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Dude, are you asking a question or just trying to vent the frustration in your chest? I don't see anything you need to choose from, not even an option.
How to choose love depends on what you have, what you can give the other party, what you want from the other party, what the other party can give you, and what your highest and lowest receptivity is. It's not hard for you to figure it out.
Everyone has their own perspective, and it is a bit selfish to only think about your own perspective.
If you don't want to hurt someone, you must first be worthy of your conscience, and if you love, rush forward! If you don't love, make it clear! Don't take advantage of others and sell well.
Be grateful to those who love you and allow yourself to love him/her. It's a rare thing to be in love! Cherish it!
What are the two (or three?) Speak up and communicate! You're stuffy in your heart, and the other party thinks you're not going to do anything for a while, right?
Wishing you happiness!
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Those who know me say that I am worried, and those who do not know me say what I want.
So just be yourself. There is always the person whose heart aches for you and knows your troubles.
And feelings are not something that can be said by who is right and who is wrong.
Others have no right to say anything. You yourself know the hardships and hardships you have come through. And that joy.
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You speak your heart and let him know what you think. Don't take responsibility alone, isn't it just about opening your heart when two people are together?
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What's going on?
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Family affection is unique, and life without family affection is incomplete; Love is something that can be met but not sought, and the world without love is pale. When love meets family affection, it is undoubtedly a painful and difficult choice for anyone.
If you have to choose between love and family affection, it's like a wife asking her husband: "I fell into the river with your mother, who do you save?" This is a great test for a man who is filial to his mother and loves his wife at the same time.
Save your wife, it seems to be a big rebellion, save your mother, and it seems to despise love. This is indeed a 100% dilemma.
However, love and family affection meet in a narrow way, and it is often a cruel truth. Since ancient times, loyalty and filial piety have been difficult to fulfill, and when you get something, you are destined to lose something else, which has nothing to do with right or wrong, but about the ending.
When faced with the contest between love and family affection, you only need to understand that no matter how you choose, you must be worthy of your heart, and it is best to be worthy of yourself.
Love is illusory a lot of the time, and your question emphasizes that it is your best buddy, but you can imagine that your relationship is very deep, everyone is selfish, once you choose to be with her ex-girlfriend, your relationship with your buddy will inevitably be affected, and even if you and her ex-girlfriend are really together, you will not be very happy... So, obviously, the answer is that you should choose friendship. Because if you choose love, you will end up with nothing.
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As a perfect life, family love is indispensable.
Although sometimes there will be a time when you have to choose one or the other, for example, if your chosen marriage is not agreed by your family, at this time, you have to make a careful choice. Family love is love, both have love, and there must be understanding and love in them. >>>More
Friendship is precious, love is more expensive, if she is really your friend, she will not be angry because you pursue love and ignore her, if she is really angry, it can only prove that she is an unqualified friend, thank you I fainted, do you love your boyfriend, love him more, don't let him think that you don't value him, your friend is not good, why do you have to communicate.
Alas, I can understand your suffering, you don't want to give up, in fact, you also vaguely found that she doesn't love you, but you don't want to think like that, just say that she loves you, but friends, get married, it's not that you love her, there are many things in the future, your parents will be hurt a lot in your wrong marriage, because they love you, they don't want you to be hurt, they have to accommodate your girlfriend and her parents in life, I don't think it's okay to be inappropriate. But if you marry someone who has no moral character, you can't choose, whether he is tall or poor, you can't choose, this is choosing, how to live the rest of your life, you must think clearly. It's too late to get married. >>>More