What do you care most about about your girlfriend?

The most important thing is to look at the eyes, from the eyes and pleasant gaze can see that there is a good impression of you, otherwise the cold sweep towards you reveals a disdainful look is to explicitly reject you. The opposite sex nods to you with a smile to indicate that you are willing to communicate with you, and when the eyes look away from time to time and the absent-minded words stop, it has already indicated that the other party you are not interested in what you say and wants to stop, then you should leave with a friendly and interesting stop and smile, leaving some good feelings for the possibility of easy communication in the next meeting. When the opposite sex sees you every time, there is eager anticipation in his eyes and his expression is so soft and focused, so warm and shy, there is no need to say anything, he is already in love with you, and the smile that shines in his eyes never stops for all your words and actions, then you have gained and will be congratulated.

What I care about the most is good thoughts, a normal person has good thoughts to the outside world, which is also the most basic element of all positive energy, the kind of laughter, can tolerate people, all start from an external good thoughts, a lot of bitterness is no good thoughts, narrow-minded, they look at everyone as if they want to calculate her. Beware everywhere, just thinking about your own interests, there will be no happiness with such a person, and if you stay for a long time, you will only be slowly polluted, negative, negative energy.

Wisdom, the wisdom here is not how smart you are, but you must have a certain emotional intelligence. Let's talk about a former colleague, just call him Xiao Jia, he has a girlfriend, Xiao Jia is also obedient to her girlfriend, once a few of our colleagues had a dinner, Xiao Jia took his girlfriend, at first he didn't decide what to eat, and finally decided to eat hot pot at the meal, he picked up her girlfriend from work, and finally arrived, his girlfriend saw that it was hot pot, and immediately blackened her face, and finally reluctantly sat down, just started eating, I don't know what the two of them said, Xiao Jia's girlfriend went crazy on the spot, yelled at him, Say what you have been cold and hot recently, avoid spicy, and come to eat hot pot, is it intentional, etc., after saying it, he turned around and left, leaving the eyes of a restaurant, and the embarrassed people at the same table with us, and then they all ate casually and broke up, and then basically never ate with Xiao Jia again. The wisdom I am talking about is to have a certain emotional intelligence and wisdom, you can be coquettish and small emotions in private, but in public or other public places, you can distinguish your own position and know how to respect each other.

This is very important, otherwise she will let you have her side and not a single friend.

In fact, the most important thing is the eye, which is fate. In the vast sea of people, two people from meet, acquaintance, acquaintance, or love each other, this is fate, fate does not need to wait, fate is fought for, is created by people, only people who know how to work hard to create fate, is the most rational, but how many people, when fate comes, can grasp it, cherish it! Fate is beautiful, fate is the same as love, it is an ancient topic, and fate also needs to be carefully cared for, fate is not poetry, but it is more beautiful than poetry, fate is not wine, but it is more fragrant than wine.

Love knows no distance or region, in the sky of fate, fate is not never far away, cherish your fate, treat your love well. Don't wait for the loss of empty resentment.

I think of course it's the eyes, the body and appearance are all external manifestations, only the eyes are the windows of the soul, through a pair of windows can do a simple understanding of the other party's heart, there is a good word "look at the right eye", the discharge between the opposite sex also needs to be released through the eyes to release this function, "the heart has a little bit of a heart", the autumn wave secretly sends the truth!

I first look at whether the other party is polite, civilized in behavior and speech. Will you respect people, I don't like the kind of people who like to spit, litter, have no public morality, and don't respect people and make loud noises. The second thing is to look at the height, at least I wear high heels to be taller than me.

Also, don't be too fat, because this is unhealthy, which also means that his living habits are not very good, and he doesn't care too much about his appearance or something, this is external. The rest is family, work. I couldn't find it, though.

Looking at appearance, many people are now from the appearance association, and there are also many Internet circulation, this is an era of looking at faces, or this is a society that fights for appearance, so appearance is particularly important. If you are beautiful or handsome, and you are recognized by everyone, then your object must not be too inferior, at least you must match yourself. Although we don't care what others will say, you see that he is so good-looking, how can he take such an ugly person.

But isn't it very unbalanced in your heart when you face someone who is so ugly than you every day?

Self-motivated, love work, no matter what industry you are engaged in, you have to do a line of love, don't do it here today, tired, do it there tomorrow, and think that the salary is small, this is not good, responsible, love the family, take care of the family, will care about people, will hurt people, the two sides should understand and tolerate each other.

Look at hobbies, if your hobby is reading, his hobby is adventure, if you can't convince the other party to change your hobbies, Dongxie recommends not to be together. The interests of the two are very similar, and you want to ask her to go to a quiet place to read a book together, but all he thinks about is how to go on adventures or how to play. Naturally, hearts will not be together, and there will be no better communication.

The most hurtful sentence for two people together is "You don't understand anything"! Many couples and couples end up inexplicably apart because of this sentence, and in the end they don't know what the reason is. So finding a partner, the interests of both parties are very important.

Filial piety to parents, life in the world, don't be kind and small, and filial piety first, filial piety to parents, I think is the most basic and basic moral bottom line as a person. Now, friends born in the 80s, 90s, and even in the 00s, parents bear extraordinary life pressures, and as children, we should be filial to each other, both ourselves and each other.

Everyone will have their own standards when looking for a partner, and as a boy, my standard for girls is actually very simple, that is, to be knowledgeable and reasonable, to be good to their parents, in fact, this is enough.

1 All this depends on what stage it is, different stages care about different things, even in the same stage, it varies from person to person, and different girlfriends care about their boyfriends differently. Some girls are very realistic and highly pursue material giving, while others are very romantic and pay more attention to the pursuit of spiritual satisfaction in the case of food and clothing. For example, couples in the student era, both parties have not been filtered by the material pursuit of society, so the pursuit of love is relatively simple, at this time the girlfriend cares most about the boyfriend's single-mindedness and thoughtfulness, what he cares about is whether he can take meticulous care, whether he will not see each other for a day, and the couple who comes out to work, the girlfriend cares most about the boyfriend's single-mindedness, and at the same time the boyfriend's career, whether the future is bright, whether he is self-motivated.

Of course, money-worshipping girls may be influenced by the concept of family parents, and they care most about whether their boyfriend can spend a lot of money on her and whether they are generous, while more traditional girls care most about whether their boyfriend is caring, whether they can give themselves a sense of security, know cold and hot, understand themselves, and everything else is not important. As for the question of what a girlfriend cares about most about her boyfriend, the answer is a thousand words, and I just talk about it in general terms, maybe not to the point. I think for a wise girl, what she cares most about is whether her boyfriend is a real man.

A true man, he has the ability to control his great joy, and has the ability to hide his extreme sorrow. He has full confidence in the future and has absolute self-knowledge of himself. He has a thorough understanding of life and a full optimism in character.

He may not have a lot of money, he may not have a noble position, but he must be capable, he must have limbs full of strength, he must have a mind full of wisdom, even if he is poor, it is because of his tranquility; Even if it is ordinary, it is because of his detachment. For friends who have voted for the deed, he can help and be generous as a chivalrous man; For the beloved lover, he can be unswerving for life, and he will be with him like a star for a long time. Hehe, it's a bit too much, maybe you're a man, do you want to understand your girlfriend by asking this question?

In fact, there is no standard and no rule to follow in love, you only need to pay your heart to her, it is enough. In short, whether you are a man or a woman, I wish you a long love, and a lover will eventually become a family!

What women crave most is security and pampering.

So the number one is: whether the boyfriend is responsible, and whether he can make the woman feel at ease behind his back at all times.

The second is: whether the boyfriend is empathetic and knows how to cherish women.

The third is: whether the boyfriend is willing to show concern in front of women's friends and family, because men are mostly more reserved and don't like to show emotions in front of everyone, while women, on the contrary, the more they love him, the more they want the whole world to know, hehe, see if the man cooperates for your little vanity.

Fourth, and finally, we must have a certain economic foundation, otherwise, how can we live by "talking"?

Love Emotional Preservation Technique 2: Girls' Emotional Needs in Love: (1) Often cared for.

Although it is a daily nag, please listen patiently. (2) It has been affirmed again and again. She may ask again and again if you love her.

In fact, she just needs to be affirmed again and again, and you need to give her confidence. (3) Ideas are respected. Strengthen your relationship as you share your emotions.

One of the emotional preservation techniques of love: the emotional needs of boys in love are as follows: (1) Ability is affirmed.

He often wonders if he can afford it. (2) Talent is appreciated. He may have some hobbies and talents that are completely out of his job, but you still need to learn to love and respect them.

3) Efforts are appreciated. He needs to be grateful for the effort he has put into you and for the relationship.

Love Emotional Preservation Technique 3: Three times a day for three minutes at a time, three A plans: First, give full attention.

In our daily lives, I often think that the best gift we can give to others is time, let go of all the work you have at hand, turn off your phone and listen to the other person attentively. Second, affection and sweetness. Non-verbal communication, that is, body language communication, hugging each other more when it's okay.

Third, appreciate each other.

Love Emotional Preservation Technique No. 4: Every mature woman has a very naïve little girl in her body, and every naïve little girl has a naïve little question mark in her body, that is, am I likable? At this time, you need to learn to praise each other, of course, complimenting each other's appearance and figure is a good choice.

Or her ability to take care of the family is also not negligible.

Xinwang: Love Emotional Preservation Technique No. 5: Every mature male has a very naïve little boy in his body, and every naïve little boy has a ridiculous little question mark in his body, that is, have I made people look down on me?

No matter how mature a man becomes, the question mark remains. Learn to affirm him, and nothing is more moving than love. If you feel that there are some incomplete parts of your life now, it is likely that this homework has not been completed.

Women are relatively intolerant, and deep down they think they are weak, and once some things are unbearable, they will look for an outlet, and the boyfriend around them will naturally become the object of discovery. In love, men are not as angry as women, because men have strong rational thinking, are relatively independent, and always play the role of a strong person in society.

Sense of responsibility, if a boy is just playing, I don't think it's necessary, what girls want is sincerity.

Whether or not she is really good and loves her house and her family, I don't think anyone wants to choose between home and boyfriend.

Ambition. You can have no money, no status, but you must be motivated.

Character! Potential stocks! Love her enough!

Looking for flowers and willows, deceiving yourself.