Problems that feel strange to me, I feel very strange psychologically, solve

Updated on psychology 2024-04-04
18 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    On the top 2nd floor, if he chatted with a female friend in the middle of the night, would you understand him? Would you ask him? Why don't you look for her and not me when you chat in the middle of the night? If you don't learn to empathize, you certainly won't be able to understand your boyfriend.

    In addition, if your boyfriend still says, "Okay, it's okay, you can go happily." Then your boyfriend is either funny or doesn't care about you at all, will you be happy?

    Your boyfriend really has to understand you, because it's your boyfriend, so you don't want to go to find it when you're sick, but.

    He also doesn't know how you treat your friends and boyfriends differently, so you'd better explain how you handle them.

    Long live understanding.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe. Didn't you say that you had a normal relationship with that male friend, and your boyfriend didn't say anything?

    He's a little upset, maybe it's because it's the evening you're chatting with your male friend or something.

    Of course, as a boyfriend, I'll be a little jealous.

    It's not that you won't be allowed to make other friends of the opposite sex.

    I just hope that it can be within the scope of my boyfriend's understanding.

    He may want you to talk to him when you're sad or in a bad mood.

    And not other boys.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    yes, I can't help it

    Your boyfriend is also a man

    Your friend is also a man

    I also have such a problem

    It's just that my friend is a woman

    We are very pure friends

    Never thought of anything else that wasn't realistic

    But her boyfriend didn't understand

    I'm also someone who has a girlfriend

    But it's right to think about it

    It's not good to delay them all the time

    So we decided that we could get her boyfriend for it

    Twice a month there was a chance to hang out with us

    Other times, you can meet and chat

    But you can't go out of school to play

    That's it, you see if it's okay

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When you are sick, the person you want to be cared for the most should be the person who has a higher status in your heart. Don't lie to yourself about whether you love your boyfriend or not, if you have different feelings for your male friend.

    You need to understand that what you do is inherently misleading. Your boyfriend loves you very much, he is waiting for you upstairs when you are sick, hoping to comfort you and take care of you, but you refuse his kindness, and risk your illness to go to another male friend who drinks in the middle of the night to chat with him, no one can stand it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I also find it difficult to understand your behavior. Although it is a normal friend relationship.

    Your boyfriend went out in the middle of the night and saw you standing outside, he didn't want to go with you, but went straight to another girl's bedroom to talk to that girl. If he does that, and you don't think it's a good deal, then I can understand you. You can change your boyfriend, and change someone who wants to be as open as you are.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    To be a human being, you have to learn to empathize, for example, if one day your boyfriend goes to find a female friend with whom you have a good relationship in the middle of the night. Then I met you on the way and didn't say hello to you. Ask yourself what you think, if you really don't mind at all.

    Then you're not far from breaking up. In addition, to tell you a very cruel fact, boys have no pure friendship with girls, don't believe me, you can all boys (very cruel) approach girls for a purpose, the more beautiful the more purposeful. Don't believe you can experiment, send a provocative short message.

    Wait for his reply, then say it's a dorm friend who is playing a prank.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, I also think so, I have a female friend, the relationship is called an iron, and occasionally I can solve a physiological problem, but my wife always says that I don't love her, and she rises to a fighting state every three or five days, and I feel uncomfortable tossing! ~~

    Don't talk nonsense, love should care about each other's feelings, ambiguity has a limit, don't think tolerance is indulgence.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think your boyfriend is good enough... If you don't tell your boyfriend about anything, run to other men and say it, you're not happy to be you, right? And in the middle of the night, you still have to go to the balcony to chat? This friendship of yours looks really ambiguous in the eyes of outsiders!

    Change your boyfriend with other girls so you can eat ???

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You won't think about your boyfriend at all!

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If I were a man, I would definitely be angry, and it's always not so good to find other boys in the middle of the night. You and your boyfriend are in the same school, you have to take care of his feelings. But as a woman, I'm sure I'll help you, and we also want the friends of the opposite sex that we want to have, but you have to make sure that you're not interesting to him and to him, and you always want to be the same kind as buddies, if it's you, then it's no problem, just coax your boyfriend back, and then explain it.

    Remember, women must love themselves, otherwise they can't blame others for being hurt.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Your friendship is not difficult to understand, but love is difficult to understand.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Hehe, your boyfriend is unhappy because he loves you and he cares about you very much.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It is best for students to focus on their studies

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Definitely, think about it, how would you feel if your boyfriend went to talk to other girls in the middle of the night

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    What would he think if he talked to a female friend in the middle of the night?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Hello: Everyone will have troubles, and people's lives cannot always be wonderful.

    Afflictions are like a shadow that follows you all the time.

    Our lives don't stop because of troubles, and people can't live because of them. Because, life has to go on.

    In fact, the person who often troubles is generally a person with a delicate mind and rich feelings, and I am also such a person.

    The more you think about it, the more troubles you will have.

    We are just mortals, who can do it to be heartbroken, sad and the heart is like water?

    I'm afraid it's hard for most people to do it, after all, not many people can be chic.

    Now, the only thing we can do is: be kind to ourselves!

    Be responsible for your spirit, be responsible for your life, and be responsible for your smile.

    Everything, as long as we think from the good side, there will always be a time when we can think openly, the process may be a little long, "happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

    As long as we always have a firm smile, then all difficulties and troubles will be trampled underfoot.

    Friends, people will have troubles. How to resolve it depends on your own mentality, and more often you need your own efforts. Change a positive way of thinking to look at yourself every day with a confident smile, I believe that your life will be different, depressed, is your attitude to life, easy to get annoyed, tantrum is your mood problem, your attitude towards life is extremely pessimistic, will always be depressed, first of all, we must understand the blessing of misfortune, the truth of blessing and misfortune.

    If you want to commit suicide because you don't understand the meaning of life, this meaning can only be understood, not spoken, you have to experience life carefully, seriously comprehend, I wish you a happy day, forget yesterday, the center of gravity begins, talk to friends more, if you can, please adopt thank you o(o,

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Find the source of the tantrum and solve it. In addition, it is necessary to find a reasonable way to vent without hurting others and yourself.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    This is a kind of anger in the body, and it should be vented. For example, find someone to talk to, or find a time to really cry.

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