0 Is it good for a 3 year old child to take care of himself, or let the elderly take care of it?

0-3 years old is a critical period of infant development, here is a 0 3-year-old parenting strategy includes three aspects of nursing, feeding and parenting, hoping to help new parents and nurses.

The old man always puts the old ideas of the past in the present, such as covering it vigorously when it is cold, and he is always afraid that his child will catch a cold. In fact, babies are the most afraid of heat, and their basal body temperature is higher than that of adults. In the pediatric outpatient clinic, it is common to see babies with eczema on their faces and bodies to prescribe medicine, but the results are covered by the elderly.

Therefore, it is better for the child to bring it by himself.

If it is really inconvenient for parents to take care of their children at work, then take the elderly to their homes as much as possible, at least sooner or later they can still get along with their children for a while, which is conducive to the emotional communication between parents and children, and will not make children feel lost. If possible, try to take care of the child by yourself, the child needs the company of his parents, and the parents should also grow up with the child.

The education of the elderly cannot keep up. Although there were many intellectuals, most of them did not have much culture in that era, and the things they taught to children were usually relatively naïve, such as nursery rhymes such as little mice and going to the lampstand. Children and the elderly often don't learn much. So bring your own.

Intergenerational parenting is the most serious, usually grandchildren and grandchildren buy what they like. Sometimes it's excessive spoiling, such as not being able to eat snacks, but the elderly will secretly give it because of the child's trouble. will even cooperate to cheat on the mother, blaming the old man is not very good, and often the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good.

It's better to bring your own.

Most of today's families are led by grandmothers or grandmothers, who generally retire at the age of 50, have relatively sufficient time, and have the energy to take care of their children. The first three years are more difficult to bring, after three years the children go to kindergarten, the elderly only need to pick up, they can also have their own old age life appropriately, the best of both worlds.

Adults' behavior habits will subtly affect children, children who grow up next to their parents are more loving, and children who grow up next to the elderly will get along with their parents will be a little estranged, when they return to their parents, it will generally make parents have a headache, from education to living habits, some children will not want to be around their parents, or the psychological transition period is very long.

Parents because of work, give their children to grandparents or grandparents, children and the elderly together, generally next generation, the elderly will be more pampered and even doted on the children, and parents pay more attention to education, will not blindly pamper, will appropriate rejection and criticism.

Children who grow up next to the elderly are more arrogant, many children do not know what it means to share, they only know how to blindly take, and the concept of the elderly and the concept of the young person are in conflict, and the child will be affected. Children who grow up with their parents need to be polite, more loving, and know that there are things that cannot be obtained even if they are coquettish and noisy.

After all, the old man has lived for fifty or sixty years, and we have all been brought up and have more experience. After giving birth, the young and young will have a feeling of not knowing where to start, but the old will not. They can quickly sense the needs of the child, such as when to feed and go to the toilet.

After the age of three, it is too late to bring your own children.

Before the age of 3 is a critical time to cultivate a child's parent-child relationship.

If, during this period, the parents do not take care of the children themselves for other reasons, but let the elderly help them take care of the children, then the children will have a sense of strangeness to their parents.

When the child is 0 years old and 3 years old, although many habits have not yet been established, at this stage, some basic living habits of the child will be gradually formed, such as the child's sleeping habits, eating habits, hygiene habits and so on.

If the elderly take care of the children, these habits of the children are likely to be too "caring" for the elderly, and can not be benignly cultivated, for example, some children's hygiene habits are very bad, often like to wipe the nose on the sleeve and so on.

These factors may lead to the child becoming very "difficult to raise" in the future home education process, so before the child is 3 years old, it is recommended that parents must take care of their children by themselves and pay attention to this aspect of training.

Some mothers. After the child is born, neither parent can accompany the child, so the child can only be handed over to the elders at home to take care of, but there must be some differences between the education methods of the elders and the education methods of the parents. It is more important for children to have their own parents to take care of their children before the age of three, so that children can experience the care of their parents.

Some parents may send their children to the elders at home to take care of because they are busy with work, or hire a nanny, but the children are relatively fragile before the age of three, and they have not yet gone to kindergarten, so they have been staying at home, if there are no parents with them, they are like abandoned children, they will be very lonely in their hearts, even if there are people around every day, but they can not replace their parents, so the parents must accompany their children more, Try to keep your child by your side until the age of three. Although their work is busy, but if you can see the child every day, the child will be very happy, in fact, get along with each other for a while every day, but also let the child experience the care of parents, the child will not have low self-esteem in the process of growth, and will not have some psychological problems.

Parents are very important to the child's enlightenment education, after the child comes to this world, the first education is family education, if both parents are not around the child to let the child go to the elders, then the elders may be more powerful, the child will also have some bad education methods, the child may develop some bad character and habits, then the parents will be very disappointed after seeing such a child. So if the two of us don't want to regret it, it's best to let the child stay by his side, and tell the child some enlightenment every day, that is, to teach the child by word and deed, educate the child through his own behavior, and then let the child grow up healthily.

I think this is important because before the age of three, this is a critical period for the formation of children's personality and behavioral habits.

Before the age of three, the companionship of parents is very important, this is the critical period for them to establish a relationship with the world, develop interests and character, parents are not with the child, not only will make the relationship fade, but also may affect the child's future development.

I think it's important to take care of your own children before they are 3 years old.