How should post 85 couples get along?

Whether it is after the 85th year or before the 85th year, the way of getting along between husbands and wives in the world is the same, so how should they get along?

First, do not suppress. Suppression refers to intentionally or unintentionally saying something that makes the other person uncomfortable in order to suppress the other person. For example, a husband undoubtedly praises the good of another woman in front of his wife, and that advantage is precisely the weakness of his wife.

Second, praise more. This is the most talked about cliché, but its usefulness is undeniable. For example, if the wife tries on a newly bought dress to show her husband, but the husband is indifferent, let alone how disappointed the wife is.

3. Non-interference. Even if you are a husband and wife, you have to have your own living space and little secrets, which is where the mystery lies and the source of attraction. If one party has to interfere with the other in every aspect and supervise the other in every detail, then sooner or later their relationship will be in crisis.

Fourth, do not despise. This is important but easy to overlook, and I saw a BBC documentary where they chose four different couples, all of whom were in crisis in their marriages, two of whom were separated. The program team invited marriage experts to adjust them, and the final result was that the three couples were reconciled as before, and only the other couple went to divorce, which is the one that is despised (men despise women).

It turns out that contempt is the real killer of marriages rather than arguing or even yelling.

Men should show more love, women should be more considerate, don't be reluctant to "bask" the daily loving life, and less sunburn.

There is a young couple around me, they got married relatively early, and now people seem to be generally not optimistic about couples who marry early, maybe they feel that their own minds are not mature enough to form a family, and they will think that they will not be happy after marriage, but this couple gets along completely differently, so that others can only envy it.

The couple is already the parents of three children, the eldest goes to kindergarten, the younger one is only about one year old, their life seems to be never boring, every day is full of freshness, every day is very hard to fight for a good life, the man goes to work during the day to make money, and goes home at night to take care of his wife and children, the woman is busy with the family every day and does micro-business, and it is also a successful micro-business, she often shares happy moments in life, such as dad and three children playing hide and seek at home, she will share, not to show off, It's just a record of happiness.

There are also men who like to occasionally drink and get together with their brothers after work, he goes out with his wife and children, it seems that they are inseparable, and women will not be angry because of this, they are very considerate and think that he is tired from work, and it is appropriate to come out and relax.

The one that impressed me the most was that the woman had to go on a business trip for three days, and the man was responsible for taking care of the children at home, and the man had been sending WeChat to his wife saying that he missed her, and he usually did everything together, but now he suddenly separated and his heart was very empty, etc., the woman responded that it was okay, I hadn't seen her for two days, do you want to do this. In short, the words reveal affection, and then the man drove directly to his mother with the child and gifts, which was so sweet that it was shared by the woman in the circle of friends.

There are many ways for young couples to get along, and under the premise of responsibility and love, it is very important for men to know how to show love and women to know how to be considerate.

We must know how to respect and tolerate each other, be able to share weal and sorrow, be able to support each other for the rest of our lives.

The best way to look is to respect each other, love each other, and know how to understand each other.

Be considerate of each other, understand and encourage! Communicate, participate together, and work together to make progress! Once one side pulls down, all kinds of contradictions come.

I think that no matter what age the husband and wife are, as long as the husband and wife know how to tolerate each other, be loyal to each other, and know how to understand each other, such a marriage is beautiful.

The most ridiculous thing in the world is that I know the truth, but you are still lying, and you are still telling the truth, so deeply。In this era of looking at faces, after watching idol dramas and chasing stars 95, they did not take appearance as the first criterion for choosing a mate, ranking third. This shows that the consistency of the three views is not the specific standard of a certain era or a certain group of people.

At all times, it is the most important criterion for choosing a partner.

You like to read and he likes to play games. This is a "disagreement between the three views".。You like to read, and he says it's useless to read.

Just pretending to be literary and artistic. This is a "disagreement between the three views"."。You like to eat steak in a western restaurant.

He likes to at food stalls. This is not a "disagreement between three views". If you like to travel around during the holidays, he likes to stay at home and thinks that travel is spending money to buy sin.

This is a "disagreement between the three views".

Now for the post-95 marriage group, the characteristics of marriage are:：1。Insecure boys and girls do not have the marriage traditions of older generations.

The orders of parents and the advice of matchmakers "have long come out of the post-90s, they are insecure about marriage and love, and they don't have enough confidence in themselves to love someone." 2.Young people who crave romance are always hungry for romance, especially girls born in the 90s are always happy to have occasional surprises and romance.

At all times, it is the most important criterion for choosing a partner.

Mainly for children, one revolves around the child, and the other focuses more on himself.

Now the question is so fresh and refined?

2。Never speak loudly to your significant other, unless the house is on fire and it is important to escape.

3。If two people quarrel, if you have to decide the winner, give the victory to your significant other.

4。If you feel that you have to criticize the other person this time, then remember to criticize with sincere love, be considerate and tactful, and let the other person know that you will point out the problem because you love him or her.

5。Never rehash a mistake the other person has made in the past, especially during an argument.

6。Even if you forget the whole world, you can't forget each other.

7。Resolve disagreements as soon as possible, don't rest without resolving disagreements, and don't let disagreements stay overnight.

8。Say at least one word of thanks or appreciation to your significant other every day.

In fact, these eight are some old-fashioned things, which seem simple but difficult to do, but I believe that as long as we treat our love with our hearts, we will be happy one day!

Husband and wife get along with each other, as a man, they should have the responsibility to be good to their wives, all the time, and take care of everything. Second, be inclusive.

In each family, the roles played by husband and wife are different, and each has its own difficulties, and mutual tolerance and understanding is the real happiness

Men decide the direction of the home, and women decide the happiness of the home! A good man likes a woman who spoils him, and a good woman likes a man who praises him.

The relationship between husband and wife is an important part of family education

A few points for couples to get along Come and see.

1.The family is a harbor, not a battlefield. Therefore, a family and husband and wife should learn to be tolerant and open-minded to look at each other, say the wrong word, do the wrong thing, should learn to look at it optimistically, if a small thing will make the bow and pull the bow, must make a win or lose, the family atmosphere will become very tense; Occasional tantrums to get the attention of the other person are necessary for life and normal catharsis of emotions, and it doesn't matter; But frequent tantrums will have a great negative effect and hurt the feelings of two people.

The feelings of every couple are a blank piece of paper, cherish each other's feelings with your heart, this blank paper will become a wonderful picture of life, but if you don't cherish the feelings you already have, this blank paper will be torn apart;

Each family is at a loss, and the roles of husband and wife are different, each with its own difficulties, and mutual tolerance and understanding is the real happiness