can make the other person feel respected.
4. Exercise with your lover.
Exercise relieves the aggressive instinct and relieves stress. Exercising with your lover can breathe fresh life into your relationship and help you resonate.
5. Praise the merits of lovers.
Couples who have been in a relationship for a long time rarely have the time to praise each other for their strengths. Just as the saying goes, "Praise makes the whale dance", cultivating the habit of complimenting each other in subtle ways can increase mutual respect.
6. Change your hairstyle or dressing style.
Humans are visual creatures. Therefore, self-management and hairstyles that are neglected due to being too intimate with each other need to be reconsidered. Appearing as unfamiliar with each other, I can feel the vanished heartbeat again.
The love burnout period is mainly caused by the loss of freshness, which also makes many people feel a headache, the problem of this love burnout period is actually not incurable, the sweetness of love is gone, you can find it again, I am afraid that there is no longer this heart.
Is there a long-lasting love, in fact, the eternal love is in your heart, just like many people often ask if there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in you, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love, isn't it better?
After all, we are separated by a world of separation.
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