Why liking someone to the end is disappointment

Love is a feeling of loving and being loved, a tacit understanding of the heart, an unforgettable thought, a kind of willing to give without reciprocation.

Seed. Luck for lovers.

Fu strives to build.

One. A piece of the sky, a desire to be cared for, respected, understood and tolerated, a kind of dependence and kindness to each other. Journey. A.

Heart. Move (think. Read.

Time. Heartbeat (phase. See time).

The feeling of heartache (when parting and hurting).

Love someone, to.

Understand and explain, apologize and thank, and admit mistakes.

It also needs to be changed. Wrong, to be considerate and considerate, to accept rather than endure, is to be tolerant.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find.

If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

the world. on, each.

Everyone has one. Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Love. It is silently giving

It is silently forgotten

It is silently protected

It ended silently.

Silent liking often doesn't get the desired results.

Give up and let each other find their true partner...

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

Xiaomei said that she couldn't find her mobile phone, and she didn't know where to put it at home, and she wanted to take Da Zhuang's mobile phone to call herself, but Da Zhuang immediately pretended to be anxious to rummage through it, and took her mobile phone to play ** as quickly as possible;

No matter how Xiaomei finds an opportunity, she can always be skillfully pushed over by Da Zhuang, and Jian Hui Da Zhuang even quarreled with Xiao Mei because of this incident.

The more this is the case, the more Xiaomei panics, and always feels that something is definitely wrong.

Until one night, Xiaomei waited for Da Zhuang to sleep to death, carefully opened Da Zhuang's eyes and unlocked the mobile phone password, from WeChat chat to Moments comments to Meituan public orders, and then to Douyin likes, Xiaohongshu followed, and there was no trace of greasy when she checked and checked, just when Xiaomei was about to give up, she opened WeChat again and chose to switch, only to find that Da Zhuang actually had a trumpet.

The trumpet is simply the fish pond of the Sea King, and he even told his brother on the trumpet that he wanted to learn time management, and said that Xiaomei's figure has become worse and worse in recent years, and he does not pay attention to his own maintenance, and he is always smelled of oily smoke, and he is not allowed to smoke or drink, and he quarrels with himself from time to time, which is really fed up.

Xiaomei trembled after reading this chat record, why did she pay him like this in his opinion. I'm still thinking about when we're going to get married, we're going to go on our honeymoon, how to decorate our wedding room, and what he's thinking about is how to change me.

Expectations are getting more and more indulgent, disappointed again and again.

When I was a child, I bought scratch tickets, and I refused to throw away the word "thanks" when I scratched out. I have to scrape out the words "thank you for your patronage" before I am willing to let go.

When you grow up, you fall in love with someone, and you don't hesitate to hold out your heart. was trampled on repeatedly, until he was abandoned for the umpteenth time, and he was willing to give up.

Who hasn't loved someone like that? Sincere, stupid, and covered.

In fact, many times, death is only a matter of moments. What makes you die is not a fierce quarrel, nor is it a vicious language, on the contrary, it may be an ordinary sentence that can no longer be ordinary.

This process is like a drop of water through a stone, it takes many days and nights, little by little, to chisel your firmness, your love, and finally it only takes one sentence to fall apart.

In a relationship, the most powerless thing is not that we still love each other but have to separate, but that you are the only one who is working hard from beginning to end.

In the face of such a person, no matter how much you give, you will not be able to get a corresponding response from the other party.

We often say that as long as you give sincerely, don't ask for anything in return, but if you don't get the corresponding reward for a long time, it will be difficult for people to persevere, and even want to escape from the relationship.

The most beautiful thing about love is the giving of each other, not the waiting of one person.

I once read such a passage: "Giving up a person is never a momentary thing, when you wear away all my love and care little by little, I have gradually saved enough disappointment in you." I liked it so much at the beginning, but now I'm so relieved.

That's all I have to do here. ”

The more we love someone, the more likely we are to be disappointed, because in Aihong's relationship, our expectations of our other half tend to be higher than usual. They may imagine the other person as perfect and think that the other person will meet all of our needs and expectations.

When we expect too much from our significant other, it's easy to be disappointed. Because the other person may not be a perfect person, they also have their own shortcomings and shortcomings. When we see these shortcomings and shortcomings, we feel disappointed and sad.

In addition, disappointment in love can also stem from expecting too much of ourselves. We may think that our efforts will be rewarded, but in fact, love is not a transaction, and our efforts will not necessarily be rewarded accordingly. When we find that our expectations cannot be met, we feel disappointed and sad.

To avoid being too disappointed in love, we need to learn to adjust our expectations. We can try to understand and accept each other's shortcomings and shortcomings, and see each other as a real person, not a perfect ideal object. At the same time, we also need to pay attention to our own needs and expectations, and don't pin all our expectations on each other.

Most importantly, we need to learn to cherish the present moment and cherish every moment with our significant other. Even if there are disappointments and sadness, we can learn from these experiences and continue to grow and improve. In this way, we can find true happiness and fulfillment in love.

1. Because the person we love deeply is often the object of our disappointment and pain.

2. Having too much hope for each other often makes us feel abandoned again.

We crave a timeless and genuine intimacy for fear of being hurt. Whether it is friendship, family affection, or love code rental shooting, there is a sense of envy between people. Everyone has their own distance, every kind of interpersonal relationship has a distance, too clingy distance, in the relationship, is a disaster.

According to the law of conservation of love: love does not disappear, love does not arise out of thin air, love will only be transferred from one person to another, or from one form to another, but the total amount of love remains the same.

5. Many of us believe that the more we love a person, the higher the degree of dependence on the other party. But we ignore one thing, that is, this mode of getting along is not what the other party wants, and it may be an invisible pressure in the eyes of the other party.

6. A good relationship should be a kind of mutual growth and companionship, and a relationship in which one plus one is greater than two.

A: In a word, the higher the expectation, the greater the disappointment.

When you love to talk about a person like Mika, sometimes you will not be rational enough, and you will expect him to understand you well enough and care about you enough.

But people are actually very complex, and sometimes they don't know what they need, let alone others.

When she or he doesn't meet your expectations, or doesn't meet your expectations, you are prone to disappointment. Sometimes the more you love each other, the easier it is to be disappointed.

Because the requirements for that person are relatively high, they tend to feel disappointed because they are not as good as they want.

Disappointments are accumulated, and after a long time, they will naturally see through and let go.

When you need him, he turns a blind eye to you, doesn't reply to messages, doesn't answer **, even if he replies, it's a faint sentence or even a word, and it's cold across the screen;

When you have something to share with the other party, the other party's attitude is always cold, even impatient, and they are no longer willing to receive your messages or receive them early, and even clearly refuse to accept those big and small things that you care about, you like, and you mind that you are looking forward to sharing, and there is no longer a moment of empathy and sharing;

He closed all communication channels to you, even if your mutual friends have an equal opportunity to see the Moments, Douyin and other software he shared, but you can no longer see it. He has closed all channels for you to intervene and even learn about his life for no reason, and he no longer shows you any joys and sorrows about himself, and you have no access to them;

He will still have daily unhappiness or happiness, but from now on, you will no longer be the person he wants to share. Between you, more and more is left of silence. You will never take the initiative to find each other again, and even after the active party finds each other, there is no longer a topic to easily open the situation between each other, time passes by the minute, and you are only embarrassed by each other across the airwaves, so you suddenly feel that everything is like a farce of your own imagination when you hang up in a hurry;

You are still concerned about him, for his sake, for him, but the other party's attitude towards you has been completely cold, he will only appear when he needs you, no matter whether you are convenient or not, whether you have time, only to achieve your own goals, once you get the benefits to achieve the goal, he will disappear again as if he never appeared. This kind of giving is always one-sided, and when you need help, the other party is as silent as dead;

Any good relationship is that after two people are together, they will want to be together, have a sense of sweetness, a sense of expectation, and are willing to pay for the hungry party, and they are looking forward to paying, and all the giving and giving are with a sweet sense of satisfaction. Both of them feel that because of each other, their future is full of expectations, and they are willing to go to each other better. Feelings flow in both directions, and this sense of security and preference from the other party is full and firm.

If not, you are miserable, even doubtful and hesitant, then forget it and give up. All your suspicions are true.