Is it better for the child to be in the mother in law s house or in the mother s house

It was originally recommended that you bring your own, but you have already given the conditions to choose, if this is the case, I will ask you a question first, do you love your child? If you love it, you really can't bring it, so choose your mother's house. You've said that your mother can accept the new parenting concept, and in today's society, today's children are no longer suitable for the previous parenting concept to teach.

Educating children needs to keep pace with the times, and cultivating a good social psychology from an early age is very important for children's growth. And what you said about your mother's language shortcomings is not a language shortage. When children reach the age of 2-3 years, language learning is strong and receptive, so why don't you be glad that you provide a language learning environment for your children?

Children just want to learn, increase their learning opportunities, why do you want to reduce? As for the fee you said, you shouldn't give too much, after all, you are also sisters and brothers, you can't say that this is family affection, not a transaction, I have no right to explain this. But you can also think differently and think about it, in your in-law's house, you really don't give anything except living expenses, there is always something to give.

Everything is for the child, what is best for the child? Is it the environment in which she grew up important, or is it important that you have to pay for it? I prefer to let your mother bring, it is very important for children to develop good habits before going to school, if there is a problem with the education method of the elderly, it will have a negative impact on the psychology of children from an early age, which will directly affect life.

As for language, that's what you think is troublesome, not that children can't learn it. In the future, children will not only learn to speak Henan dialect and Hubei dialect, but also learn Mandarin, and even learn to speak English in the future. Therefore, let go of these objective things and just look at what is best for the child's growth.

Obviously, the mother-in-law has a little more, besides, they are all children, and they prefer not to go to **, mainly in the morning and evening.

It's best to bring it yourself, after all, it's better to bring it yourself, after all, whoever brings it will be more doting.

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Only by being with your parents is the right way.

Two children have a companion, which is conducive to mutual help and love, and increases family affection. So, it's best to put two kids together.

In addition, parents often live with their children, which is conducive to cultivating parental love, otherwise, after a long time, the child lacks parental love, and personality characteristics will change, and the elderly on both sides, although they love their grandchildren very much, cannot accompany their grandchildren permanently. Some elderly people spoil their grandchildren and lack strict discipline, which leads to the development of many bad habits.

Children still have to be with their parents in life, study, and work in the future, and if they lack the love of their parents, they may have more serious adolescent rebellion and even rejection of their parents.

Now, many young parents, one is busy with work, the other is unwilling to pay, and the third is the burden. He gave his children to the elderly, and when he was studying, he was entrusted to an aristocratic school. In the process of children's growth, there is a lack of correct guidance, and many bad habits are formed.

Such as good food, lazy, obese, afraid of hardship, tired of school, etc. By the time the parents feel that the problem is big, they have regretted it and cannot correct it. Serious consequences for society, families, schools, parents, and children themselves.

Every parent is busy working all his life, one is for his own survival, and the other is for his children. If a child fails in education, he loses half of his life's goal.

Advise parents all over the world to spend more time with their children! For yourself, for others, for society.

It's completely okay, as long as the conditions allow, how to deal with it is your own business, you have to discuss it with your husband, mother-in-law, and mother-in-law, and I wish you happiness.

gave birth to a second child, one in the mother-in-law's family, and the other in the mother's family, of course. In this way, you can satisfy the love of the elderly on both sides for their children, and also reduce their own burden.

It's okay to do that. However, it is advisable to swap the two children in a week or two. And it's better to bring it yourself or bring it yourself.

Come to a holiday, a room vacation, of course, you can help me, let you two old, you help a boy, but if you have time, you still want a child brought out by yourself, I will grow up quickly and healthily.

Hello, it's not impossible, but you have to think clearly about the consequences of putting them in the old man's home, one is that it is more troublesome for you to take care of, but the two children are far away from you, and then what is the purpose of your child, I don't know why you want to have a second child? Personally, it is recommended that you bring one for the elderly, and the other for yourself, which can be changed every week, so that both elderly people can get rest.

It is better for the children to take care of them themselves, the elders take them with different education methods, if you are busy with work and really do not have time to take care of the children, then you have to ask your parents to help.

It is best to bring your own children, put them in the homes of the elderly on both sides, the lack of parental love and education of the children, is not conducive to the growth of the children, and the education of children should start from the doll.

Of course, you can, but for the sake of the child, it is best to do your best to keep the child by your side to take care of it.

It depends on your mentality, and it's good to have a good mentality