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That's a question! You have to show your mind in a suggestive way, try to withdraw from his life slowly, and make it clear to him when the time comes. But I don't think the relationship can be forced, if you don't like it, you have to be brave enough to tell him, because the longer it drags on, the deeper the damage will be!
Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, you must know that holding hands and breaking up is to pursue happiness, instead of reluctantly, far-fetched, unhappy, and detached together, it is better to let go as soon as possible, so that everyone can find their happiness as soon as possible! Long pain is better than short pain, what to do, you should weigh it well!
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In fact, you are already sorry for him if you have this thought, and there is nothing to be sorry for. Then if you want him to quit on his own initiative, the only way is to hurt him.
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I think it's better for you to tell him frankly, if you say something earlier, it's actually good for him, you will hurt him even more, find a good opportunity for the two of you to have a meal together, you tell him your real thoughts, including the idea that you are starting to try to make yourself fall in love with him, so that he may not blame you, say it early, so that the damage will be less I wish you happiness.
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Tell him how you feel and tell him how to break up so that it will hurt him less.
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What should you do if a man tells you to break up? Love him a lot?
You won't be able to accept the breakup, and you instinctively want to keep it and see if there's still a chance for you, which is inevitable. It's just that you also have to know that when a woman says to break up, more often than not, she wants to be retained, but when a man says to break up, he is not testing you, he is determined to really want to break up with you. If you want to break up with a man who wants to break up with you, don't get drunk for him, stay awake all night for him, and keep pestering him, your entanglement will not only not change his mind, but will only make him more disgusted with you.
No matter how unwilling you are in your heart, no matter how wronged you feel, you can just clean up your tears, talk to him one last time, write off your love and hatred, say goodbye to him, and never see him again.
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There is a saying that if you can make a man fall in love with you once, he may fall in love with you a second time. The essence of love is attraction, and each other is attracted by their respective shining points and walk together. But after getting along for a long time, if two people in the run-in period do not learn to communicate effectively, it is easy to have an emotional crisis because of misunderstanding each other.
If you want to repair your relationship, what can you do to make your partner fall in love with you again? In fact, the attraction you had to your partner at the beginning is still there, but because the conflict between the two makes the other party repulsive, you can't see your shining point for the time being. Regaining the other person's heart is actually a process of re-establishing a sense of comfort.
When listening, put aside your emotions and enter the other person's world without judgment. But often we have more self-expression in our hearts, and we can't help but interrupt each other during the communication process, because we can't forget ourselves. So when someone else is talking, they try to turn the focus of the conversation back to themselves.
For example, when the other person expresses his frustration to us, "I feel very tired today, and my work is not going well. Instead of listening to his needs, we started talking about problems in our work, or "your colleagues are too unkind, or I'm better at work," and started boasting about our work. In this kind of communication, it will make the other party feel that he is not respected, and he may not be able to express it to us later, and slowly the lack of communication between the two will lead to a crisis in the relationship.
When communicating, you can try to use the first suppression and then the promotion, first talk about the other party's shortcomings, and then praise and understand from the opposite direction, the other party will be more receptive. The most direct and primitive thing in human nature is the concern for the self. As long as you find a way to let the other person express themselves, he will be more willing to communicate with you deeply.
Cold reading can't actually completely guess the other party's mind, but in this way, you can gain the trust of the other party, let the other party open their hearts, take the initiative to communicate with you, and thus establish emotional resonance with the other party. Two people can communicate well to develop a relationship that leads to a deep connection. In a relationship, if you don't learn to listen to each other, the relationship between two people can't be too close, because neither can get into each other's hearts, and when two people's emotions can't flow, there will be a relationship crisis.
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I think you can take each other on a trip, you can take each other shopping, you can take each other to the movies, you can also take each other to dinner, and if you have free time, you can also invite each other to come and rest at home.
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After the breakup, I still know you, but I don't want to see you again, you are doing well, I will not bless you, you are not doing well, I will not laugh at you. Because we are strangers from now on. There is no more me in your world, and there is no more you in my world.
I can't cherish you anymore, I'm sorry, what I lost, and what you lost. 2.Occasionally, you'll look for me, contact me, and your sudden appearance will still tug at my heartstrings.
It's just that I've also learned to disguise you, neither lukewarm, neither salty nor light, laughing heartlessly, and I won't shed those cheap tears anymore. Then listen to you say softly, "You've changed."
3.It will always be a long time later, until there is no way to retreat, that we will know that what we have given up with our own hands will never be encountered again in the days to come. 4.
Goodbye, I love you so much, although clumsy, I have tried a lot, so I have no regrets. Now, I will give you back my love, you Qi Li or give me back the little pride I have, okay? 5.
I will still believe in love, but I will no longer believe that love can last forever.
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If he is very sad when he breaks up with you, or he cries to break up with you, in fact, such a man still loves you in his heart, and he only breaks up because of unavoidable reasons or conflicts between the two.
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I think that he is a man with tears in his eyes and a choked tone, but he is very resolute and decisive to ask whether the other party loves him, and then resolutely says that the man who broke up still loves each other in his heart, but because of these reasons, they will not easily give their feelings.
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