Please help me analyze the other person s thoughts! Please help me analyze what the other person thi

Since he is married for the second time and has children, it is normal not to be in a hurry to get married, and he can find it slowly. Because I feel that I haven't reached the level of getting married, I am not in a good state and I am not in the mood to deal with friends, and I don't want to delay you, so let's say this. Listening to your description, it seems that he thinks he has a good character, and he doesn't have any feelings for a long time, if he thinks it's a pity to miss it, ask him again, so that he will contact you again when he is in good shape next year, anyway, the New Year will be two months.

Because it's not about falling in love, if there is a suitable one in the process, you can continue to go on a blind date, don't delay yourself for nothing.

The latter is more likely, and it is not a phenomenon to be positive first and then cold.

Don't you feel a loss for an unmarried woman marrying a divorced single father? ?

Now that he's like this, you can find other good men, lack everything, good men don't lack anything.

Of course, I'm not trying to provoke your relationship, I'm just talking about things.

Make your own decisions on your own, and others just suggest.

Hope, thank you.

I think the credibility of this person needs to be further investigated, whether there is any other motive. Marriage is a major event in life, and you must keep your eyes open.

He wanted to think about it again.

Since you're interested in him, take the initiative to confess... Sometimes the matchmaker is a treasure, but sometimes it is an obstacle, and when it's time to clear it, it's cleared.

I guess it's not that he doesn't like you, but that his family doesn't like you, so you should buy something for his grandparents, uncles and aunts, grandma, aunts, aunts, and aunts.

I don't think he likes you very much, if he likes you very much, he should take the initiative to contact you instead of you contacting him, as for other may be excuses, or it may be the truth, the matchmaker is not too anxious, the matchmaker means to ask him if he succeeds, and to give you an answer is not necessarily whether you have to marry or not, which means that you are willing to fight or not. I think if you really don't care about his son and the past, I suggest you be prepared and don't take the initiative to contact him. If he does not contact you, then you ...

And as for the age issue, I think Ling Tsai is fine. What's wrong with getting older, the most important thing is to be happy for a lifetime, it's better to get married late than to get married and then leave well, I'm 29 and unmarried. It's okay.

Hope it helps.

It should be a lack of self-confidence, if you like him, then it doesn't matter if you take the initiative, whether it will be successful or not is in your hands

Didn't say no, didn't agree.

If you are rejected, they will not take the initiative to pay attention to you.

If you really want to know, ask him again, after all, it's about your happiness, and since you've confessed, ask clearly, don't leave yourself with regrets.

Accept it, stupid, I don't even know it.

Analyze your problem with rigor:"Recognize"The implications are many.

But depending on what you mean, what you mean by understanding should be a more comprehensive understanding and cognition of a person.

Theoretically: it's much harder to get to know someone than you are to know yourself.

Reason: You first have to enter the world of the person you want to know, both mentally and in life. This is the first level.

Then, you need to process the information you have received about him in your own world and draw conclusions about what you know about him. This is another level. Finally, you need to make sure that the conclusions you have reached are correct, otherwise you will get a wrong understanding.

Obviously, you have to get to know people, it's too much work.

On the contrary, you have to know yourself, you don't need to go through the first level, the second level, and even the third level is unnecessary.

In fact, it is easy and natural to know yourself. But for some, like you, asking such a question is essentially trying to verify that your understanding of self-laziness is correct. Even then, only the third hurdle is required.

Conclusion: From the above, it is much easier to know oneself than to know others. )

And people like the landlord who ask this kind of question are basically certainly the most unconfident type of people.

Therefore, if you don't believe in what you know about yourself, you don't seem to be able to see yourself clearly"The way it is"Finish.

Confident people always know what kind of person they are, what they should be doing and what they are doing.

Rhetorically, do you think it's easy to know what others are doing and what they're doing, or it's easier to know what you're doing and what they're doing?

In fact, it is easy to know yourself, because you only need to know yourself once, and there is no end to knowing others. As mentioned in the commentary, you need to spend a lot of time getting to know someone else, and it only takes a day or a year to understand yourself. Because there is only one self.

How do you tell the difference? Every day you discover new traits, cowardly, strong, wise and ignorant, and the same discovery happens to what you call "others"? Isn't the most obvious feature of this world changing from moment to moment?

In this sense, knowing oneself is just as easy and as difficult as knowing others, isn't it?

Of course, it's easier to get to know others.

If you know yourself, it's like not knowing the true face of Lushan, only because you are in this mountain.

I seriously suspect that the landlord is cheating.

I also suspect I'm here to cheat on points.

Landlord, do you understand? This is a philosophical analysis of the difference between knowing others and recognizing oneself.

It's easier to get to know others.

Others are like a mirror, we reflect our own shadow from others, first have an understanding of others, only to reflect the self, adults will have a lot of consciousness of distinction, acquired, with their own experience and knowledge, can reasonably and rationally analyze the nature and characteristics of others, but knowing oneself, is a very difficult process, the word I am divided into three kinds, self, self, and other me, that is, yourself in your own eyes, and you in their eyes, and the real self, Ordinary people are nothing more than living under the vanity of others and me, looking for themselves, and I don't know what it is.

I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain.

Of course there are books like this, but I don't know the name of the book, but I'm sure it exists. Let's go to the library.

Mainly communicative.

In psychology, it introduces subconscious or subconscious actions, and the American drama lie to me is in this aspect.

Seriously, nine out of ten women don't like sibling love. It's not that she can't fit any man when she's 25, and every woman wants to find a better place to belong. are looking forward to living like a princess.

Pampering, loving, protecting. As long as you can give her these, distance is not an issue.

It seems that people really don't want to fall in love. If you really like her very much, don't rush, take your time, get along as an ordinary friend first, and be natural.

After all, love is a matter of two people, both parties will have love when they have an emotional foundation, you have only known her for three months, don't you think it's too short? Moreover, I feel a little frivolous.

As long as there is contact, call ** to her! She's getting married too! Let's chase! It's okay!

I think that liking someone is to make the other person happy, and if she doesn't want to, then there is no way.

If it were me, I would think you were frivolous and confessed without knowing anything?? , how can there be so much love at first sight?

Don't be in a hurry

Opportunities are also earned by themselves

Slowly impress her.

Women need security, flowers, and a sense of responsibility!

From your narrative I summarize as follows:

One: The girl is a more empathetic person, as she will explain why she didn't reply to your text messages.

Two: She doesn't seem to have thought about whether she should talk to you, there are two possibilities, either she doesn't feel too much for you, and on the other hand, you haven't made it clear, so she will keep a certain distance from you.

Three: If you say that she is not very motivated to reply to your text messages, I think this is normal. Of course, it depends on whether the content you send in the past is to her taste, and if there are always a few words of saliva that have not been eaten, she may not be too lazy to reply.

What advice can I give you:

One: Believe in this sentence, a woman's heart can be conquered. But you have to be targeted. How much you do and what you do are completely different things for women, so for women, it depends on what you do, but how much you don't do.

Two: You've only known each other for 10 days, and you still don't know what kind of person you want to pursue, so you're in a hurry to pursue it, which is not what a steady man should look like. Therefore, it is recommended to date for a while before talking.

Three: Your friend's so-called don't invest too much first, I will object, if you are not a charming person, you are unlikely to attract the attention of girls like Korean handsome stars, at this time, if you are not invested, how can the other party feel that you like her, since she can't feel that you like her, how can she talk to you? If there is no input, there will be no output, and if the input is not effective to a certain extent, then it is better to give up again.

When the time comes, you will be disappointed and sad for a while, it's nothing, everyone is like this, a compulsory course for youth.

You should take the initiative to ask people out. In fact, you don't have to position yourself too carefully. One step at a time.

Start low. Make an appointment. Texting often to ask for warmth.

Occasionally give each other small gifts. Look at the opportunity and the timing to say something intimate. I think you're going to have to stick with that for a while.

At least you know what people's attitude is towards you. The important thing is to do it with your heart. You are sincere and attentive to a person.

Can't the other party feel it? If I really don't feel for you. I think she'll say something about it, too.

Then you'll know the result then. And also. 10 days is not a long time.

Start chasing now.

Well, your current relationship is a half-friend and half-couple relationship, you should ask her about her work and rest time, maybe she really didn't see it, you should deepen the understanding between the two sides, I think you have a chance, if she doesn't feel it at all, she won't pick you up**.

Oh, if you like it, chase it, and if you don't like it, you will disperse, because you have no emotional foundation at all, and you are shy, it is difficult to say whether this thing will be successful or not. You're only 23 years old now, and you may meet someone else you fall in love with, so don't worry! I hope you will think carefully about ......

What a chat! Straight to the point!

Hehe, things have to develop slowly, so you can wait and see.

The first thing is that I don't really care about you! If it's a position that isn't particularly high-tech, then you should contact more and remember not to bother you.