Do you think everyone knows you because of your popularity? Not to be known for doing bad things .

Not necessarily. There are many factors that govern everyone, which means that everyone has their own criteria for choosing friends. Combined with myself, I will summarize the following points.

1.Talkative. It's not more than half a sentence of speculation. As long as you can talk about it, many times you may ignore some flaws in your appearance, and instead pay attention to your personality, temperament, conversation, etc.

2.Job. Making friends at work is mainly about having strong work ability and being enthusiastic about helping others, after all, work requires cooperation, and having a good friend will also be in a good mood.

3.A friend to make friends with. There are many factors restricting this kind of friend, because there are not too many such friends, mainly because of morality, sincerity towards brothers, and temperament.

Therefore, a person's popularity may be affected by a certain moment or something, but everyone knows you and is good with you, if you have that kind of friend, it must not be a certain moment, something can influence, it must be caused by long-term performance and interaction.

It is possible to think about what you can get out of you.

Or slap you.

A lot of people are like that now.

When I was in high school, I was just like you, I was famous for some reason, I didn't talk to anyone in other classes, I only spent time with a few friends, but I often had teachers come to me (I was a small class committee), and when other students in the office asked me to come to me, people could find me, but I didn't know each other at all. Since there was a young teacher who was a former alumnus of mine and had a good relationship, I asked him, and he said, "You are a celebrity in our school, who doesn't know you?" "Embarrassed.

I didn't do anything more than take pictures of people at social gatherings, help fix the teacher's computer, and so on.

I can speak to you based on the conditions you provide.

They don't want to get to know you, they want to laugh at you. Your third point, 'Fat, female'

Think of what a striking feature this is! (I believe that our Chinese aesthetic is to take slender ladies as beautiful women).

It should be that you have a good personality and are willing to make friends with you.

It doesn't seem to be, it may be the propaganda effect caused by you being a little fat!

Not necessarily, it may be because you have some aspect of the temperament that attracts other people, or personality or other reasons.

Maybe it's maybe you're pretty or handsome.

Or maybe you're more talented. Hehe.

How can you say that you have a good relationship.

There are many reasons for interpersonal relationships, first of all, your status, you have a high status, you have a lot of power, there will be a lot of people piling up on you. Second, you are good-looking, you are likable, all beautiful women and handsome guys are loved by everyone, this is the era of looking at faces.

Social morality, human nature, and interest relations.

The essence of interpersonal relationships is integrity

I think the essence of interpersonal relationships is that people can only play with the same people as themselves, those who are close to Zhu are red, those who are close to ink are black, and the Tao is different and do not conspire with each other, which is what it means.

Those who are close to Zhu are red and those who are close to ink are black, I like the current sentence, the Tao is not the same, the people who like and are kind, we will naturally be close to it, interpersonal relationships, in my opinion, that is, the relationship between people. For example, some of the people around me are very good friends, have many friends, and have many friends in wine and meat, but their character is only liked by the people they like, but I don't like it.

Honesty and honesty, if people can't do these two days, then is there still a real friendship between people?

Heart-to-heart, heart-to-heart, heart-to-heart.

I think the essence of relationships is to use each other. In other words, when I can use you, I am very close to you, and when I don't need you, I feel as if I don't know you.

We are both girls, and she told me that her husband was on a business trip, and she asked a male netizen for dinner, and I don't think this secret is a good thing.

Of course, it's a good thing, because everyone trusts themselves. At the same time, it also shows that he is an honest and trustworthy person.

I don't think it's a bad thing if you can control your own mouth.

You ask your sister, is it a bad thing or a good thing that everyone likes to tell you their little secrets? I don't think it's a bad thing for someone to tell you about his little secret? Isn't it a good thing either?

Because everyone has privacy, personal little secrets, if you are a more trusting person, he will tell you a little secret, your confidentiality can help him say what is in his heart, he feels thank you, if he tells you a little secret, you are a villain, just pass it on to others, pass it to others, this is a bad thing, because others have a little secret, always want to find a close friend to talk about, some people don't understand and laugh at others, some people understand to help him come up with ideas, everything has results.

In my opinion, it's a good thing, it means that you are popular, can keep secrets, and are a trustworthy friend.

Whether a good thing or a bad thing depends on your own ability, if you receive a lot of other people's secrets, you must have the responsibility to keep others tight-lipped, will you have more secrets in your heart, will it be burdensome, will it affect your mood? If there are a lot of people who tell you your secrets, the first means that you are popular, and the second is trustworthy, if you are open-minded and happy to keep secrets for others, then of course it is a good thing!

It's certainly good to be able to share it with you, because it shows that people recognize you as a good person.

I think that's good! At least it shows that I am a trustworthy person in everyone's hearts!

Bad! My own little secrets are all hidden and uncomfortable, and it will be tiring to collect other people's little secrets!

It's a good thing to prove that you are a reliable person, and you keep secrets, and everyone treats you as their own.

Meddlesome. Prove that you are popular. Trusted.

I think it's a good thing, at least people trust me.

Making friends is not something you can make if you want to, it is slowly accumulated by your own heart and time, and others ignore you because you don't make them feel valued for you, and you don't want to change them. It's that you first have to fit into a circle, a collective, talk about common topics, help each other, and so on. There is also good popularity, which is obtained by your own sincere help to others.

The principal is not something that can be done if you want to, so you have to let others see and even the teacher to discover your strengths and abilities.

You also said that it is the fate of people, and what you see is fate. It's not that it's not time. You should be yourself, don't change for the sake of others, there will always be discernment to appreciate you.

If you try to change your original self in order to please others, then you have proved to be a failure from the moment you have that thought. Why don't you want to think about it, why should I be like everyone else? Because everyone has different opinions, it is difficult to agree, so it is normal for you to have a bad relationship with others.

Of course, what I said earlier is also to ask you to be an upright person, and if you don't have the right heart, what I said is equivalent to nonsense. I'm sure you ask that, which means you're not a bad person. So you don't need to deliberately correct yourself, but you must do your best, at least let others have nothing to say.

I was bullied in junior high school, I want to know why you were bullied, and I don't believe that others will bully you for no reason, unless you are the kind of person who is very timid and afraid when you encounter things.

In fact, good popularity is not something that can get better overnight, so take your time.

Personally, I think that the popularity is good, so do 2 points, one point: bold, dare to speak, and not afraid of being beaten, the kind that has the courage to shoot, otherwise cowering, others think you are a bully, of course, this is for others to bully you, absolutely to fight back, my opinion, because only by doing this will others not make others feel that you are a bully, this is afraid of that. Two points:

In this case, you have to read the daily newspaper, go out and walk more, and spend more time with people after class, and gradually you will love to talk, and talk a lot.

If you want to talk more as soon as possible, you have to join a talking group, see what topics they say, and when you learn to speak, if you are embarrassed to open your mouth there, change the group to say your words, and then you will have a lot of topics.

Good popularity, being the principal, is everyone's dream, everyone wants to conquer others, but they don't know, there is no shortcut on this road, only by accumulating little by little.

It depends on which part of the people you want to be friends with If you like to play with powerful people, you need to please them, if you like to talk to you and be friends, you have to be sincere, think about the worthy people everywhere, and wait for others to understand you...

I wish you a speedy escape from such pain and a happy life.

Don't be too anxious about making friends, try to put your mind right, take the initiative to integrate into the crowd sincerely, instead of isolating yourself. Communicate with people more, I think everyone is not deliberately ignoring you, but communicating too little and not understanding you, show yourself more, instead of deliberately behaving Oh, it will be disgusting, let people understand you, others will not misunderstand, and will not ignore you.

I understand, is it that classmates often don't call you when they ask others to play, or chat or ignore you, it's useless to just do what others call, you must have personnel and be good at communication, such as often looking at what topics your classmates talk about, you try to fit in.

Don't be too unconfident, everyone sometimes has the same feeling, feel that God is unfair to themselves, why is their luck so bad, in fact, we don't have to be like that, in fact, there are many, many more unfortunate people than us, I suggest you, look at the moving China, I say that no matter how much it is useless, I hope you can be happy in the future.

Making friends is simple, sincere and sincere. Don't just do something off-putting all the time!

You can be a class cadre first, but depending on your situation and the environment is too bad, I don't think there is any need to establish too good popularity, and it is the truth to get along more with people who you think are good.

Let's improve our communication skills first! Got it?

I think I'm very popular, but there's nothing special about it, it's just that I love to laugh, I can afford to joke, and I don't care too much about it.

Look more at the practices of people who are popular.

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