Is life always so hard How do I live

Children: The hardships of life will not be in vain, and this is indispensable for your growth. People say that suffering is also a kind of wealth, don't care what they say, what they do, try to care for the people you love with behavior, tolerate the people you don't like, use your love to infect your relatives, one day you will really harvest family affection and happiness, love them with compassion and joy.

Hello, life has different meanings for everyone, you may experience a lot of difficulties, but don't give up so quickly, because you have to be strong to overcome these setbacks, come on, if you want to find someone to talk to, I am willing to be a listener, be a good friend of yours.

In fact, life is not very painful", I am still a little relieved to see you say this, yes, there are many people who are not good enough, but they are not so bitter, but people like to magnify their pain when they are pessimistic.

I suddenly found out that you actually have a mobile phone, and if you have a mobile phone, your family background is not too bad, right? High school is a bit monotonous, but sometimes it's fun to chat and play with your classmates. Learn what to do your best, don't be too reluctant, you can get on a two, the door to the new world is like you open (of course, it's better to be on one).

There is always a chance to watch some ** movies or something, one is a pleasant thing, or eat some delicious snacks, and I feel very happy.

You're still young and in high school, so it's useless to talk about it, so how to live it, find more happy things, and you'll be much better.

Suffering is due to the fact that people's desires are constantly expanding. When people are children, happiness is a very simple thing, but when people find that they can have more, they always want to have more, they always want to live better.

This is where we begin to fall into that "snare." The so-called "net" is actually a lot of greed, hatred, stupidity, arrogance, and jealousy, which make us confused, unable to cool off, unable to be liberated, and not free in our hearts, but at a loss for what to do.

Introduction: In a broad sense, it refers to various activities of people, including daily life behavior, study, work, leisure, socialization, entertainment, etc.

Life is a state of higher order than survival.

The activities carried out in life, the life of animals refers to the instinctive activities such as survival and continuation of offspring, and human society is based on the activities of animals and human beings are the realization of social nature.

In the face of ordinary life, we all didn't care, but when life was about to come to an end, we found that we still had a lot of things to do, and how good it would be if we were still alive! We run around all day long, whispering, compromised, all the resumes we send out are in vain, not enough education, lack of experience, bad character, and inability, these have become the reasons for the recruiter to veto you. In this world, there are too many people who are the same as you, but better than you.

In the end, in order to survive, you have to go to the front-line construction site, to collect materials, and to work. Your parents are slowly disappointed in you, and your friends are gradually alienated from you. Oh, life is so full of snobbery that people are helpless. It turns out that the only person the whole world can rely on is yourself.

Life is so hard, why is it different from what I thought. You are not convinced, you want to escape, you are not reconciled, so you struggle and resist. But you must know that as long as you live, you will never be able to escape the cycle of life.

Maybe you can be freed after you die. People will not sympathize with you, because a person who is too cowardly to face life is not worthy of sympathy.

Ninety-nine percent of the problem is economic, and life is miserable if you don't have money.

Life is originally full of flavors, but recently you are tasting the bitterness before the sweetness, so that the sweetness will come and your feeling will be richer.

It's already quite difficult to survive! Born in a poor family, I realized my insignificance when I first entered the society, and I truly realized the cruelty of this society.

When I was in school, my parents always told us to study hard, but they couldn't help us, couldn't give me advice on choosing a major, and didn't know what the future trend was.

After graduation, our parents will tell us to work hard, be patient, work hard in a company for a few years, and get through the work. Parents themselves have no experience, and they always hear outside that their children have been in which company for a long time, and they have been raised by their bosses, so let's do the same. But the reality is so easy, the company is a small society, the people in it are complicated, it is small to survive for a few years, and it is difficult to persevere!

When I reached marriageable age, people advised me not to pick and choose, just find someone who can make do with it! However, without a house, a car, or a deposit, can people who can live a life take a fancy to you? Others buy a house and have parents to gnaw on, but I don't!

Some people may ridicule you: you have been out to work for so many years, you have no savings, and you can't find your daughter-in-law, you look at people, the children are about to enter primary school.

I don't like to deceive people, and I don't know how to coax people, people in the countryside have more things, and they do a lot of manual work, and after they get older, they have all kinds of problems. Gnawing the old? It can only appear in my dreams, right?

This kind of dark life, there is no future in sight! Sometimes I really think: how much courage do I have to persist in surviving so hard?

Summary. Not someone, but most or even everyone will find life difficult.

Life is not easy, it has been the common voice of people since ancient times. Everyone knows that there is no pie in the sky, and there is no happy life without work.

Life, whether poor or rich; or living in difficulty, or born into a wealthy family; Everyone's life circumstances are very different. When we are faced with unfavorable conditions and factors in life, it is very important to maintain a certain mentality and what kind of attitude to face the reality with life.

Why is life so hard.

Not someone, but most or even everyone will find life difficult. Life is not easy, it has been the common voice of people since ancient times. Everyone knows that there is no pie in the sky, and there is no happy life without work.

Life, whether poor or rich; or living in difficulty, or born into a wealthy family; Everyone's life circumstances are very different. When we are faced with unfavorable conditions and factors in life, it is very important to maintain a certain mentality and what kind of attitude to face the reality with life.

Hahaha. How many questions do you have in a day.

Seeing and laughing, it's only a dozen

The actor who played Su Mingyu's mother in "It's All Good" said in an interview that when encountering difficult times, there is no other way, just one word 'boil' and it will be over. You get through that sad time, and everything will be fine.

Just like the darkness before the dawn is always lonely, but you believe that the dawn is just around the corner, and if you don't give up in your heart, the sky will slowly light up after all.

When you come to this world, you always have to experience some bitterness to know how sweet and precious it is. If a person is enjoying everything, everything is a good thing, and it is definitely not a long-term solution. Everything is balanced, there are cause and effect constraints, and after many detours, I have understood this truth.

But do good deeds, don't ask about the future. Work hard, sincerely bless everyone, and have loving people and things. Live in the moment, there is no need to complain, eat well, sleep well, in the days, let every day have strength, have kindness, your life must be better!

People live to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard. Because society is very unfair, it is very helpless to live, sad and sad to cry, and if you find something to do, you will not be bored.

Because, life is like this:

No one's life is smooth sailing, so as long as you work hard, it will be wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

Life is inevitable to fall and wait, to be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain!

Others apologize to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about that:

It's a day to be happy, it's a day to be unhappy, so why not be happy every day."

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, so not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, and sincerely hope that you: happy, happy every day! ~

Living alone, you may be carefree when you are a child, and when you grow up, you slowly find that you have more to bear. There is a sentence that I particularly feel: how can there be any quiet time, but someone carries the weight for you.

This sentence is from Su Xin's "How can there be any quiet years, but someone is carrying the weight for you". The phrase "how can there be any quiet years, but someone is carrying the weight for you" means that there is no absolute in everything, and there is no such thing as a quiet time. The quiet years are just something that people expect, and it needs someone to shelter us from the wind."

If the family conditions are average, the bigger you are, the heavier the burden on your shoulders. Starting from graduating from college, after graduation, you have to find a job on your own, earn money to start a family, pay off the mortgage, raise children, support the elderly, and then you are old, and your next generation is probably reincarnated like this. Most people spend their lives like this.

But let's open these processes and see, after graduating from college, our gap has widened, what can I do, for example, I can be promoted in my career development, I can take a test, I learn skills, can I change my current state and relieve my current pressure? Now that I am working hard to earn money every day, can I strive for more wealth for the next generation who ask? I am now working hard to accumulate contacts, increase knowledge, change the current life, and have a good life every day, not only to change the current me, but also to have a future generation to rely on.

Have we ever thought that there is so much suffering in real life, so what is the meaning of our persistence? Do you want to continue the hardship?

Few people feel that they are always happy, and even if there are happy days, it is only for a short period of time, and then they return to a miserable life.

So we basically spend our lives in pain, and pain is also the thing we want to get rid of most in our lives, and it has become the reason why we have to keep fighting all our lives.

So where does the pain come from?

Suffering is both external and internal.

For example, the suffering of illness comes from the outside, because it is beyond our control, and our inner pain is greed, and people will be entangled by pain when they have greed, although it is generated by ourselves, but we still can't extricate ourselves from it, and we really want to get rid of it.

Only by self-transcendence, only when you are awakened from the heart, can you completely get rid of the pain and entanglement with yourself.

But we have exhausted our lives and few people can really get rid of it, not that we don't want to, but the struggle of the self is more unbearable than the pain of getting rid of pain.

We all want to create our own values in our limited lives, but the pursuit of these values increases a lot of desires, so it will be difficult for us to meet the current status quo.

Although life has all kinds of suffering, since it exists, you can't choose to give up.

As long as you don't give up on life, there will be happiness in your ordinary life.

Even if it is short-lived, at the moment of happiness almost all the pain experienced, perhaps this is the best way to solve the pain.