How long was the shortest relationship you ve ever been in and why did you break up?

The fastest is not the heart of the tiger, about a month! I remember it was two girls I met singing, and one of them somehow became my girlfriend. Soon strange things appeared.

In the evening my cousin said to talk to him. We stayed close to where she lived. We also played together in the afternoon.

I also planned to talk to my cousin for a night, and she called me. I said next time. She said that he was waiting for me downstairs, one was my cousin and the other was his girlfriend.

I went downstairs and saw him crying at the door, and I teased her for a long time and sent her back. But she kept texting me. Suddenly, she said that she had been hit by a car on the road near the village.

Half an hour to find someone. Suddenly she texted that she was sleeping in the house. Fury.

That's how we went back, and I was very sad. Feel played? And so many others are in a bad mood.

I couldn't help but ask to break up!

Four days, I'm a freshman and he's a sophomore. We are in the same community. When we went out to play together, my skills were relatively poor, and someone needed to take me, and he took me, and it was the first time I held a boy's hand.

Then he talked to me and all kinds of humor, and then he accompanied me to class. Then he confessed, and I agreed. Then on the fourth day, when we came back from our club activities, when I was jealous of him for the first time, he mentioned breaking up.

The reason is that he still can't forget his ex-girlfriend. I was stupid and kept him, but I didn't keep him. It's good that I didn't keep it, otherwise how could I meet a better one.

He was jealous because he let other girls sit in the basket in front of his bike, he broke up with his ex-girlfriend a few months ago, during which he always wanted to reconcile but his ex-girlfriend disagreed, but his ex-girlfriend suddenly came to add him and said that he wanted to get back together. ）

A boy who has liked me for three years confesses again after being rejected by me for the umpteenth time. I said yes and he was very happy. I tried to accept him, and the first day was fine, and the feeling of being confessed was still there.

The next day, I watched what he said on the first day we were together, and I was inexplicably uncomfortable, but I didn't say it, and the two of us didn't talk much. On the third day, many friends asked me to be surprised with him, and I felt uncomfortable. On the fourth day, I still don't talk much and don't talk much, (the two of us have known each other for ten years, and we have always treated him as friends, and this time I just want to try to like him) suddenly found that it was useless, and I felt sorry for him in my heart, and I regretted my impulsive decision.

On the fifth day, he couldn't hold it back, and he said that if he didn't like it, he would say it, and it would be very uncomfortable for us to be like this. Divided. Now I blame myself for delaying him, and I have always refused to let him stop liking me and not listening, others are very good, and I have always regarded him as a good friend.

Acquaintance less than two months I proposed"Let's fall in love", fell in love for less than two months and quarreled, and after three days of cold war, he proposed to break up, and was said that the princess was not angry when she was sick, and regretted that she had not learned how to give her feelings, and she did not grow together. Birthday, the same month, the same day, the same zodiac sign, the same personality, although not young, but both naïve, he is an absolute straight man, I know that there is no room for redemption, and I also feel guilty for planning a breakup from the beginning. There is no love that ends without a problem, and for two hours in the middle of the night in winter, I talk more than in two months, and I divide it thoroughly.

It's not that it's not sad, but it's still light. Bit by bit, after realizing it, love is still beautiful.

He taught me basketball in the afternoon, and then went to dinner in the evening, and then chatted, I never knew each other before, and we talked a lot that night, from childhood to now, all kinds of chats, almost half past ten when he suddenly asked me, can we be together, I was confused, but after thinking about it a few times, I agreed. Then we confirmed the relationship, but then I found out that he and his ex-girlfriend had just broken up, and her ex-girlfriend didn't know that he had a new girlfriend, that is, me, her ex-girlfriend didn't want to break up, but I popped up all of a sudden, and she started to make trouble, all kinds of messes, just like the ex in the TV series, and then her ex-girlfriend's friends, some people I know, and people who also know my ex-boyfriend, say he's a scumbag or something, all kinds of evidence, whatever, it's all out, said that he was still ambiguous and ambiguous with his ex-girlfriend after he promised me. I originally believed him, but he also had some things that he didn't explain clearly, vaguely, and then I didn't know who to believe, I hated trouble, so I broke up directly, I didn't want to care about those idle things, and it was a week before and after the breakup.

And he's my first love, I don't even know if it's a love affair or not.

Talked for two days. Finally went to college, looking forward to a perfect love, a year after a year, and nothing suitable. At the end of the freshman year, I finally couldn't help but agree to a friend of the opposite sex, in fact, he didn't like me much, he casually flirted, I casually agreed, they were all first love, the two of them were excited, and they didn't go to bed until five o'clock in the morning, and then realized that they didn't seem to like him very much, and he didn't treat me very sincerely, so he pulled it, and I can't talk about love without distraction.

18 days, the subject used to be a buddy, April Fool's Day suddenly confessed, and re-emphasized in the early hours of the day. I was very touched and wanted to cultivate a relationship, he was very attentive and gentlemanly, but I didn't feel it when I hugged and held hands with him, and finally chose to return to the original relationship. I don't know if I can do it all over again.

Just an hour, I met everyone for the first time and had a strong sense of fate, and soon entered the passion and excitement of lovers, and even felt that the arrival of love happiness was so abrupt, and she lit a cigarette in the excitement, and immediately extinguished the flame of my love.

After a breakup, if we invest too quickly in the next relationship, it may make others feel that we are seamless, so how long after the breakup, we can start the next relationship.

In fact, everyone's definition of this time is different, some people may think that they can start the next relationship in about a month, but some people may think that it will take half a year. This means that everyone, the window period after the breakup is different, some people can quickly get out of this relationship, completely forget their ex, then at this time, we can naturally start the next relationship. If we want to fall in love, in fact, the most important thing for us is to empty our hearts, stop thinking about our ex and fall in love with a new person at the same time.

Because this is likely to affect the relationship between two people, the ex exists in a person's heart, and when we fall in love with a new person and enter the next relationship, it is not a good thing to remember the ex, and the ex may become a barrier between the two people. When we fall in love, we should devote ourselves wholeheartedly, that is, when we still have others in our hearts, we had better not fall in love.

When we really forget our ex, no matter how long it is, we may forget it in a week, it may be a month or even half a year, when we really forget our ex, it is the best choice to start the next relationship. Otherwise, we will always fall into a cycle of novelty, because we need a new relationship to make ourselves forget our ex, and it is very likely that in the end we will also become incompetent, that is to say, we will not learn how to love someone, so before starting a new relationship, I think it is necessary to empty our hearts and forget our ex.

It takes about a year to start the next relationship after breaking up, and one year is enough time to recover from the pain of falling out of love in love.

One month, since it is more appropriate to break up for a month, it means that you still have more respect for the previous relationship, and if you break up directly and be with someone else, it will make the other party feel disrespectful.

I think we can start the next relationship after half a year of breakup, because half a year is enough time for us to get out of these unhappy days.

In fact, it is not said that it is easiest to break up when you fall in love, but for the vast majority of couples, generally after three months, two people will reach the flat period from the hot love period, and it is not the easiest to break up when they reach the flat period, especially after four or five months, two people have thoroughly understood each other and have enough understanding of the shortcomings between the two, and it is easiest to break up in this case.

How long is it easiest to break up in love, there is no exact law, because the gap between people is not the same, but relatively speaking, it is easier to have problems when falling in love at this time of about three months, because through two or three months of contact, 80% of each other understand each other, so at this time the other party is not suitable for themselves, can you cater to each other, these two questions are anxiously reflected, so at this time, it may also be through a few months of understanding, your relationship is further deepened, This is what we yearn for the most, but when many people break up in love, it is between 3 and 5 months, why is it because they understand each other during this period, and they may feel that they are not suitable for themselves, so. Therefore, at this time, I feel that the other party is not suitable for me, so it is beneficial for both parties to end it early, and it is also responsible for both parties.

Personally, I think that it is easiest to break up when it comes to about 6 months in love, and at this time it has passed the fresh period, and all kinds of contradictions between each other have also arisen, and shortcomings have begun to be exposed.

In the process of falling in love, in fact, the easiest stage for two people to break up is when two people have known each other for three to six months, because at this time the two people are already very familiar, and the contradictions are slowly beginning to be revealed.

Under normal circumstances, it is easiest to break up after a relationship for about a year. But in fact, this situation is also divided, from my personal point of view. When the two are together, if they don't learn to communicate and how to solve problems, then this situation is the easiest to break up.

When it comes to falling in love, I think it's easiest to break up when it's a year or two, because you already have a basic understanding of each other at that time.

What about this, generally speaking, it's good to maintain it for half a year, and if it can last for more than two years, it's basically stable, even if it's a breakup, it also has a certain value If you say a few months, for example, a month or two, or even a month, you don't reach that kind of breakup, basically you can't talk about any deep feelings.

If you want to talk about a "non-breakup" relationship, first of all, you need a healthy mindset, which is a necessary premise, and secondly, we need to use the weaknesses in human nature to maintain our love and make them our real "soul mates", which requires the help of psychological skills.

Intermittent Reinforcement – Forever mysterious.

It is well known that men are naturally conquest and like to play the role of "hunter" in the relationship between the sexes.

A scientific study on the distribution of mice, one of the groups of male rats and female rats for a long time to mate, in the long "couple" life, the male rats gradually lose interest in the female rats, and then the other female rats and the male rats mate, the interest of the male rats immediately returned, and then constantly change the female mice, the male rats will work hard to mate, until they die.

Therefore, in the world of biology, males are born with "amorous and flowery", and in order to maintain a long-term relationship with a man, his desire for conquest must be satisfied.

Women should not "give it all", many people feel that couples should not hide any secrets between each other, and they should be honest with each other. But people are independent after all, and women should be like a book that can't be read, so that men will always have the motivation to read it.

There is a saying that when a man knows you well, it is also when he abandons you.

It's right for lovers to be honest with each other when they're in love, but we can't bet on humanity, just like guys always say that the fatter their girlfriends are, the better, but when they do get fat, they are disliked.

So women can give themselves some space for themselves and always maintain a 30% sense of mystery.

Rationalize cognition – let each other love each other deeper.

Studies have found that if your attitude and behavior are not aligned, it is normal for you to adjust your attitude to suit the behavior. Therefore, in the relationship between the sexes, the party who gives more often loves more deeply.

In fact, it is not how much a man loves this woman, but when he puts in a lot of effort, he will rationalize in his heart that he loves this woman deeply, so smart women will guide men to pay for her, and this is the same for women.

When falling in love, it is generally easiest to break up after three months, because at this time they know each other a little bit and can't tolerate each other's shortcomings in the past, so they break up forever.

Personally, I think that the longer you are in a relationship, the easier it is to break up. Love has a shelf life, and after the hot love period, the relationship will return to flat. If there is too much difference between two people, such as too big a gap in economic conditions, incompatible personalities, incompatible views, etc., the longer they are in love, the more they understand each other, the more they can see each other's shortcomings, the more contradictions there will be, and the greater the variables.

If two people are not deep enough and not tolerant enough, it is easy to break up. Therefore, it is often said that you can consider getting married if you have been in a relationship for more than a year, except for students. If you don't get married after talking for more than three or four years, most of them have emotional problems, or one party has different intentions.