When the material is not enough to get married, what to do

After experiencing marriage, I realized that marriage is very realistic, and many things must be taken into account, and falling in love are completely different things.

I believe you can understand her request, a home is really important to women, and the general environment generally requires men's families to buy houses.

I understand your difficulties very well, taking out so much money at once, and not being a rich second generation, hehe.

Talk to her, tell her about your current situation, if you love her, show her determination, at least give her a plan, such as how much money you have saved now, you can buy a house in a few years, etc., women are not afraid that men will have no money now, they are afraid that they will always have no money. If she's a reasonable girl and you have a good relationship, she'll understand you and support you. If she keeps pestering to buy a house now or something, it proves that she doesn't love you very much, hehe.

I remember when I graduated, my senior told me: There are as many couples who are separated for the house as there are houses in China, the society is very realistic, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea, hehe

No matter what, let's work hard for your future happy life, everything is temporary!

The first time you answer a question, a question like this, is most common in rural areas.

In fact, the woman's requirements are not high, after all, marriage is a very obvious problem. There's so much involved. If you are still in love, then don't think about anything, fall in love, it is a sad pity to get married in this era.

It can be seen that the landlord attaches great importance to his girlfriend, and considers it in many ways, after all, there is only one problem, but there are many methods, all around the problem and solve, the seat can be used, relatives and friends, or social forces, such as bank loans.

In fact, think about it, these problems are very big, if you end up together, it's okay to say, if two people don't end up together, when you wake up in the middle of the night, you find that the person next to your pillow is not what you cherish and like, it's really sad, but two people who love each other can't be together.

Besides, the relationship of 3 years in this society is actually very fragile, and if you don't pay attention to it, you will be crushed by reality, so give yourself a goal and do your best to work hard for your own happiness.

Although I am not married yet, my pressure has a lot in common with the landlord, and I can communicate more with my future mother-in-law, maybe her initial firmness will be loosened by your persistence.

You just tell her that you are the one who takes a fancy to me, and the house is not the most important thing, right? If you have to buy a house to get married, you also know my current financial situation, I hope I can live a self-reliant life, would you like to live with me like this?

Hey, get engaged first, and then go to the woman to say good things or something, and get the woman pregnant, so it's naturally natural.

In a story, three people went to the woman to propose, and the first one said, I have 2 million assets. The second said, I have a house of 600 square meters. The third said, "I have nothing but a child in your daughter's womb."

As a result, the first two left immediately. It can only illustrate one problem, money is not everything, it depends on how you figure out how to do it.

If you really love her, try your best to buy a house first, because after all, you may regret losing her. Maybe it's not that she doesn't love you enough to buy a house, but from all sides, such as relatives. She had to give her dad an explanation.

She should also see it in her own efforts, and it will not be very difficult for the family to help buy a down payment at that time. If you work hard but still don't achieve it, and the other party has to be obsessed with the condition of buying a house in the county, that person feels that she doesn't love you very much, and it's not worth paying too much.

Try your best to convince your family to agree to your marriage, you can't blindly rely on your parents to live, and you'd better be able to achieve something in your career.

Yes, now this society is all material conditions, and it is really difficult if there are no conditions, but now it is all adults who are in charge, and it is also for their daughters to have a better life in the future, and some are not necessarily, it will be better in the future, but now this society is still a little more general conditions.

In general, the man needs to borrow money from relatives and friends or borrow money from the bank to buy a house.

How many young people are able to buy a house on their own, or they still have to rely on their families, they can make a down payment first, and then work slowly on their own.

Love always needs to be built on material things, and there is no one who doesn't care, it's just a different degree.

It's that you didn't choose the right person, as you said, it is estimated that your husband is not very motivated, and he doesn't want to be motivated, if you think about it well, then you can only work hard to make money.

Without these, can life go on? You can say that, I can make up for it, so what we eat tomorrow and what will be the future with you.

Then drag it out first, maybe one day the two of you don't love each other or your parents compromise.

Therefore, if you should love this boy, you should love, you should sleep, you should get married, you should be filial to your parents, you should be filial to your parents, how can there be parents when you have always been good to him, he will hold a grudge against this matter, it does not exist.

So, you are adjusting what may happen in the future to the present and causing him to contradict him. So, cutting off everything and judging its future outcome and focusing on the present is the best way to break the tangled.

Communicate well with your family. so that your family may understand you and that they may bless you. If they truly love you. It will make you happy.

Marriage is not child's play, nor is it maintained by material, of course, your parents are also thinking about you, I don't want you to have a hard time in the second half of your life, I personally think that you have to work hard and work hard together! If two people are truly in love with each other and are self-motivated, I think they can get married, and the premise of marriage is to convince your parents, after all, a marriage without blessings is not very good!

Family for your own good. But marriage is a lifelong thing, you choose for yourself, and if you choose, you must not let yourself regret it.

Is it you getting married or is your family getting married? If you really want to marry, don't be too obedient. You can talk to your family.

Communicate, discuss, communicate, discuss. There are only two possibilities for not reaching an agreement, either elope or break up.

Are you married to the requirements, or are you the one you love.

Marry someone or something? Bored.

If you really like him, you won't care about any money.

Material things are important, but you now need to know whether he can rely on the person you trust, not in terms of his current income, but on whether he works hard and is motivated, and if so, you don't have to worry about that. On the contrary, you have to think about your future life as much as possible, divorce is not the only way, communicate with each other as much as possible, and believe that you can work together to create a better tomorrow that belongs to you.

Divorce won't solve the problem. This has to be realistic. Do you think your lover is a potential stock? Do you think you and your lover can create a future together? Don't get a divorce if you think you can, it's not good for you to get divorced!

You're thinking too much. If you divorce solely because of material things, then you will be married n times.

After the divorce, you can find someone who is rich.

Think about it, it's true that the two of them work together.

No, you still have to live after divorce, you can't do anything vaguely, you have to connect with reality, combine with reality, and marriage is not a dream.

can't be sun, the most important thing for two people to be together is to be able to live together and be honest with each other.

Yes, matter is the basis of spirit.

Divorce is not child's play.

Why don't you want the two of them to work together to make money.

You should ask the girl about this, and if you have to be material, even if the guy is in love, the girl will say it without the boy talking.

If a girl puts it off again and again, there's only one end up being a stranger, and you can deny anybody's present, but you can't decide anybody's future.

The material foundation needs to be created by the joint efforts of two people, and you can't put all the responsibility on the man, and as a woman, you also need to work hard, if you want to sit back and enjoy it, then you go to someone to take care of it.

I don't like one-sided love.

Love him, and ask him, what am I missing?

Looking at the character of the girls, some will, some won't.

Marriage like this is also divorce! You men won't be tolerant! It's always too much to worry about!

He always feels that he has paid too much! And you're always used to him! Naturally, you're tired this way!

If I were you! I'll break up! Too tired every day!

Women are used to care, not your mother's heart.

If you don't want to give up, you have to slow down her with material requirements, if you don't have money, you won't be happy together in the future.

This girl has too high material requirements, and she will always be dissatisfied with you, and you will definitely quarrel often after getting married, so the result is still to consider it, only 24Don't be in a hurry.

A man is not old at 30, and she is divided, at first glance, she is a material woman, and she will be more nagging when she gets married, and you will only quarrel about these all day long in the future, if she is really materialistic, it is better to divide it.

My boyfriend and I often quarrel because I always dislike him, but that's what I say when I'm angry, and I still love it in my heart. The woman doesn't mean that she dislikes you, her real thoughts are to make you feel pressured, to know that she has suffered with you, to give you the motivation to make money and to remember to be good to her all the time in the future.

Mutual understanding is more important, four steps to communication:

1.Express what you want, not what you don't.

2.Express your feelings, not emotions; (e.g., express yourself angrily, not angrily).

3.Express your needs, not complain; (Everybody, guess what I want?) Not guessing means you don't care about me, and then start complaining)

4.Express where you're going, not complain about where you are! (Look at the goal, not get caught up in the event).

Are you doing it right?

Sell two kidneys and you'll be basically satisfied.

Did she think about giving up? I think she may not want you to have a bad time in the future, after all, she didn't give up because you couldn't achieve it.

Break up quickly, such a woman can't want.

The happiness she wants is based on money, and if you can't give it, there's no happiness for her, and your happiness is based on love, and without love, there's no happiness for you.

Do you love her? Are you willing to pay for her? Can you accommodate everything about her?

Women will have this kind of thought, but also want you to work harder to earn money, for the future life of the child in the future, if you can tolerate him and love her, empathy and understanding, you will find that things are not what you think.

The girl is greedy for money, brother, I'm 26, are you in a hurry?

First of all, every couple will quarrel over these things when they are about to get married, don't give up because of these things, you have to think about how difficult it is for you to tolerate and understand each other along the way, as long as you both are honest with each other on economic issues, you will still be as happy as before, marriage requires two people to tolerate and understand each other.

She is to make you grow up quickly, after all, life is you and her, maybe her expression is wrong, but if she really doesn't want to be with you, why get married? I don't think she's doing it the right way, you have to communicate your thoughts with her.

Give up early and give birth early, and while it's not a foregone conclusion yet, you can still fight.

Give up, it's not started yet, and it's going to be more annoying in the future.

Twenty-four! I'm thirty-four! You're still single, you're in a hurry! It's easy to get divorced if you get married too early, you know!

The woman refers to your girlfriend or your girlfriend's family.

First of all, as a woman. I also want to have a bride price, three golds, and a beautiful house. Of course, if the reality really does not meet the requirements, then I can only wronged myself, and I will feel very wronged.

I don't know what your customs are. We are light on our side, and we generally give 10,000 (1 in 10,000) and 3 gold. My colleagues all gave 38,000, 80,000, and 100,000.

First, I think it's not just about money, it's about whether or not they care about my performance. Since everyone is the same, it's not that I can't get married, I will give you my whole life in order to love you, is there a problem with your sincerity?

Second, I also want to save face, everyone has it, why don't I have it, I think I'm a very good girl.

Third, it also depends on the man's family conditions, if he is very poor and poor, if he really can't do it, he can't do it, but it's still the same sentence, it will be very aggrieved. If my boyfriend feels guilty, and if my boyfriend feels guilty in his family, I will accept nothing.

However, I still think that people get married once in their lives, and if they can, don't be wronged. And although my parents will compromise with me, they will still be very dissatisfied, aggrieved, aggrieved, angry, and unpleasant.

Back to your girlfriend is thing, I don't know if he thinks differently from me, whether a person loves money or not depends on his usual performance in all aspects, not from the bride price. This has to be evaluated comprehensively. It's a bit too much to conclude that he loves money and doesn't love you just from asking for a bride price.

If he loves money, if you don't give it to him, he will break up with you directly, there are many rich people, and he has youth. Why spend it with you.