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How so? Your mother is a person who is not responsible, you can't stop it, she won't be ashamed to do something bad by herself, let's live your own life!
Don't make it a lose-lose situation.
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It's up to you to understand your family.
Do you want a full family or do you want a free family?
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At any time, the relationship is a matter of two people, and even as a child, I don't feel that I have the right to interfere.
Many of us have an idea in our minds that we have the right to participate in the decisions of our children's parents, and then as parents, they also like to control their children's lives, which is a deep-rooted idea that is difficult to eliminate for a while, but it is not beneficial to both partiesWhenever you want to live this life, it should be up to you to decide.
If my parents want to divorce, I won't have any opinions, I'm not saying these things because of impulse, many people think that parents are feudal, in fact, sometimes, we have some paranoia deeper than our parents. Because they feel that they can't live together anymore, maybe separation is a good option for both of them. Although they brought me into this world, but did not give me a complete home, I feel that I should not let their lives be tied up by me, and I hope that they can think about themselves at all times.
In fact, divorce has a really big impact on the children, but if it can sacrifice my happiness to make a better life for both of them, then I think I am willing to do it as a child. Of course, now I don't interfere in whether they want a divorce or not, so I hope that they can respect me as much as I make any emotional choices in the future.
If we can all be people who can sense the pain of others to the greatest extent, then I feel that it will be a great thing to do, and there will be a lot less unnecessary trouble.
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Think about why parents do this? From their point of view, see if there is a reason, and then try to talk to them, express their thoughts, they can accept it of course better, if you don't accept it, you can reserve your opinion, remember: obedient for filial piety!
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One: The younger generation is guilty of managing the elders, and the elders can only persuade them if they make mistakes, and the more they manage, the more they hate, and no one has said hello.
Two: You are a daughter-in-law, there is a man in the woman can not take the power of a man, you should ask the man before making a decision, because he is his own son closer than you.
You are so angry that you are too angry, it is easy for the female protagonist to be a man, the yin is too strong, your husband is very embarrassed, and will complain about you, the yin is too strong, the man will be damaged by the yang energy, and it will shine into the disharmony between your husband and wife, you are righteous and angry, think that you are reasonable, but the reason is not in harmony with the Tao, and the reason is that you are a daughter-in-law and children The relationship is so far away from the management of the excessive, the mother-in-law does not care, the man does not care, you take care of it, it is his business to commit overstepping his authority, his mistake is his business, you can't manage it, only find your own duty, and admit to the whole family that it is not, Including father-in-law, if you want to be a good daughter-in-law, tell your husband, persuade his father well, just do your duty, don't force it
In the future, your sons and daughters will be honored and filial piety to you
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